How easy is it for a guy to have sex without emotion, especially with someone he

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   KateWestposted 13 years ago

   How easy is it for a guy to have sex without emotion, especially with someone he used to care for?

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   sam3mposted 13 years ago

   i think to answer this question, one has to admit that men are basically pigs.  and i say this as a man, so i know whereof i speak.  men are driven by their sexual urges.  they may know that they shouldn't have sex with someone they no longer care for, but they will go ahead and, possibly, regret it later.  you only know this if you're a man.  men are motivated, strongly, by their sex drives.  i'm old, and have never met a man who refused to make love to someone for any reason.  except for me, of course.

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   lburmasterposted 13 years ago

   Women are more emotional than men. We have sex with a man based off of our emotional attachment to him. Do we admire him? Do we respect him?
   Males often respond to physical appearance more than emotion. They act on what they see and are turned on by.

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   rorshak sobchakposted 13 years ago

   If the guy used to care for the lady I don't think that it would be easy for him to do this without emotion unless that there is something wrong with him.
   
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   reeltaulkposted 13 years ago

   It's easy or can be easy because if he isn't busy or caught up in something or someone else, it gives him something to do.  I think if he really cared for that person he wouldn't do it, just out of respect!  I mean there are women that behave like this as well, it's just that some of these men haven't met their match

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   sir_tallestposted 13 years ago

   I strongly disagree about men been pigs...men's heart are harder unlike women and so they don't fall emotionally attached to anyone easily....that makes it easier to have causal sex...but he'll never have sex with a lady he used to care for and not feel anything unless she hurt him...even then he'll feel hate,anger or both and whatever he does will be to hurt you...thus the act that he feels nothing

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   nightwork4posted 13 years ago

   i think it's easy. to me sex is fun, not some emotional ride and if a woman i once cared for wanted to have sex and i was single, it wouldn't bother me to do it without emotions other then the feeling of satisfaction.

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   Jonathan Jancoposted 13 years ago

   Women seem to think that men are emotionless creatures. That is not true at all. We've been trained by evolution to hide our emotions, but feel very emotional espcially during sex. With age we become more comfortable with our feelings and therefore more expressive but we're not good with wearing our hearts on our sleeves. So, no I don't think anyone can have sex without emotion. If one masks their emotions because of a certain level of discomfort, it will catch up to them.

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   puddingicecreamposted 13 years ago

   I think it's hard for any kind of sex to not have the least bit of attachment or emotion. If it's with someone he used to care for, that might be especially hard -- although possible if driven by pure lust.

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