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Ladies, What Makes a Man Sexy?

  1. qwark profile image58
    qwarkposted 7 years ago

    Pay close attention guys, success with the ladies may depend on how well ya read and put to use what they write.
    Go for it ladies...:-)

    1. Faybe Bay profile image74
      Faybe Bayposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Making you feel important. When a man will drop everything to be with you, or shut off his phone when you're together , or always answer when you call. If he will dance with you, even if he doesn't like to dance, just because he knows you like to dance. That's what makes a guy sexy. Being into you, knowing that it is worth his time and his investment, just to be with you.

      1. qwark profile image58
        qwarkposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        Fay:
        No argument with that very important advice.
        Take notice my brothers....:-)

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        Crazdwriterposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        I totally agree with Faybe...and like to add a guy who loves you for you and accepts your flaws and helps you work on them. a guy who will stand up for you and is always ready to protect you. smile

        1. Hokey profile image59
          Hokeyposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          I do that.

          1. Faybe Bay profile image74
            Faybe Bayposted 7 years agoin reply to this

            I know you do and there is a certain thread about marrying Hokey... But I thought your heart belonged to Tantrum.

            1. blondepoet profile image75
              blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

              Haha that's it Faybee.

            2. Hokey profile image59
              Hokeyposted 7 years agoin reply to this

              When did I say that?  Maybe everyone should see my last post on that thread. I slipped it in and no one but mega1 noticed.

              1. Faybe Bay profile image74
                Faybe Bayposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                Aw I was trying to save the Hub World from unnecessary threads. I will go look.

      3. Greek One profile image76
        Greek Oneposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        I think that they reasons some woman THINK they are attracted to a man, might not be the real reasons why they really are...

        As I have have actually written a Hub on this subject, i would advise men who are interested in reading it.

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          Kathryn LJposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          Why am I not surprised? LOL

          1. Greek One profile image76
            Greek Oneposted 7 years agoin reply to this

            cause you KNOW me smile

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              Kathryn LJposted 7 years agoin reply to this

              Read your hub you cunning minx.

              1. Greek One profile image76
                Greek Oneposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                i has to read over the words "cunning minx" 8 times before I could decide if you were swearing at me, or if I should be getting turned on lol

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                  Kathryn LJposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                  Priceless reply!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

                  1. Greek One profile image76
                    Greek Oneposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                    ...incidently, I decided both were the case

      4. Hokey profile image59
        Hokeyposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        I do that.

        1. blondepoet profile image75
          blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          Oh yes I like to have a man's full attention. He can't be half there, no way.

    2. Stevennix2001 profile image92
      Stevennix2001posted 7 years agoin reply to this

      although im not a woman, but i will say this.  a long time ago, a good friend of mine once told me.  happiness always comes from within not without the presence of others. don't get me wrong, people are important in our lives, as they help shape who we are.  However, if there's one thing I know about women is that they're not attracted to a guy with no confidence. a man needs to learn how to develop that.  because if he's not confident enough without being in a relationship, then he'll never be confident enough in it.  at least that's what one good friend taught me a while back. sure, i always knew that, but she was the only person that ever taught me HOW to develop confidence exactly.  that's why i'll always value my friendship with her.  anyway, i hope that helps answer your question.

      1. Greek One profile image76
        Greek Oneposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        exactly!  It's as if you read my Hub! lol

        1. Stevennix2001 profile image92
          Stevennix2001posted 7 years agoin reply to this

          lol.  hub? i didn't even know you wrote a hub on this topic.  i was just repeating some great advice a great friend taught me a while back on here.  lol.  i guess great minds think alike i guess.  lol.

          1. Greek One profile image76
            Greek Oneposted 7 years agoin reply to this

            we are two very wise men...

            and both obviously very sexy

            1. Stevennix2001 profile image92
              Stevennix2001posted 7 years agoin reply to this

              lol damn straight! lol

    3. Tom Cornett profile image79
      Tom Cornettposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      A big.......long......thick......magnetic stripe on the back of a Visa Platinum card.   smile

      So she can shop till he drop!   smile

      1. Faybe Bay profile image74
        Faybe Bayposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        Yeah... well I could always hire a dance instructor... smile

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      cosetteposted 7 years agoin reply to this




      i thought about this a lot.

      i think men who are mysterious are really sexy for some reason. i also like powerful men. not powerfully built, but men with position and power who can get things done with a single phone call. the more complicated a man is, the sexier he is, to me.

      some of the trappings that men have that make them sexy are Cuban cigars and black luxury sportscars.

      he doesn't have to be a pretty boy, but if he smells yummy and is well groomed, that is very appealing.

      i also like men who are kind and considerate but who remember that they are men and you are a woman, and treat you as such when the lights go out.

      well, that about sums it up all right.

