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How many boyfriends/girlfriends have you said "I love you" to?-and meant it!

  1. chelseacharleston profile image61
    chelseacharlestonposted 6 years ago

    How many boyfriends/girlfriends have you said "I love you" to?-and meant it!


  2. cebutouristspot profile image77
    cebutouristspotposted 6 years ago

    Hmmm 3 during that time I have utter those words I meant it big_smile

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    Ghost32posted 6 years ago

    Not sure about girlfriends, but I've said it (and meant it) to seven wives.  Of course, six of those are exes now, but I still meant it at the time.

  4. Daughter Of Maat profile image97
    Daughter Of Maatposted 6 years ago

    I've said it to about 4 different people, but I've only meant it with one. Lucky for him he's my hubby lol

  5. Saleeln18 profile image70
    Saleeln18posted 6 years ago

    I've only said it to two girls. With one I didn't really mean it, I had love for the girl but i didn't consider myself to be in love with her, regretfully I only said it because she said it first and i didn't want to be mean or cruel and not say it back. I was 13 at the time. But with the second girl i meant it fully and completely and still mean it today, she is the love of my life and has been since we were 16 years old, we completely love and trust each other and i feel truly blessed to have her love to call my own.

  6. dipsmi profile image75
    dipsmiposted 6 years ago

    said I love u to many but meant only for one!!!!

  7. Ana Teixeira profile image82
    Ana Teixeiraposted 6 years ago

    I've said it to only one person.. and i meant it at the time.. we dated for 2 years.. and i don't regret saying it at all! Even now that it's over.

  8. Eliminate Cancer profile image60
    Eliminate Cancerposted 6 years ago

    There are different types of love.  I've had many boyfriends (and an ex-husband) that I loved, on some level.  But there's a difference between loving, respecting, and appreciating someone, and that deep connection that you feel when you truly are in love with someone. 

    So, to answer your question.  I've said "I love you" many times, and meant it - but probably only two men in my life did I say it with a feeling like they were a part of me.

  9. capricornrising profile image61
    capricornrisingposted 6 years ago

    Four official "boyfriends" and two unrequited loves - though I don't think I actually ever said those words to the one who took longest to get over!

    The last of the boyfriends became the husband. :-)

  10. smzclark profile image60
    smzclarkposted 6 years ago

    Too many!!! and I've meant it every time. However, I've not been IN love with them all.

  11. xethonxq profile image63
    xethonxqposted 6 years ago

    I would say all of them...and I truly meant it at the time. Love is different than being in love.

  12. Marcy Goodfleisch profile image97
    Marcy Goodfleischposted 6 years ago

    I've always meant it, whenever I've said it.  But I don't always keep loving them the same way (or at all, if things are really bad in the long run).

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    Sarah Meadowsposted 6 years ago


    But the comment box says my answer is too short, so I wrote this sentence too.

  14. gabrielthomas72 profile image77
    gabrielthomas72posted 6 years ago

    Said it twice...one to a girlfriend. And meant it once, to my ex wife.

  15. lupine profile image72
    lupineposted 6 years ago

    I only said it to 1 and meant it. We dated 4yrs, then got married--32yrs now.