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How can women sleep with more than one guy at the same time?

  1. DeanKeaton259 profile image61
    DeanKeaton259posted 7 years ago

    How can women sleep with more than one guy at the same time?

    Specifically, In or out of a relationship without notifying any of their partners.
    I'd like some insight into their psychology. I'd be specifically interested in hearing from a woman who's personally done this or who knows a close friend who has.

  2. jennshealthstore profile image89
    jennshealthstoreposted 7 years ago

    It goes both ways.I am not sure how a man or a woman can do it. I know some woman who have done this, but to be honest I do not know why people think so differently. To me, sleeping with a person is something that requires a lot of emotion and feelings,love. It is a good question though. Some people can seperate sex from love while other's cant.

  3. aktifistri profile image55
    aktifistriposted 7 years ago

    The same question about some men, though. lol.. As a woman i am failed to understand why some people from both genders do that. I know some people who sleep with more than 1 (of course without notifying their partners), and they came with different and varied reasons.

    One friend, she slept with 1 (that i know) other guy, because her husband who is much older than her is always overseas for work, they didn't spend adequate time together. She's quite attractive and young. Later she found out that her husband's cheating on her, remarried with another girl in her country of origin. I am not sure who started first, but it ended up with she cheated on him as well. In this case, a young attractive woman, busy husband with automatically much less sex, lonely, some man were flirting on her, i think that's enough for SOME people to cheat on their partner.

    Another friend, she has a husband with a higher level of sexual-drives..while she can't really play tango with him since they share a different pace and energy for sex. She had a feeling that he would play with other girl but---I hardly understand---she seems to be loose about it, like no heart-feeling. On her side, she once told me that she made a 'distance-friendship' with another guy overseas..and she seems pretty excited with the new 'friendship'..but she hide it from her husband and said "well, why not..we're not going far like meeting in person, it's only on internet. And i never know either if my husband does the same with others outside without notifying me.." 

    So, from both story, you can't really give one answer. Yes, the second story is not about 'sleeping', but to me the red line of all is the relationship between 'trust' and 'behavior'. But other than that i would say there are some people who are 'sick'..and really do what you are questioning..

    Hope you'll get somebody throw some psychological insight about it..it is interesting to study the 'in-depth-why'..

  4. Seva8 profile image61
    Seva8posted 7 years ago

    Simple,is not love,she was hurt,by something,she can't break up a marriage,one or few children,her life turn diferent than what she expect before she meet Mr.Man.Love does'nt stay with us for long time.you have to work hard to keep it alive,and some women give up,and turn to someonelse,That someone is listening,is making her feel like a woman,for few hours a week or a month,is her getway.
       There are plenty reasons how can women sleep with more than one,if you know exactly what is hapening behind the scenes of every women's life.I am not able to see what is happening,everyone wants different things from life,and everyone expect the best of everything,but not allways turn up that way.
        If a woman sleep in other's man bed is something,and she is the only one to know,and maybe she does'nt know yet,because,depends on people's differences and expectation.
        My advice to everyone who want to keep his or her love,comunication is important,do no get to sleep before you make it up to each other.

  5. DeanKeaton259 profile image61
    DeanKeaton259posted 7 years ago

    I'd like to keep the answers civil and to the point. Male bashing answers which completely ignore the question at hand are unappreciated and counterproductive.

  6. titobay profile image69
    titobayposted 7 years ago

    The same psychology affects how a man can hop from one woman to the other. Maybe we should have a round table discussion to analyze this psychology, right?

  7. Shahid Bukhari profile image60
    Shahid Bukhariposted 7 years ago

    One guy ?

    Remember Katrina ... when thousands of men and women were sleeping in the Ball Stadium ... at the same time !

  8. johnnymission profile image55
    johnnymissionposted 7 years ago

    The exact same way that guys cheat on girls-it's not a gendered behavior, its a human one and a poor one at that.

  9. techap profile image67
    techapposted 5 years ago

    It is obvious in today's race, most of women sleep with more than one guy may be just for fun or may be it would be her choice in dealing any kind of stress or workload. And some believe that life is for once, enjoy till it lasts. And in some cases it may be her habit.