Making you feel important. When a man will drop everything to be with you, or shut off his phone when you're together , or always answer when you call. If he will dance with you, even if he doesn't like to dance, just because he knows you like to dance. That's what makes a guy sexy. Being into you, knowing that it is worth his time and his investment, just to be with you.
although im not a woman, but i will say this. a long time ago, a good friend of mine once told me. happiness always comes from within not without the presence of others. don't get me wrong, people are important in our lives, as they help shape who we are. However, if there's one thing I know about women is that they're not attracted to a guy with no confidence. a man needs to learn how to develop that. because if he's not confident enough without being in a relationship, then he'll never be confident enough in it. at least that's what one good friend taught me a while back. sure, i always knew that, but she was the only person that ever taught me HOW to develop confidence exactly. that's why i'll always value my friendship with her. anyway, i hope that helps answer your question.
i think men who are mysterious are really sexy for some reason. i also like powerful men. not powerfully built, but men with position and power who can get things done with a single phone call. the more complicated a man is, the sexier he is, to me.
some of the trappings that men have that make them sexy are Cuban cigars and black luxury sportscars.
he doesn't have to be a pretty boy, but if he smells yummy and is well groomed, that is very appealing.
i also like men who are kind and considerate but who remember that they are men and you are a woman, and treat you as such when the lights go out.
Yeah. I like it when they don't take a phone call because they are out with you. "Listen I'm out on a date. I will call you tomorrow." and then he shuts off the phone and says, "I'm sorry. I thought it was off." Or better it rings and he just shuts it off, without answering as if the rest of the world holds no worries for him. just you.
well........since you asked, thereby throwing off the wonderful chi of this once great topic, i find things like that exclusively male and for some reason that appeals to me. to me they are manly symbols and i associate things like that with exciting men. so sue me. (and i was talking about quality Cuban cigars not dimestore ones)
when i say i like it when men smell nice i mean when they wear expensive cologne but i assumed that was a given.
it's just too bad every comment anyone makes on here has to become a source of contention with people. whatever, i won't comment on any of your topics anymore, sheesh.............!
Cosette: Take a deep breath....I'm just a health nut who has never smoked. To me even the smell of an expensive "stogie" stinks. I'd think it would overwhelm the sweet scent of expensive cologne. But hey, I have to appreciate and respect your words, if that turns ya on. My intention was not to be insulting. I am just a curious male who is also learning. WE don't want ya to stop responding.. Are ya ok?....:-)
210 posts in 6 hours! LOL. You hit a winner here, Qwark.
Okay I'll bite. ...Okay no I won't!
I'll give a generalized answer, about some things anyway. Intelligent but compassionate, confident but humble, assertive but sensitive, fit but not obsessed about it, great sense of humor but not a clown. Probably more but that's it off of the top of my head.
I'll say this for sure, which probably doesn't come across in the above. I don't think it's about looks so much for women, but maybe I'm wrong. Then again, I mean like, if he's -no offense to anyone- unhealthy looking then I think that's an indication of a weak mind, so a definite turn-off.
This was fun! Too bad we can't have them custom made, but then I guess it wouldn't be nearly as fun if we knew exactly what we were getting.
Oh yeah, nobody boring, or easily bored, or easily entertained. No TV boobs.
Well according to the many examples in the media; loads of money or a career in politics seems to make the most unpalatable of men irresistable. Failing that, try being genuine. Or funny. Or have a fabulous backside. Or gay. Hell, there's no one definative thing that makes a man sexy. Depends on the gal.
Def a man that makes me laugh. When I laugh I feel so alive and that's what is important in life. Also a man that tells you that you look good. Makes you feel good about yourself, proud to be a woman. Nothing is more of a turn on than being with a man who is confident, great at conversation and makes you feel a million dollars. Sexy eyes and a great smile well that is an extra a woman cannot resist.
I really do all of that. When I am with a woman I like to make her smile any way I can. I have an ex that told me I told her she was beautiful too much! I would tell her 3 or 4 times a day I thought she was the most beautiful woman I have ever known. She had issues though. lol
Oh I would never get sick of that. A woman wants to feel the most beautiful woman in her man's eyes. Well most women...lol. Can't stand men who rip at a women's esteem...grrrr...why do women stay with them?....mainly low self esteem.
A sexy man is a man that is supportive and encouraging towards your wants and dreams. He is a guy that sticks around when life isnt all peaches and cream-and he is there holding your hand, reminding you when it was that way. He carries confidence but isnt cocky. You can leave him alone with your dad and brothers and he will be on his best behavior paying them respect-but wont let anyone bad mouth you. He is serious when it is appropriate but can make you laugh when everything is going wrong. (It also doesnt hurt for him to be able to work on your car- fix the broken toilet- make you dinner- and have a cute butt)
For the record, I used to make lots of girls laugh in high school. Guess what though, rarely got a date. Oddly enough I ended up marrying the woman that finds me very unamusing most of the time. I think the "makes me laugh" has to be accompanied with something else.
