How easy is it for a guy to have sex without emotion, especially with someone he

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  1. KateWest profile image69
    KateWestposted 8 years ago

    How easy is it for a guy to have sex without emotion, especially with someone he used to care for?

  2. sam3m profile image60
    sam3mposted 8 years ago

    i think to answer this question, one has to admit that men are basically pigs.  and i say this as a man, so i know whereof i speak.  men are driven by their sexual urges.  they may know that they shouldn't have sex with someone they no longer care for, but they will go ahead and, possibly, regret it later.  you only know this if you're a man.  men are motivated, strongly, by their sex drives.  i'm old, and have never met a man who refused to make love to someone for any reason.  except for me, of course.

  3. lburmaster profile image82
    lburmasterposted 8 years ago

    Women are more emotional than men. We have sex with a man based off of our emotional attachment to him. Do we admire him? Do we respect him?
    Males often respond to physical appearance more than emotion. They act on what they see and are turned on by.

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    rorshak sobchakposted 8 years ago

    If the guy used to care for the lady I don't think that it would be easy for him to do this without emotion unless that there is something wrong with him.

    rorshak sobchak

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    reeltaulkposted 8 years ago

    It's easy or can be easy because if he isn't busy or caught up in something or someone else, it gives him something to do.  I think if he really cared for that person he wouldn't do it, just out of respect!  I mean there are women that behave like this as well, it's just that some of these men haven't met their match

  6. sir_tallest profile image60
    sir_tallestposted 8 years ago

    I strongly disagree about men been's heart are harder unlike women and so they don't fall emotionally attached to anyone easily....that makes it easier to have causal sex...but he'll never have sex with a lady he used to care for and not feel anything unless she hurt him...even then he'll feel hate,anger or both and whatever he does will be to hurt you...thus the act that he feels nothing

  7. nightwork4 profile image60
    nightwork4posted 8 years ago

    i think it's easy. to me sex is fun, not some emotional ride and if a woman i once cared for wanted to have sex and i was single, it wouldn't bother me to do it without emotions other then the feeling of satisfaction.

  8. Jonathan Janco profile image62
    Jonathan Jancoposted 8 years ago

    Women seem to think that men are emotionless creatures. That is not true at all. We've been trained by evolution to hide our emotions, but feel very emotional espcially during sex. With age we become more comfortable with our feelings and therefore more expressive but we're not good with wearing our hearts on our sleeves. So, no I don't think anyone can have sex without emotion. If one masks their emotions because of a certain level of discomfort, it will catch up to them.

  9. puddingicecream profile image69
    puddingicecreamposted 8 years ago

    I think it's hard for any kind of sex to not have the least bit of attachment or emotion. If it's with someone he used to care for, that might be especially hard -- although possible if driven by pure lust.


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