Men Who Cook...What do you think Ladies?

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   Michael Willisposted 14 years ago

   Does a man who cooks make any difference in the way you perceive him?
   Does this make your attraction stronger for him?
   Do you think "it is about time he helps out?"
   Do you see this as an invasion into a woman's area of expertise?
   
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   Do you think "a man who cooks is sexy."
   Do you think "A man who cooks, I will bring the dessert."
   
   I have read several articles about men who cook from women writers. Seems that these women writers believe it makes men sexier to the females.
   What is your thoughts on this?
   
   SHould we men be in the kitchen more often?

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      dutchman1951posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      I like to cook, I enjoy experimentating and being creative, and at home, it is fun. My wife Lanna loves it, she says she enjoys it when I do it. I even clean the house...the way i see it...
      
      I live here we are a team, and I did not marry my mother! so why would I not do it. The faster we get done cleaning, the faster we can get out of ths house and gone doing things we like togeather and having fun. It works.
      
      She loves the special meals for two, and we spoil each other. So Why not.
      
      Jon

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      Philentposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      It doesn't matter, but if he can do it then "WOW"! I find it sexy and yummy.

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      agagliaposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      I think men who cook are as sexy as women who cook. I love it when men do the dishes -- if they do them right (use dish soap, hot water, etc.)
         I love a good meal, prepared by someone who obviously likes to cook, and who doesn't make a big, big mess in the kitchen and then expect me to clean it up.
      
          The sexiest thing, is when my husband and I share the cooking, and spend some time making our meal together, then enjoy a class of wine while we dine.

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   AEvansposted 14 years ago

   My husband cooks and I love it, it certainly gives me a break but of course I also help with other things. It is sexy when a man can do other things besides take of there shoes throw them on the floor and plop down in a big chair. I love the help but of course it is just my own personal opinion.

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      Louidam1posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      I also agree

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   sandra rinckposted 14 years ago

   yaya!

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   Michael Willisposted 14 years ago

   Men can cook, just getting some men into the kitchen is a chore. lol 
   I am thinking about writing a hub about this subject. I have already started a Blog, but may end up writing a hub also. Your input will help me gather more information from the female perspective.
   I enjoy cooking myself.

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   lizy625posted 14 years ago

   Ahhh, a man that can cook is sexy, and a man that can cook well is even better! A man that prepares a romantic meal for a woman shines with masculinity.As a woman, I say-"medium well please!!!"

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   Lisa HWposted 14 years ago

   I don't really care one way or the other, but I'm not a big fan of cooking (whether it's me doing it or someone else).  I don't find food interesting, so I'm not all that impressed by someone who does.  To me, spending a lot of time on something that gets eaten in five minutes is kind of a waste of time.    I'd be more interested in a guy who knew the good restaurants, including those that deliver.  Besides, if I cook I clean as I go along, so my cooking doesn't leave the kitchen a big mess.  Other people seem to have a way of messing up every square inch of the kitchen when they cook - and, to me, making a big mess in the kitchen makes cooking even less appealing.

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   Dame Scribeposted 14 years ago

   Yup, a man in the kitchen is a sight indeed with a chef hat, bow tie n apron he will have my full attention

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      lrohnerposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Especially if that's all he's wearing!

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      Sybil Marieposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Oh ya, YUM!!!

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   hoodieweatherposted 14 years ago

   I enjoy cooking as well. Hurrah for versatility.
   
   

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   europewalkerposted 14 years ago

   My husband is a very good cook and I am fine with that. I would rather clean the kitchen than cook.

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    Flightkeeperposted 14 years ago

    Men that know how to cook and do cook are very sexy!!!

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    ralwusposted 14 years ago

    Then I am sexy! woo hoo!

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    rebekahELLEposted 14 years ago

    men who really take time to cook are very sexy!
    it says a lot about a man when he can make his way around the kitchen.
    
    I would much rather date a man who knows how to cook rather than one who just kind of slops around the kitchen.