      1. Faybe Bay profile image74
        Faybe Bayposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        Very well put. I would be happy with that, as long as he'd dance with me.

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          cosetteposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          Mhmm.

          i know it sounds strange but i enjoy being treated like a lady and letting men take control. i get all warm and squishy inside wink

          1. Faybe Bay profile image74
            Faybe Bayposted 7 years agoin reply to this

            Yeah. I like it when they don't take a phone call because they are out with you. "Listen I'm out on a date. I will call you tomorrow." and then he shuts off the phone and says, "I'm sorry. I thought it was off." Or better it rings and he just shuts it off, without answering as if the rest of the world holds no worries for him. just you.

          2. blondepoet profile image75
            blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

            Despite all the female liberation movement, you may be surprised to learn that women actually still enjoy to be treated like women, and they still appreciate the gentlemanly things men do sometimes.

      2. qwark profile image58
        qwarkposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        But cosette:
        Cigars stink!
        Your quote: "...if he smells yummy..."
        Ya like the nauseating, poisonous smell of "stogies?"
        ...and a guy who'd actually put the nasty thing in the mouth...you kiss?

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          cosetteposted 7 years agoin reply to this



          roll

          um

          really?

          this is a debate now?

          well........since you asked, thereby throwing off the wonderful chi of this once great topic, i find things like that exclusively male and for some reason that appeals to me. to me they are manly symbols and i associate things like that with exciting men. so sue me. (and i was talking about quality Cuban cigars not dimestore ones)

          when i say i like it when men smell nice i mean when they wear expensive cologne but i assumed that was a given.

          it's just too bad every comment anyone makes on here has to become a source of contention with people. whatever, i won't comment on any of your topics anymore, sheesh.............!

          1. qwark profile image58
            qwarkposted 7 years agoin reply to this

            Cosette:
            Take a deep breath....I'm just a health nut who has never smoked.
            To me even the smell of an expensive "stogie" stinks.
            I'd think it would overwhelm the sweet scent of expensive cologne.
            But hey, I have to appreciate and respect
            your words, if that turns ya on.
            My intention was not to be insulting.
            I am just a curious male who is also learning.
            WE don't want ya to stop responding..
            Are ya ok?....:-)

      3. blondepoet profile image75
        blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        Oh a yummy smell does it for me smile

    5. Pandoras Box profile image69
      Pandoras Boxposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      210 posts in 6 hours! LOL. You hit a winner here, Qwark.

      Okay I'll bite. ...Okay no I won't!

      I'll give a generalized answer, about some things anyway. Intelligent but compassionate, confident but humble, assertive but sensitive, fit but not obsessed about it, great sense of humor but not a clown. Probably more but that's it off of the top of my head.

      I'll say this for sure, which probably doesn't come across in the above. I don't think it's about looks so much for women, but maybe I'm wrong. Then again, I mean like, if he's -no offense to anyone- unhealthy looking then I think that's an indication of a weak mind, so a definite turn-off.

      This was fun! Too bad we can't have them custom made, but then I guess it wouldn't be nearly as fun if we knew exactly what we were getting.

      Oh yeah, nobody boring, or easily bored, or easily entertained. No TV boobs.

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    Kathryn LJposted 7 years ago

    Well according to the many examples in the media; loads of money or a career in politics seems to make the most unpalatable of men irresistable.  Failing that, try being genuine.  Or funny.  Or have a fabulous backside.  Or gay.  Hell, there's no one definative thing that makes a man sexy.  Depends on the gal.

  3. blondepoet profile image75
    blondepoetposted 7 years ago

    Def a man that makes me laugh. When I laugh I feel so alive and that's what is important in life. Also a man that tells you that you look good. Makes you feel good about yourself, proud to be a woman.
    Nothing is more of a turn on than being with a man who is confident, great at conversation and makes you feel a million dollars.
    Sexy eyes and a great smile well that is an extra a woman cannot resist.