I have this theory that once a guy gets married, he thinks he is sitting the worlds longest exam on the subject of what women expect of him. This makes him anxious and then he takes the world far too seriously. Or, his wife is constantly telling him what a disappointment he is without actually coming out and saying it. Lets face it guys once your married your screwed. Literally, if your lucky.
Well, there are many things that can make a man sexy. Each woman looks for slightly different things.
I look for a man I feel comfortable around, a man who makes me feel like I can be myself no matter what and he'll love me anyway. I love a man who can laugh at himself and make me laugh with him. I love a man who is protective, although not controlling and can make me feel like the whole world disappears when he takes me into his arms, like we are the only two people on earth. He should be someone I can talk to for hours about anything or just sit in comfortable silence with. He should kiss me often and hug me even more often. Someone who shows affection openly and is fun and playful too.
I've found that "women" are the pickers. if you can walk into a room and tell which women are attracted by you, don't waste your time on the gorgeous ones who show no interest. concentrate on the ones who let you know, they want to meet you. Approach them with respect. Introduce yourself. No fancy, stupid lines. Listen to her. Don't be too aggressive, and touchy, but be confident. Respond to her moves...gently but let her know you are interested. I think the main thing is to know, that the lady rules! Be sensitive and responsive to "HER" moves.... Am I right ladies?
Are we discussing getting laid on a given night, or what is sexy to a woman? These are two different questions.
If we are talking about what is sexy to a woman, then what you suggest (and the mindset of "settling" it suggests) isn't going to get you very far most often.
If, however, you are just talking about getting laid on a particular night, then just go up to a given woman and if she is giving you signals that she is physically attracted to you, then all you have to ask her is "What are we still doing here?"
Greek: Some like the play...but you are right! I loved the 1 night stand..lived for 'em. I had great success doing what I suggest. I was young and dumb and fulla 'c*m." I wasn't looking for commitment. :-)
Summer: That's what I mean. You control and the guy has to be tuned in to your responses to him and react right! You women let us know how aggressive you want us to be by the way you respond. We guys have to be aware of what ya like and what ya want and do it the way you want it.....amen..:-)
I guess there is some truth in that.. However I don't wanna be responsible for someones reactions. The type of guy who grabs my interest.. Is the guy that is the same guy for every girl that he meets.. Respectful, cosiderate but an individual. Always secure in his identity and not easily molded.
You have just proved you are a confident man Hokey by exposing your goods. (BP ticks number one) And I reckon that bod would look mighty fine topped with a cowboy hat. (BP ticks number two) And that front view just has to have a nice butt to compliment the back view (BP ticks number three).
The gesture Namaste represents the belief that there is a Divine spark within each of us that is located in the heart chakra. The gesture is an acknowledgment of the soul in one by the soul in another.
Namaste is a traditional greeting or salutation, commonly accompanied by a slight bow and folded hands. Means something like "Peace be with you."
Not sure what Namasti is, sounds like a pasta to me. Vegemite sounds good right now though, too bad it's not so common around here. Usually only get some during the summers when the tourist stands are up.
sitting in the library surrounded by young children as he reads fairy tales to them. that's what makes a man sexy in my eyes. he spends time with children to help them read and asks for nothing in return. the whole time he does all of the voices for every character to make the story even better for the youngsters. nothing sexier in my book.
Oh for sure. I am a believer that it is a woman's job to show her man what she wants if she isn't getting quite what she needs. All women are different, a man cannot be a mind reader. No holding back behind closed doors I say.
I'm not sure if this is sexy or not, but I'm going to do/say something.
Welcome to HubPages Lushlips.
I'm not sure what or why you're on HubPages? But, I just reviewed a couple of your hubs and I would suggest you learn your way around HubPages.
It's a great start to have published that many hubs in such a short period of time, however, quality of content is better than quantity.
I'm suggesting you go the Extreme Hub Makeover Forum and let some hubbers critique your hubs, so as you can improve them and do well here at HubPages. Not to mention, there are plenty of Hubs that you should read, long before you jump into the forums, but that's another story for some other time.
I'm going to give you a few links to start out with and you can take it from there.
Don't need to promise me little lady. They are not my hubs and you didn't write my hubs.
I would like you to do well here and that is my only driving force. If I let you know ahead of time, fore-warn, then you'll won't get bogged down as easily as others who do not participate in the forums.
Some people adapt well and some do not, the question of which you are? Is still open. I wasn't trying to belittle you are or anything in that manner.
I have been called sexy all my life, and I don't know what to do with that it is nice to hear it but is that a cue to be some different way? sometimes I am just being friendly, and it escalates into a totally different thing. what does a woman want when she tells you that she can't stand it anymore, (wants you) and you just did not see it coming?
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