My fiance bought me a ring and a dress. since then he says he doesn't want to g

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    briannastoneposted 6 years ago

    My fiance bought me a ring and a dress.  since then he says he doesn't want to get married.

    He's been married before.  Twice. first one he was young (18) and the next woman he says was bipolar and it couldn't work out due to her not wanting to get help. I understand his hesitations but am I wasting time thinking he will someday want to? I love him and feel he loves me but he says he feels marriage is something that if you knew what you were getting into you never would.  Did I just answer my own question?

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    dashingscorpioposted 6 years ago

    "...he says he doesn't want to get married." What more do you really need him to say? You have to decide if you can be happy with the way things are. If you can't then you have to move on. Don't waste your time trying to sell, persuade, or give ultimatums in order to get married. All marriages have their challenges but at the very least a marriage should start off with (both people) WANTING to get married! Best of luck!

 
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