When you fall in love, it effect on your friendship?

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  1. thertastore profile image38
    thertastoreposted 6 years ago

    When you fall in love, it effect on your friendship?

    When you fall in love automatically you avoid your best friend..means you does' t spend much time with them.

  2. profile image0
    JadedLoveposted 6 years ago

    Hard to say. Was there a motive before? My best friend was my best lover. She moved on but left in my heart something beautiful, Love

  3. fatuisred profile image60
    fatuisredposted 6 years ago

    Not sure !I undstand what is going on with you and your best friend,but it seem to me that your in love with your best friend and that is why your aviod them..If that is the case them, you need to let them know how you are feeling when it comes to them.If that is not the case then one needs to keep in touch with your best freind.
    so if something should go down  you have your  freind beside you. It's very hard to keep a best friendship going.  sometime having your best friend as your lover can be good,but it can also bad. that is something to think about

  4. dashingscorpio profile image86
    dashingscorpioposted 6 years ago

    It's natural to spend most of your free time with your spouse,mate, or whomever you fall in love. After all you are considering building a future (together). Eventually your lover becomes your "best friend" in the best of scenarios. However it doesn't mean you "avoid" your best friend or cut them out of your life. Your (family) meaning your spouse and children are suppose to be your #1 priority.
    Any mature friend not only gets that but also would be the same way with their own (love, spouse, family). There should not be a "competition" between spending time with the one you're in love with and spending time with a friend. Most people are able to carve out time for their friends even when they are in relationships. Others invite the friend and their significant other to gatherings. A great friend is happy when their friend finds love. It's proof that it can happen. He or She has to accept they are now on different paths until they find a love of their own. "Birds of a feather flock together". Most couples spend time with other couples. Most singles would rather hang out with other singles than couples. It's natural and nothing "personal". It's to be expected!

  5. ikechiawazie profile image59
    ikechiawazieposted 6 years ago

    love is not supposed to affect your relationship with your friends. Or are you in love with your best friend.

  6. anupma profile image77
    anupmaposted 6 years ago

    Ya very true. Whenever one falls in love, one does not have time for anyone either family members or best friends. It is really amazing how one's life start revolving around only one person.
    It creates a big problem as well. When we need our friends, they would be disappear from our eyes. Because any relation needs time and care.

  7. Clayton Fernandes profile image78
    Clayton Fernandesposted 6 years ago

    I guess, With some people Friendships go a long way, even when they fall in love with each other. experience has taught me, that your best friend can also be that one person's company is all you love being around with. Its only downside is, Getting used to the person. Love turns to poison, when you get used to each other. Something, best friends are incapable  of doing, staying away or getting used to each other. So I doubt it would affect your friendship, if that same friend feels the same way about you. Keep the love strong, keep the friendship stronger. A place you can both can always talk & be normal regardless what happens in the relationship


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