How do you build instant connection with people you just met?

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   juliannekristineposted 13 years ago

   How do you build instant connection with people you just met?

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   iamsergellposted 13 years ago

   I guess there is no such thing as an instant connection with people you just met. For me, it would take a while for me to know them well and for them on me as well. We exchange numbers and ate together and did some bonds. It take a while then that we become good friends.

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   janikonposted 13 years ago

   I don't think there is such a thing as an instant connection with someone you just meet, I believe in instant attraction but a 'connection' takes time.
   
   Use the attraction as a foundation to the conversation and you'll find the connection somewhere along the way.

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   reeltaulkposted 13 years ago

   Instant connections do take place.  Those are rare and special,  in situations as such both individuals would have to be very in tune with self as well as people around them

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   dashingscorpioposted 13 years ago

   You have to show a genuine interest in them. Even with that there is not always going to be an instant connection. (Each of tend to "rule people in or out" of our lives often times before words are even exchanged. They may have decided they want to know you before you approached them. That's life.
   
   Imagine getting on a subway train or public bus and there are no seats where you can sit alone. Most of us scan the area and pick a sit next to a person for a particular reason and (it's not the location). There are reasons we "rule out" sitting next to certain other people. This all takes place without a word being said and in a few short seconds!

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   selfdefenselessonposted 13 years ago

   First relax, and realize you don't need to prove anything.
   
   Stop trying to impress and just project and express your personality. Your likes and dislikes. Be honest and let your emotions flow.
   
   Be genuine interested in what she says, and think about interesting feedback then the typical "me too".

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