    1. Hokey profile image59
      Hokeyposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      I do that too.

      1. blondepoet profile image75
        blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        I bet you do too Hokey. You are an exceptional male. smile

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        Kathryn LJposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        You are such a flirt Hokey, didn't you post a discussion the other day on who would like to marry you?  And weren't the girls just falling over themselves to do so?

        1. Hokey profile image59
          Hokeyposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          Hmmmmmmmm...............  wink

          1. blondepoet profile image75
            blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

            I think he just loves and adores women and is enjoying being single before he gets hooked up lol.

            1. Hokey profile image59
              Hokeyposted 7 years agoin reply to this

              Read my last post on the Marry Hokey thread  wink

              1. Faybe Bay profile image74
                Faybe Bayposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                Alright. I read it and we ladies are maybe  gonna open it back up. That's like a breach of Hokey Promise! smile

            2. Hokey profile image59
              Hokeyposted 7 years agoin reply to this

              I do love and adore women.

              1. blondepoet profile image75
                blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                Nothing wrong with that Hokey Pokey!!! smile

    2. drej2522 profile image82
      drej2522posted 7 years agoin reply to this

      dammit...I'm really really close! heh

      1. blondepoet profile image75
        blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        I never doubted you Dre...smile smile

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    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

    aaaa Hokey wants to do all of that for us? he is so cute big_smile

    1. Hokey profile image59
      Hokeyposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      I really do all of that. When I am with a woman I like to make her smile any way I can. I have an ex that told me I told her she was beautiful too much! I would tell her 3 or 4 times a day I thought she was the most beautiful woman I have ever known. She had issues though. lol

      1. blondepoet profile image75
        blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        Oh I would never get sick of that.
        A woman wants to feel the most beautiful woman in her man's eyes. Well most women...lol.
        Can't stand men who rip at a women's esteem...grrrr...why do women stay with them?....mainly low self esteem.

        1. Hokey profile image59
          Hokeyposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          I would never do that.

        2. Faybe Bay profile image74
          Faybe Bayposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          They make you afraid it's your fault and you are lucky to have anyone at all, that's why we stayed.

  5. qwark profile image58
    qwarkposted 7 years ago

    My g/f told me that she and her friend/girl used to love to go to "gay" clubs 'cause the guys were gorgeous, loved to dance, talk about "girly" stuff and never hit on em...lol

    1. Faybe Bay profile image74
      Faybe Bayposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      I know those girls! I've been out with them... but the drawback is if girls start hitting on you... or if they throw you out for dancing with a guy, both of which happened to me... smile

  6. H.C Porter profile image79
    H.C Porterposted 7 years ago

    A sexy man is a man that is supportive and encouraging towards your wants and dreams. He is a guy that sticks around when life isnt all peaches and cream-and he is there holding your hand, reminding you when it was that way.
    He carries confidence but isnt cocky.
    You can leave him alone with your dad and brothers and he will be on his best behavior paying them respect-but wont let anyone bad mouth you.
    He is serious when it is appropriate but can make you laugh when everything is going wrong.
    (It also doesnt hurt for him to be able to work on your car- fix the broken toilet- make you dinner- and have a cute butt)   big_smile    big_smile

    1. blondepoet profile image75
      blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Oh I cannot resist a cute butt!!! Especially in a nice pair of jeans.

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        Crazdwriterposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        That and with a cowboy hat yikes big_smile ooo I let out my secret lol

        1. blondepoet profile image75
          blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          Oh cowboy hat.........ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. Yea right on, ride em cow-boy I say.

      2. H.C Porter profile image79
        H.C Porterposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        Yep-There is nothing quite like a cute butt in a nice pair of jeans bending over your car working on the alternator, lol... And if he has a nice back with great definition....SOLD!  tongue   big_smile  yikes

        1. Greek One profile image76
          Greek Oneposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          Before today, i have never heard the word "car" used for a woman's body... not "alternator" for the word 'vagina"

    2. SummerSteward profile image60
      SummerStewardposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      cute butts are the best!

      1. Hokey profile image59
        Hokeyposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        I have a great butt!

        1. blondepoet profile image75
          blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          Prove it Hokey!!!!
          Need confirmation LMAO.

