Living a loveless life
I think I have a little problem which am seeking for advise.Can someone help me and tell me why I find it difficult to love someone especially a guy ?
Well the answer is within and can only be answered by you. There are so many factors that can make it difficult to love a guy such as arrogance, ignorance, jealousy and a rest of others but still it will be difficult to answer this question due to the fact that we are all not the same in stature and character. Look within and you will find the answer.
Maybe you have been hurt before in the past by a male figure. If this is the case, you must seek a way to deal with this pain and move past it. Otherwise it will control your life and prevent you from having a good loving relationship.
Maybe you have not met the right guy yet.
One cannot negotiate love or affection. (These things are given freely.)
You can't manufacture "chemistry". (It's either there or it's not)
My point is love is not completely a mental decision. You choose your own friends, lovers, and spouse. However the person you fall in love with will touch you on an emotional level. To love someone they must first earn your trust. Awhile back I wrote a hub listing the 6 main ingredients of a happy relationship.
http://hubpages.com/hub/therecipeforrel … phappiness
Best of luck!
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