What should I do if my boyfriend likes talking with other girls online or phone

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   LiVeTech33posted 13 years ago

   What should I do if my boyfriend likes talking with other girls online or phone and save their photo
   
   He always turns off his phone at night and doesn't reply his message sometimes. I have talked it with him before. He said I should not check his phone. But If I don't check his phone how I could know the truth. Should I leave him? Tired of this!

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   110mediadesignposted 13 years ago

   He's right, you shouldn't check his phone, but then again you shouldn't HAVE to check his phone. 
   
   Sounds like, to me, that you should spend way less time on this boy and his games and more time looking for someone who is going to respect YOU and your relationship.
   
   If you've confronted him about it and he hasn't stopped because it makes you uncomfortable, then he's being disrespectful of you and your relationship.  This whole situation reminds me of Beyonce's - If I Were A Boy...
   
   Getting respect from him or any relationship should be a given... and here it seems as if it's not.  It seems like he's just stringing you along, because he knows you're going to put up with what ever he does.  Well, the simple fact is that if you abuse it... you lose it.  I.E. If you are going to waste your time abusing someone you are supposedly in a relationship, that you are supposed to care for and love (whether the abuse be mentally, physically, emotionally... what ever) you will lose that person in the end.
   
   I would sit down with him, tell him that it truly bothers you and that you would appreciate it if he stops doing that to you because you really don't deserve it.  If he decides that you're being "rediculous" or "jealous" or anything that is here, there ore in between... then tell him that you would rather spend time on finding someone to spend your life and your time with who is going to respect you as a person than to let him keep disrespecting you.
   
   Above all, the worst thing to do is to get really upset and angry.  If you don't communicate your feelings to him calmly and in an adult  manner, then he will take those high running emotions and use them against you.  Making you feel bad about yourself, making the situation way worse than it needs to be...   When you're ready to talk to him calmly and rationally, then go ahead and tell him. 
   
   Hopefully this helped!  Good luck and I hope everything works out for you in one way or another!

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   LiVeTech33posted 13 years ago

   Hi Sweet, thanks for your suggestion.
   Actually, we talked about it before.He still doing it. I don't want to check his phone and don't want not to respect him. But his behavior lets me think it. Sometimes he talks with girls online. I am tired of this. But when i stay with him, he doesn't do anything wrong in front of me. Girls sent him their pictures and he saved in his phone.
   Should I think girls try to tease with him? I don't know.
   Last time I said I need leave him because of this kind of issue. He was very sad even cried. He said the girl sent him the picture.

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   nightwork4posted 13 years ago

   get rid of him, he sounds like a player and not a great loss. no worries there are lots of good men out there. smile.

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