How do you look in the face of someone who betrayed you?
with this im talking about my father who really did me wrong. and I really want a relationship but everytime I c him it makes me want to cry. How can we start over?
Until you are really ready to forgive him there is no point in you spending anytime with him.
Only you can determine if the "betrayal" erases every good thing your father has done for you. While you are trying to come to grips with the situation you may want to read books along the lines of "Toxic Parents" in order to move forward.
http://www.amazon.com/Toxic-Parents-Ove … 0553284347
Some things are better loved from afar.
You can still have contact but minimum and maybe only phone calls or text until you feel that you want to deal with him and are able to deal with him.
I wish you luck!
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