          1. Hokey profile image59
            Hokeyposted 7 years agoin reply to this

            You would like that huh? wink

            1. SummerSteward profile image60
              SummerStewardposted 7 years agoin reply to this

              I'd look smile

            2. blondepoet profile image75
              blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

              Hell yeah. Never one to deny a good butt lol.

          2. Hokey profile image59
            Hokeyposted 7 years agoin reply to this

            I only have a picture of my stomach and chest.

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              Pani Midnyte Odinposted 7 years agoin reply to this

              I wouldn't mind seeing your chest wink

              1. blondepoet profile image75
                blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                I have seen that one and may I say the goods look mighty fine from here in OZ land!!!

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                  Pani Midnyte Odinposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                  Now I REALLY wanna see. BP has great taste so I know the goods MUST look good if she likes them lol

                  1. blondepoet profile image75
                    blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                    Aww tks Pani...ooooo.... I am looking at it right now....oh where are my sunglasses to shield me from this hotness ROFL...

                2. SummerSteward profile image60
                  SummerStewardposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                  I agree with blondepoet.. very nice.

              2. Hokey profile image59
                Hokeyposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                Here you go.  wink

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                  Pani Midnyte Odinposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                  Yes, you're definitely getting a treat from me, Hokey wink

                  The goods look real good lol

  7. Wayne Orvisburg profile image74
    Wayne Orvisburgposted 7 years ago

    For the record, I used to make lots of girls laugh in high school. Guess what though, rarely got a date. Oddly enough I ended up marrying the woman that finds me very unamusing most of the time. I think the "makes me laugh" has to be accompanied with something else.

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      Kathryn LJposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Once a guy gets married Wayne, he is rarely amusing. Te he.

      1. H.C Porter profile image79
        H.C Porterposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        LOL... Why is that-what was once charming and funny is all of a sudden annoying and irritates you?

        1. Greek One profile image76
          Greek Oneposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          it's not the woman that changes.. it's the man

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            Kathryn LJposted 7 years agoin reply to this

            I have this theory that once a guy gets married, he thinks he is sitting the worlds longest exam on the subject of what women expect of him.  This makes him anxious and then he takes the world far too seriously. Or, his wife is constantly telling him what a disappointment he is without actually coming out and saying it.  Lets face it guys once your married your screwed.  Literally, if your lucky.

            1. Greek One profile image76
              Greek Oneposted 7 years agoin reply to this

              Once he gets married, a man thinks theat the exams are over.. so he doesnt have to try anymore to be attractive to his mate.

              1. Hokey profile image59
                Hokeyposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                Not true for everyone.

                1. Greek One profile image76
                  Greek Oneposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                  yes... you are right.. not true for everyone

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                  Kathryn LJposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                  Certainly not with me.  I used to write exam papers!  And for the record have never written 'could do better' or used a red pen.  All far too serious!

                  1. Greek One profile image76
                    Greek Oneposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                    i once wrote "could do better" in a red pen on a woman's butt...

                    man, my face stung for a week after that slap!

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                Pani Midnyte Odinposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                The men I find most attractive aren't TRYING to be attractive anyway. They are the men who are confident with themselves and they just ARE sexy.

                1. Greek One profile image76
                  Greek Oneposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                  to some it comes naturally..

                  to others it is learned behaviour...

                  some act in certain ways on purpose, some just because that's is how they are..

            2. Hokey profile image59
              Hokeyposted 7 years agoin reply to this

              I like being screwed.  tongue

              1. blondepoet profile image75
                blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                And doing thrusts as you previously said. smile smile

                1. Hokey profile image59
                  Hokeyposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                  Yeah. The a$$ comes from skating and surfing.  wink

  8. SummerSteward profile image60
    SummerStewardposted 7 years ago

    - Sarcastic and witty
    - an unselfish lover
    - Independent
    - Trusting
    - Protective of me ( Not afraid to throw a punch if need be )
    - Likes hanging out with my gay boyfriends. smile

    1. SummerSteward profile image60
      SummerStewardposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      or at least tolerant ...

  9. Stevennix2001 profile image92
    Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago

    well go easy on hokey.  besides, it can't be easy for any guy to choose from all the lovely ladies  that entered to try to win his hand in hub marriage.  wink lol

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    Pani Midnyte Odinposted 7 years ago

    Well, there are many things that can make a man sexy. Each woman looks for slightly different things.

