Why are there so many people on Hubpages asking, "How do I get my ex back?"
It's almost as if these people believe yesterday is better than tomorrow will ever be. I believe an ex is usually an ex for a good reason. In many instances their ex has already begun another relationship! Sometimes it's best to leave a broken mirror alone rather than cutting yourself up trying to put it back together again. Our future lies ahead of us and not behind us. You'll know you've found "Mr./Ms. Right" because THEY will also recognize YOU as being (their) "Ms./Mr. Right"! Do you believe the "right person" for you lives in your past?
I think some people do not want to take their chances with a new person. With other people, they remember the good and not the bad about the ex. They want to give them another shot. Chances are, they will probably break up again. If the issues from the past were never resolved, the problems will remain the same.
I agree to what you said, an ex should stay in the past. There are a few exs' that may come back, but thats rare. I do always see woman that get back with an ex and break up like its a job!
I think this its because this topic has been one of keen interest to a lot of people on hubpages. It's popular, common, and definitely something that everyone has different views towards. The only way they can grab someones attention to their hubpages is by asking a question like that. Once they do, they get people to answer and show interest in them.
I think. I'm not sure. Maybe I'm thinking about money too much these days.
Love is what rules the mind and heart at times. It's mentioned in 98% of songs and is one of the main themes that drives people to extremes.
So of course it's going to be a main theme that's asked about many times.
But most people dont realize that getting an ex back is not an exact science. And will go to desprate measures to regain lost love.
hahahah great picture by the way!
I suspect the real answer has little to do with love and everything to do with affiliate marketing.
I haven't read the hubs that have sparked you to ask this question, but I suspect there a links that lead to ebooks or to a video (that encourages you to sign-up for a mailing list, that will sell you an ebook on ways to win back your ex...).
Lolx nice question though i really have no idea i guess its one of the hot topics of the season :p
You are worldly, you are wise and you have much life experience. But as you know, not everyone 'gets it'. I think we've all been 'there' but it takes a revolution within Self to own "here".
I've come to realise that most people not only enjoy being "there" but will gladly remain.... It makes them feel.... and 'it' feels safe. The operative word here being 'feel'. And we all ALL need to feel.....
Its that feeling people hold on to....... jus the feelin'
its not always the person that has to be right. its the times in your lives matching up so that you are ready for one another. Its also the place. are you both at a place that you can love yourself enough to love another person? THere are plenty of relationships that fall apart because they refuse to give each other space and then learn trhough being seperated, its just what they needed.
I like your answer...dashingscorpio...and totally agree with you...if this person is your ex.....ummmm....it's for a reason...if this person was perfect for you and everything was going so good...why did you break up with each other...? hellloooo....I think alot of people go in and out of relationships without thinking them through or really looking at the traits in their mate...People don''t really change...over time...so if he was insecure and jealous before...he probably wont have changed that much in 3-4 months or weeks...I also think that people are desperate...and just want someone to be with and can't be alone so they will go back to their ex...just to have someone....they love punishing themselves...maybe taking time out to reflect on themselves...and not jump back in a relationship after it didnt work the first time would be smarter..
hahahaha. That is one good question. Well simple answer is; they all cant get over their ex. Shouldn't they all gather themselves enough to understand that the so called "ex" was suppose to go for better. You rightly said that an ex is usually an ex for good reason.
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