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    ralwusposted 14 years ago

    I do my own dishes too, and bake cakes and pies, cookies, bread, and chocolate, truffles of ganache.

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    eirraclouposted 14 years ago

    I'm really hoping to marry a man that can cook, because I can't!  I count it as a blessing because I think cooking is an important skill to have in life.  And yes, I think a man that can cook is VERY sexy.

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    Michael Willisposted 14 years ago

    Thanks to everyone for the replies here.
    Like Ralwus...I also clean my own dishes...and that includes pots and pans.
    And I will add that when I am cooking...I do like the kitchen to myself. lol At least when preparing food that is.

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    ralwusposted 14 years ago

    Hey Mike, we're sexy! Oh, I do wear a chef's hat too.

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       Michael Willisposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       lol, I guess we are! I prefer to wear...the cowboy hat. At least a cheaper one. lol some of too expensive

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          rebekahELLEposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          here's your song guys. 
          
          http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UisV5SRxFGs

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             Michael Willisposted 14 years agoin reply to this

             Well, why do you think we like taking our shirts off?

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    ralwusposted 14 years ago

    Yes, beaver Stetsons

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       Michael Willisposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Exactly!

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    ralwusposted 14 years ago

    I know Amishmen wear good beaver on Sunday. LOL

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       rebekahELLEposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       "too sexy for my hair, too sexy for my shirt... too sexy"
       
       remember that song??

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    Gemsongposted 14 years ago

    When it comes to cooking in our house, my spouse rules. I have a fork in one hand and a white flag in the other.
    
    He makes the absolute best stuffing ever. I am a stuffing slut. I admit it.

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    ralwusposted 14 years ago

    I remember when that song was me before it was a song!

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       rebekahELLEposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       I'm sure!
       
       now I have to go clean the kitchen.

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    hinckles komaposted 14 years ago

    A man that cooks, Something to melt for lol.
    
    I was watching bobby whats his name with the grill wow thats sexy.

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       Michael Willisposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Bobby Flay...this man knows how to cook!

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    WHISPERING EYEposted 14 years ago

    MY FIANCE COOKS ALL THE TIME I THINK IT'S SEXY AND I DON'T THINK ANY LESS OF HIM.TO BE HONEST HE CAN COOK BETTER THAN ME!IT FEELS GOOD TO COME HOME FROM A LONG DAY OF WORK AND THERE IS A HOT MEAL WAITING ON YOU

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    starme77posted 14 years ago

    I think a man that cooks can feed himself and thats a good sign

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       Michael Willisposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Very good! Back in the day...one of the requirements a man looked for was a woman who could cook. Times have definatley changed. Now alot of men share the cooking and few cases men are the primary cooks. I do find a person male or female (female for me) who is self-sufficient a well rounded person and more attractive.

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    starme77posted 14 years ago

    Yup Me Too

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    Starbabyposted 14 years ago

    A man that can cook is not necessarily sexier, but is still a wonderful trait.  Everyone needs a break once in a while and when you think of all that women generally already do (cooking, taking care of kids, running errands, and cleaning), then getting some help once in a while is very much appreciated.

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    yoshi97posted 14 years ago

    I'm a kitchen virgin ... I can bring home the bacon ... fry it up in a pan ...and set off every fire alarm in the house. Doh!

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       Jewelsposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Now a good dragon has to be able to cook.  What do you think all the fire is about?

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          yoshi97posted 14 years agoin reply to this

          Bacon makes me sneeze ...

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    Daniel Carterposted 14 years ago

    I was married for 24 years and learned to cook because I wanted something nice to eat, after marriage. I don't know that I'm a good or great cook, but I'm so glad that I can cook for a houseful at Thanksgiving or other holidays, and it's fun. I usually make it a group effort and enjoy the whole process. I refuse to be a slave in cooking or cleaning up.
    
    The women who join us have as much fun as I do, and all in all, I think they enjoy the process with me, but we've never really talked specifically about it. I rarely cook for one or two, although that does happen sometimes.
    
    I never wanted to cook, but now that I'm doing it, it's fine. Glad to have the skill.

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