    I look for a man I feel comfortable around, a man who makes me feel like I can be myself no matter what and he'll love me anyway. I love a man who can laugh at himself and make me laugh with him. I love a man who is protective, although not controlling and can make me feel like the whole world disappears when he takes me into his arms, like we are the only two people on earth. He should be someone I can talk to for hours about anything or just sit in comfortable silence with. He should kiss me often and hug me even more often. Someone who shows affection openly and is fun and playful too.

    1. Faybe Bay profile image74
      Faybe Bayposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      And hold hands, that is real important.

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        Pani Midnyte Odinposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        Ah yes, holding hands is very important too smile

        1. Hokey profile image59
          Hokeyposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          I love holding hands! wink

          1. Faybe Bay profile image74
            Faybe Bayposted 7 years agoin reply to this

            Ooo, takin the shirt off for this.smile

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            Pani Midnyte Odinposted 7 years agoin reply to this

            I LIKE holding hands, but I'd LOVE to rub that chest of yours big_smile

            1. blondepoet profile image75
              blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

              Oooooooo it is on now. smile smile

              1. Hokey profile image59
                Hokeyposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                Catch a quick flight and you can come too. big_smile

            2. Hokey profile image59
              Hokeyposted 7 years agoin reply to this

              You just may get the chance!!!!    wink

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                Pani Midnyte Odinposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                Searching for my car keys and some gas money now, only six hours lol

                Seriously wish I had the car today... sigh big_smile

    2. blondepoet profile image75
      blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      I love affection!!!!!!

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    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

    lol Look at what you started qwark

    1. Faybe Bay profile image74
      Faybe Bayposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      didn't take much did it?

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        Crazdwriterposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        Nope never does lol

    2. qwark profile image58
      qwarkposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      I love it!!!...:-)

  12. qwark profile image58
    qwarkposted 7 years ago

    I've found that "women" are the pickers.
    if you can walk into a room and tell which women are attracted by you, don't waste your time on the gorgeous ones who show no interest.
    concentrate on the ones who let you know, they want to meet you.
    Approach them with respect. Introduce yourself. No fancy, stupid lines.
    Listen to her.
    Don't be too aggressive, and touchy, but be confident.
    Respond to her moves...gently but let her know you are interested.
    I think the main thing is to know, that the lady rules!
    Be sensitive and responsive to "HER" moves....
    Am I right ladies?

    1. Greek One profile image76
      Greek Oneposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      come on.... the "gorgeous ones who show no interest" are the most fun!

      1. qwark profile image58
        qwarkposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        lolol   Greek:
        Not if ya wan't to be assured yer gonna get laid that nite.
        Some of those who show interest in you are gonna be gorgeous anyway.

        1. Greek One profile image76
          Greek Oneposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          Are we discussing getting laid on a given night, or what is sexy to a woman?  These are two different questions.

          If we are talking about what is sexy to a woman, then what you suggest (and the mindset of "settling" it suggests) isn't going to get you very far most often.

          If, however, you are just talking about getting laid on a particular night, then just go up to a given woman and if she is giving you signals that she is physically attracted to you, then all you have to ask her is "What are we still doing here?"

          1. blondepoet profile image75
            blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

            Or put 50 cents on the table in front of her. When she asks what that is for, you tell her it is to ring a taxi in the morning.

            1. Greek One profile image76
              Greek Oneposted 7 years agoin reply to this

              I like that idea (but in some areas, 50 cents is what it costs for sex, so I wouldnt want to give any advice that would put anyone in jail smile

              1. blondepoet profile image75
                blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                ROFL!!!!

          2. qwark profile image58
            qwarkposted 7 years agoin reply to this

            Greek:
            Some like the play...but you are right!
            I loved the 1 night stand..lived for 'em.
            I had great success doing what I suggest.
            I was young and dumb and fulla 'c*m."
            I wasn't looking for commitment.  :-)

            1. Greek One profile image76
              Greek Oneposted 7 years agoin reply to this

              those were the days my dear......

              (thank goodness they are over.. I'm so f@#%@% tired lol)

              1. qwark profile image58
                qwarkposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                Greek:
                lololol  me too!

    2. SummerSteward profile image60
      SummerStewardposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      I like a little aggression as long as it's mixed in with humor. Also playing a little hard to get peaks my interest.

