Different scenarios of how you and your last love separated dictate the timeline between how long before getting back into another relationship sometimes, but since its simply a questio of is it fair to ever do it again, then my answer is DEFINITELY
No one deserves to miss out on a second chance to experience love again in this lifetime if its calling on you.
Why wouldn't it be fair? If your lover/spouse has died, (s)he cannot be hurt by your actions on earth. And if said lover/spouse would be hurt by the possibility of you finding someone new in the event of your death, (s)he probably isn't worth having around anyone. How selfish is it to want to condemn the person that you love to unhappiness in order to assuage your own need for self-gratification?
Even in the event of a bad breakup where you were the one who acted badly (cheating, ect.), continually seeking to punish yourself over it won't help anyone. Learn, and more on. It's all that anyone can do.
There's no doubt in it being fair. It's only natural. Unfortunately, some people block themselves emotionally, especially if they had a bad love experience or if they lost their loved one. It may sound a little harsh, but life goes on whether you're ready or not. So, be sure not to miss it
A person who is "in love" is usually a very happy person.
Having what you want has nothing to do with what is "fair".
Life is a personal journey. You are responsible for your own happiness.
"The world may not owe you anything but YOU owe yourself the world!"
by charlesefe 8 years ago
I know to most people,it is very difficult,but if only you know how some things are,and how they were made, you will find out that to get back with your ex is very easy.
by Jorgeregula 4 years ago
Can you fall in love again with someone especially if one has wronged you but you want to stayMy boyfriend and I have been together over three years. He came home one day told me he has feelings for someone else, kissed her and asked her for more, she said no.He tells me he loves me and that I'm...
by neeta chauhan 6 years ago
After having a bad marriage and few years later you fall in love again, should you get married ?If you have a single parent who is ill should you think about your life and get married ?i am specifically talking about daughters who have to live with their husbands and have to leave their...
by Dr Anupma Srivastava 7 years ago
Why married man/woman fall in love again?If a man or woman is complete, then what is the need to fall in love again? Do they do it for physical intimacy or they are really in love? If their love is true should they leave their partner, with whom they are once committed? Should we believe on them,...
by ___RaeRae 8 years ago
are you affraid to move on after breaking up with your ex? are you too afraid that things will turn out the same way it did with your ex? are you afraid to love again?
by Devika Primić 11 months ago
Would you have the ability to love again after a divorce?Relationships fall apart when love is no longer there. Do you think after a ruined relationship you could have the ability to love again?
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