How do you recover from someone you have had a crush on since high school?
It is hard to get over anything that sets in your heart. The best thing I would do would be to involve myself in more activities and work into a good relationship starting as friends with another person. It takes time to heal and I was always told to get over some one is to meet someone new. Good luck.
Its hard to get over some relationships but or crushes but the best way is to realize there are other fish in the sea and if you truly know this person you may be able to know what you would like to have in a new relationship. Get out and enjoy yourself with people who enjoy being with you.
To get over crushes, I made a list of the qualities, values and morals I cherish, how I want to be treated and what I respect in others. Then, I used this list to honestly compare how my "crush" measured up. Every time, I discovered that the crush didn't meet the standards.
While there was some charm and appeal to these people, there was also a very good reason I didn't end up with them. If I'd gotten my way, I would not have been happy. There were things they did that I could not respect them for, morals or values that didn't mesh with mine, etc.
I kept that list and refined it. I used it as a guide when dating. Even though some people thought I was being too picky and would never find someone to meet my "Wish List" I eventually did. It was worth the wait and I had the added bonus of not having "unrequited loves" hanging over me.
by Theresa Kennedy 6 years ago
Is it ok to have a crush on someone, even if you are happily married?I was telling this to my sister the other day, that it's normal to have crushes on people throughout our lives, even if we are happily married. It's ok to have a crush, but it doesn't mean you have to ACT on it. Am I right?
by Secretabundance 4 years ago
At what age did you have your first boy-girl steady relationship?Did you think that was the right age? Why?
by Cracknutcase 7 years ago
What does a guy mean when he says he has a crush on u yet still remains as just friends?
by Natashabeesley 19 months ago
Do men recover from breakups faster than woman?
by ShanteD 3 months ago
Can you really have a relationship with someone you don't trust.You can love them and want your relationship to work but if you don't trust them can it? Do you give it time and hope for the best?
by Super Lux 6 years ago
What do you think/feel now every time you see your high school crush?you used to have a giddy feeling whenever you see your crush in high school. now that you've outgrown that feeling, what do you feel/think every time you see him/her?
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