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Is it fair to fall in love again?

  1. anupma profile image79
    anupmaposted 6 years ago

    Is it fair to fall in love again?

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    Saugasfinestposted 6 years ago


    Different scenarios of how you and your last love separated dictate the timeline between how long before getting back into another relationship sometimes, but since its simply a questio of is it fair to ever do it again, then my answer is DEFINITELY

    No one deserves to miss out on a second chance to experience love again in this lifetime if its calling on you.

  3. Sunny2o0o profile image72
    Sunny2o0oposted 6 years ago

    Why wouldn't it be fair?  If your lover/spouse has died, (s)he cannot be hurt by your actions on earth.  And if said lover/spouse would be hurt by the possibility of you finding someone new in the event of your death, (s)he probably isn't worth having around anyone.  How selfish is it to want to condemn the person that you love to unhappiness in order to assuage your own need for self-gratification? 

    Even in the event of a bad breakup where you were the one who acted badly (cheating, ect.), continually seeking to punish yourself over it won't help anyone.  Learn, and more on.  It's all that anyone can do.

  4. vox vocis profile image82
    vox vocisposted 6 years ago

    There's no doubt in it being fair. It's only natural. Unfortunately, some people block themselves emotionally, especially if they had a bad love experience or if they lost their loved one. It may sound a little harsh, but life goes on whether you're ready or not. So, be sure not to miss it smile

  5. dashingscorpio profile image87
    dashingscorpioposted 6 years ago

    A person who is "in love" is usually a very happy person.
    Having what you want has nothing to do with what is "fair".
    Life is a personal journey. You are responsible for your own happiness.
    "The world may not owe you anything but YOU owe yourself the world!"