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Should couples marry when having children even if they are not religious?

  1. The Blogonist profile image58
    The Blogonistposted 6 years ago

    Should couples marry when having children even if they are not religious?

  2. Shahid Bukhari profile image60
    Shahid Bukhariposted 6 years ago

    In the Animal Kingdom ... there are various types of Pair-Bondings ... some are for life, others happen, when the female is in heat, and the male just happens to be around ...

    Now if you believe, in what Aristotle says about humans ... as being 'animals' of the 'social' kind ... then it matters very little, whether a couple ... is composed of a married pair ... or made up of a one night stand relationship ... both, in terms of sexual consummation, can lead to the birth of a child.

    Marriage, my friend is a God Ordained Institution ... Marriage hath been Ordained ... so that there is Order and Sanity in Human Society ... Marriage is the Relationship, that "Distinguishes"  Humans from the wild Animals.

    God's Ordained ... is called Religion .... and the Logics and Philosophy's 'Ordered' is called ... Modern "Emancipation" !

    Therefore ... What you do, is your own business ... my business, is to tell you about the difference, between Truth and Fallacy.

  3. dashingscorpio profile image88
    dashingscorpioposted 6 years ago

    Getting married due to "circumstances" rather than (love) is likely to end in divorce. You can be a great parent without being married to someone you don't want to be married to.
    Awhile back I wrote a hub titled "5 Reasons Why Men Should Not Get Married". Because you have a child together is not a good enough reason to get married.
    "Don't marry the person you think you can live with; marry only the individual you think you can't live without." ~James C. Dobson

    http://dashingscorpio.hubpages.com/hub/ … et-Married

  4. juiwei2000 profile image60
    juiwei2000posted 6 years ago

    Get married, don't get married, who care it is the 21st century, there is no law saying just becaue you guys have a kid together, you need to be together, as long as you both take up your responsibilities to your kid, that should be enough, which shouldn't be too hard to do, consider most parents love your children.  For example, divorce people are not together either, but they are still parents to their kids and most of them took responsibilities, right?

    Whether you guys, should get married or not, well, you guys have to decide what is the best choice for you guys, under this circumstances, maybe it is marriage, maybe it isn't, maybe you guys give it a shot been together, maybe you just stay as close friends.  It is your call