      1. Hokey profile image59
        Hokeyposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        I love punk rock! Grew up listening to Minor Threat, DRI, The Circle Jerks etc..  I also listen to jazz, blues, bluegrass, and jam rock. I play guitar, drums, bass, banjo, trumpet and some keys.

        1. SummerSteward profile image60
          SummerStewardposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          Haha.. Looks like you got a little somthin for everyone!

          1. blondepoet profile image75
            blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

            Hahah it does seem to be.

      2. qwark profile image58
        qwarkposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        Summer:
        That's what I mean.
        You control and the guy has to be tuned in to your responses to him and react right!
        You women let us know how aggressive you want us to be by the way you respond.
        We guys have to be aware of what ya like and what ya want and do it the way you want it.....amen..:-)

        1. SummerSteward profile image60
          SummerStewardposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          I guess there is some truth in that.. However I don't wanna be responsible for someones reactions. The type of guy who grabs my interest.. Is the guy that is the same guy for every girl that he meets..  Respectful, cosiderate but an individual. Always secure in his identity and not easily molded.

          1. SummerSteward profile image60
            SummerStewardposted 7 years agoin reply to this

            If that guy wants to be agressive, sarcastic and witty.. He should be looking for a girl who likes those qualities.. Not adapting for her approval.. That's the security I want to find in a guy.

          2. Cagsil profile image60
            Cagsilposted 7 years agoin reply to this

            All men are not easily molded. wink

            1. SummerSteward profile image60
              SummerStewardposted 7 years agoin reply to this

              As rare as they've proven they are.. I've never doubted thier existance wink

          3. Hokey profile image59
            Hokeyposted 7 years agoin reply to this

            Thats me!  big_smile

            1. tantrum profile image59
              tantrumposted 7 years agoin reply to this

              Are you serious ???
              I don't find that sexy at all !! Just boring ! lol

              1. Hokey profile image59
                Hokeyposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                lol  That's me!! lol

                1. tantrum profile image59
                  tantrumposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                  So Hello, and Goodbye !! lol lol lol

                  1. Hokey profile image59
                    Hokeyposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                    Your funny. I like that. big_smile

  13. blondepoet profile image75
    blondepoetposted 7 years ago

    Contrary to belief I don't go for an overly muscled up man.Arnie and Sylvester do nothing for me. smile

    1. qwark profile image58
      qwarkposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Blonde...lolol...well, there go my chances....damn!   :-)

      1. blondepoet profile image75
        blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        Haha well I meant I don't go looking for those types but I wouldn't say no....if all the other requirements were there smile

        1. qwark profile image58
          qwarkposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          whew! Jeez, my chances have improved....lol

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      Crazdwriterposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      I'm with you there Blonde...they are WAY to muscly for my tastes

  14. Hokey profile image59
    Hokeyposted 7 years ago

    Blushing!!!!!    wink

    1. blondepoet profile image75
      blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      You have just proved you are a confident man Hokey by exposing your goods. (BP ticks number one)
      And I reckon that bod would look mighty fine topped with a cowboy hat. (BP ticks number two)
      And that front view just has to have a nice butt to compliment the back view (BP ticks number three).

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        Pani Midnyte Odinposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        Hokey should win HP Bachelor of the Year Award or something lol

  15. SummerSteward profile image60
    SummerStewardposted 7 years ago

    I fall for punk rock boys left and right.. the more tats the better, the more talent they have the brighter the twinkle in my eye..

  16. blondepoet profile image75
    blondepoetposted 7 years ago

    Least I found a beaut thread that has fully woken me up at 6.30am in the morning lol. Crikeys!!!!

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      Pani Midnyte Odinposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Woke me up too in a very unexpected way lol

      1. Hokey profile image59
        Hokeyposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        I have to soak my foot. Back in a little while. Namaste

        1. blondepoet profile image75
          blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          What is Namasti Pani? Is that like vegemite in Australia?

          1. Hokey profile image59
            Hokeyposted 7 years agoin reply to this

            The gesture Namaste represents the belief that there is a Divine spark within each of us that is located in the heart chakra. The gesture is an acknowledgment of the soul in one by the soul in another.

            1. blondepoet profile image75
              blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

              Oh sweet Hokey!!! What is wrong with your feet? Do you have bunions?

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            Pani Midnyte Odinposted 7 years agoin reply to this

            Namaste is a traditional greeting or salutation, commonly accompanied by a slight bow and folded hands. Means something like "Peace be with you."

