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How do I make her love me?

  1. ubanichijioke profile image74
    ubanichijiokeposted 6 years ago

    How do I make her love me?

  2. manthy profile image75
    manthyposted 6 years ago
  3. Hailsale profile image60
    Hailsaleposted 6 years ago

    You cant. The best thing to do is be yourself and treat her with respect. If this doesnt work then maybe its not meant to be.

  4. ubanichijioke profile image74
    ubanichijiokeposted 6 years ago

    Manthy, i read your wonderful hub. It was indeed a great help. But, hardly you see a man follow these rules holistically. Hope am right. Thanks so much.
    @Hailsale, youR answer so simple yet meaningful. Yeah, am gonna make sure i try these techniques. Hope it works. Kudos to you my good friend.

  5. nightwork4 profile image61
    nightwork4posted 6 years ago

    your not suppose to "make her love you". i'm just saying.

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    dixie28714posted 6 years ago

    I heard someone once say,  don't waste your tears for the person who makes you cry because the person worth those tears wont make you cry... So.. whoever is out there that is right for you will be asking herself the same question.. how do I make him love me?

  7. carolp profile image80
    carolpposted 6 years ago

    I believe that love is a natural feeling, One might feel it the first time a man meets someone or when a woman meets a man.
    Love can be created and developed, one might find love between friendship to an everlasting emotion of love.
    Some women love luxury and security who are with men that might love them, believing they could love them in return. Love can be created after a period of time but it needs patience, respect for one another. To some this feeling might be failure that leads to unhappiness and giving up both.
    If the woman you love is willing to give you a chance feeling your love in her she might fall in love with you after some time.
    Tell her about your feelings, say to her " try me and you will not regret "

  8. lburmaster profile image84
    lburmasterposted 6 years ago

    You cannot make someone love you. There are certain subjects that qualify to people in love that are very close to friendships.
    1. Talk with her constantly. To be in love with someone it is advised for you to be honest with each other and try to talk everyday. How was work? What is for dinner? How do you prepare it? What do you listen to while driving in the car? Find things in common you both enjoy.
    2. Remain close to her. Not suck together like glue close, but a different kind of close. Pet her head every once in a while. Rub her leg, arm, back, shoulder. Let her know that you are there. Kiss her head, shoulder, back, leg, everywhere. Let her know she is loved.
    3. Do the little things. If you live with her do these. Cook breakfast, make dinner, do the laundry, make the bed, set the table, vaccum the apartment/house, etc.
    4. Give her gifts. Roses are nice. But know her favorite flowers. Think of jewelry. Women like gold. However, since this is so costly, you might want to look into pearls.

  9. LaynieLou profile image56
    LaynieLouposted 6 years ago

    Honestly, I don't believe you can MAKE another person love you.
    That's a BIG decision to arrive at and it should be something that the other party really has discovered for themselves. By trying to persuade someone to be with you or to convince them that you're worthy of their love you could be setting yourself up for heartbreak later when they began to question their "love" since it was something that they felt pressured to declare to begin with.

    Let love "happen".
    Let it grow and progress...and don't feel the need to fabricate it.

    What will be, will be.
    ...and whether THIS is the person for you or not will only come out with time.