When someone close lies, and abuses your trust do they expect you to forgive and move on?
Why is it when your partner or husband lies and gets caught out do they act like the victim and they expect you to just be able to forgive them and move on, like its ever going to be that simple??
That's how they are. They've already breached the trust you had, so it's up to you to decide how bad it was and if you really can forgive them without having to live the rest of your life on guard or remembering what they did.
i guess when u take the vow of marriage or commitment to be with that person, they immediately assume you will forgive and forget, but why should you, if they're in the wrong,simply move on?! I'd say that depending on the situation you should try and forgive but not necessarily forget, as its going to be be a reminder for a few months to come yet. Take each day as it comes and it should get easier but i ask u, is it easier for you to stay and suffer the reminders, or walk away and reminisce the love you still have?
I have had that happen before, yes. I have learned not to be naive about it. I can forgive, but I'm not going to pretend it's okay.
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