            Not sure what Namasti is, sounds like a pasta to me. Vegemite sounds good right now though, too bad it's not so common around here. Usually only get some during the summers when the tourist stands are up.

            1. blondepoet profile image75
              blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

              Hahaha Pani trust me to spell it wrong. I am learning LMAO.

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                Pani Midnyte Odinposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                big_smile No worries, everybody is always learning.

      2. Hokey profile image59
        Hokeyposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        Anyone who wants to find me on facebook.


        Larry Holcomb Jr.

        Two will show but you will know me.

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          Pani Midnyte Odinposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          Damn, I don't have a Facebook. If you have MYB, I'm on that somewhere lol

          Hope your foot feels better, hon.

          1. Hokey profile image59
            Hokeyposted 7 years agoin reply to this

            I am on Myspace too. Its old though. I never hardly go on it. Facebook is better. start an account.

  17. Hokey profile image59
    Hokeyposted 7 years ago

    Bye ladies. Back in a bit. I accept all e-mails. wink


    Namaste   big_smile

    1. blondepoet profile image75
      blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      I wonder if Hokey is a salesman in real life ROFL?

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        Pani Midnyte Odinposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        He'd be good at it. Just take his shirt off and he'd have me buying anything he wanted to sell me lol

        1. blondepoet profile image75
          blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          He could be one of those men that wear big trench coats with all these goods for sale hanging up inside. He could easily sell by flashing lol.

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    Lecieposted 7 years ago

    sitting in the library surrounded by young children as he reads fairy tales to them. that's what makes a man sexy in my eyes. he spends time with children to help them read and asks for nothing in return. the whole time he does all of the voices for every character to make the story even better for the youngsters. nothing sexier in my book.

    1. Hokey profile image59
      Hokeyposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Thats me too!  big_smile

      1. blondepoet profile image75
        blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        Wow Hokey is there any-thing you don't do?

        1. tantrum profile image59
          tantrumposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          lol lol lol

        2. Hokey profile image59
          Hokeyposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          Not really.  smile

          1. blondepoet profile image75
            blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

            Do you like house-work?

            1. Hokey profile image59
              Hokeyposted 7 years agoin reply to this

              With you.

              1. blondepoet profile image75
                blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                50 points added.

                1. drej2522 profile image82
                  drej2522posted 7 years agoin reply to this

                  wait...there's a point system?

                  1. blondepoet profile image75
                    blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                    We got to have some order going on smile

                2. Hokey profile image59
                  Hokeyposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                  I love bonus points!  lol

                  Didn't we already have this conversation?

                  1. drej2522 profile image82
                    drej2522posted 7 years agoin reply to this

                    Well, if you did have a conversation, I wasn't there...and that's all that really matters!

                  2. blondepoet profile image75
                    blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                    I don't think so Hokey? Did we? Lol.....Where?

  19. Greek One profile image76
    Greek Oneposted 7 years ago

    .. damn.. i hoped "Huge Penis" would have been mentioned by now

    sad

    1. blondepoet profile image75
      blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      The size of his tally-whacker is a minor factor lol.

      1. calpol25 profile image71
        calpol25posted 7 years agoin reply to this

        I agree his todger is a small detail really lol smile

        1. blondepoet profile image75
          blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          As long as it is not so small you can't see it. smile

      2. qwark profile image58
        qwarkposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        Hey Blonde:
        Is how he "stirs" important?
        I'm a believer that it's a woman's "responsibility" to satisfy herself. With her helper of course.
        It's not the man's "responsibility." Whatch'a think?

        1. CrystalStarWoman profile image76
          CrystalStarWomanposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          "helper"? What, like with her platinum rabbit do you mean? lol

          1. qwark profile image58
            qwarkposted 7 years agoin reply to this

            Crystal:
            Sure, if that's yer pleasure 'tool" of choice.
            In this case, tho, I meant with a live male partner enjoying the activity.

        2. blondepoet profile image75
          blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          Oh for sure. I am a believer that it is a woman's job to show her man what she wants if she isn't getting quite what she needs. All women are different, a man cannot be a mind reader. No holding back behind closed doors I say. smile

  20. Sab Oh profile image54
    Sab Ohposted 7 years ago

    I'm sure this has been mentioned already but...obviously...




    ...$$$$$$$$$$$

  21. CrystalStarWoman profile image76
    CrystalStarWomanposted 7 years ago

    His twinkle!

    If he has a twinkle in his eyes, that can be very sexy!

    Physical attributes, for me, include strong, 'defined', muscular arms... never mind the butt it's all in the arms tongue

    A confident (but not cocky) man is sexy... and of course, a great sense of humour is sexy - so someone who can laugh at himself and not take himself too seriously smile

  22. Hokey profile image59
    Hokeyposted 7 years ago

    Yup!  I knew you would remember. I gotta go. Time to soak the foot again. This sucks. Oh well. See you later and thanks for the cool e-mail. Bye.

    1. blondepoet profile image75
      blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      See you Hokey. Hope your foot feels better.

      1. Hokey profile image59
        Hokeyposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        I'm back! big_smile

  23. figment profile image74
    figmentposted 7 years ago

    Confidence but not arrogance and eyes

  24. xxxlushlipzxxx profile image57
    xxxlushlipzxxxposted 7 years ago

    yes, confidence and honesty

    1. Cagsil profile image60
      Cagsilposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      I'm not sure if this is sexy or not, but I'm going to do/say something.

      Welcome to HubPages Lushlips.

      I'm not sure what or why you're on HubPages? But, I just reviewed a couple of your hubs and I would suggest you learn your way around HubPages.

      It's a great start to have published that many hubs in such a short period of time, however, quality of content is better than quantity.

      I'm suggesting you go the Extreme Hub Makeover Forum and let some hubbers critique your hubs, so as you can improve them and do well here at HubPages. Not to mention, there are plenty of Hubs that you should read, long before you jump into the forums, but that's another story for some other time.

      I'm going to give you a few links to start out with and you can take it from there.

      The hub below gives you a little insight on Hubbing. It is written by a fairly new hubber- so you should have no problem.
      http://hubpages.com/hub/What-Every-New- … hould-Know

      Then, I would suggest you use the below link to get to the Extreme Hub Makeover Forum and post a thread with 3 links and let hubbers have at it.

      http://hubpages.com/forum/23

      There are countless forum thread on SEO(search engine optimization), Back linking and GOOGLE Adsense, and Amazon.

      So, I hope you enjoy your time here and have a great experience.

  25. Ladybird33 profile image45
    Ladybird33posted 7 years ago

    confidence but not cockiness...that is sexy.

    1. Cagsil profile image60
      Cagsilposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Hmmm......? wink smile

  26. xxxlushlipzxxx profile image57
    xxxlushlipzxxxposted 7 years ago

    Thanks Cagsil, maybe I shouldn't have published too soon, I just had all of these ideas and got carried away.. I will improve my hubs I promise

    1. Cagsil profile image60
      Cagsilposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Don't need to promise me little lady. They are not my hubs and you didn't write my hubs.

      I would like you to do well here and that is my only driving force. If I let you know ahead of time, fore-warn, then you'll won't get bogged down as easily as others who do not participate in the forums.

      Some people adapt well and some do not, the question of which you are? Is still open. I wasn't trying to belittle you are or anything in that manner.

      Just trying to be helpful. Not demeaning. hmm


      Edit: Btw- You're welcome. smile

  27. Beth100 profile image78
    Beth100posted 7 years ago

    Intelligence.  Power.  Grace.  Kindness.  Humor.  Ethics.   

    Attitude. 

    Eyes.  Physique.

    hmmm.....list is much too long! 

    Everything about him if he knows how to make it appealing!!  smile

  28. Bloggeressa profile image54
    Bloggeressaposted 7 years ago

    A man who works hard is incredibly sexy to me. It shows me he takes pride in what he does and who wants a lazy guy?

    Maybe its a cavewoman instinct in me, but I want to feel confident in someone putting something towards the table as well, not just me.

  29. brianzen profile image60
    brianzenposted 7 years ago

    I have been called sexy all my life, and I don't know what to do with that it is nice to hear it but is that a cue to be some different way? sometimes I am just being friendly, and it escalates into a totally different thing. what does a woman want when she tells you that she can't stand it anymore, (wants you) and you just did not see it coming?

    1. brianzen profile image60
      brianzenposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Then after 3 long hot sweaty months they act like I am the sex crazed maniac. (jk)

      1. brianzen profile image60
        brianzenposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        actually not kidding.

 
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