Ladies, What Makes a Man Sexy?

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qwarkposted 14 years ago
Pay close attention guys, success with the ladies may depend on how well ya read and put to use what they write.
Go for it ladies...:-)
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  Faybe Bayposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Making you feel important. When a man will drop everything to be with you, or shut off his phone when you're together , or always answer when you call. If he will dance with you, even if he doesn't like to dance, just because he knows you like to dance. That's what makes a guy sexy. Being into you, knowing that it is worth his time and his investment, just to be with you.
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  qwarkposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Fay:
  No argument with that very important advice.
  Take notice my brothers....:-)
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  Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I totally agree with Faybe...and like to add a guy who loves you for you and accepts your flaws and helps you work on them. a guy who will stand up for you and is always ready to protect you.
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  Hokeyposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I do that.
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  Faybe Bayposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I know you do and there is a certain thread about marrying Hokey... But I thought your heart belonged to Tantrum.
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  blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Haha that's it Faybee.
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  Hokeyposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  When did I say that? Maybe everyone should see my last post on that thread. I slipped it in and no one but mega1 noticed.
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  Faybe Bayposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Aw I was trying to save the Hub World from unnecessary threads. I will go look.
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  Greek Oneposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I think that they reasons some woman THINK they are attracted to a man, might not be the real reasons why they really are...
  
  As I have have actually written a Hub on this subject, i would advise men who are interested in reading it.
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  Kathryn LJposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Why am I not surprised? LOL
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  Greek Oneposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  cause you KNOW me
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  Kathryn LJposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Read your hub you cunning minx.
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  Greek Oneposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  i has to read over the words "cunning minx" 8 times before I could decide if you were swearing at me, or if I should be getting turned on lol
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  Kathryn LJposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Priceless reply!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
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  Greek Oneposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  ...incidently, I decided both were the case
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  Kathryn LJposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Boy your good at this aren't you? You probably have a great backside too.
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  Greek Oneposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  It's the biggest in the business!
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  Hokeyposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I do that.
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  blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Oh yes I like to have a man's full attention. He can't be half there, no way.
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  Stevennix2001posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  although im not a woman, but i will say this. a long time ago, a good friend of mine once told me. happiness always comes from within not without the presence of others. don't get me wrong, people are important in our lives, as they help shape who we are. However, if there's one thing I know about women is that they're not attracted to a guy with no confidence. a man needs to learn how to develop that. because if he's not confident enough without being in a relationship, then he'll never be confident enough in it. at least that's what one good friend taught me a while back. sure, i always knew that, but she was the only person that ever taught me HOW to develop confidence exactly. that's why i'll always value my friendship with her. anyway, i hope that helps answer your question.
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  Greek Oneposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  exactly! It's as if you read my Hub! lol
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  Stevennix2001posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  lol. hub? i didn't even know you wrote a hub on this topic. i was just repeating some great advice a great friend taught me a while back on here. lol. i guess great minds think alike i guess. lol.
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  Greek Oneposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  we are two very wise men...
  
  and both obviously very sexy
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  Stevennix2001posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  damn straight!
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  Tom Cornettposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  A big.......long......thick......magnetic stripe on the back of a Visa Platinum card.
  
  So she can shop till he drop!
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  Faybe Bayposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Yeah... well I could always hire a dance instructor...
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  cosetteposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  
  i thought about this a lot.
  
  i think men who are mysterious are really sexy for some reason. i also like powerful men. not powerfully built, but men with position and power who can get things done with a single phone call. the more complicated a man is, the sexier he is, to me.
  
  some of the trappings that men have that make them sexy are Cuban cigars and black luxury sportscars.
  
  he doesn't have to be a pretty boy, but if he smells yummy and is well groomed, that is very appealing.
  
  i also like men who are kind and considerate but who remember that they are men and you are a woman, and treat you as such when the lights go out.
  
  well, that about sums it up all right.
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  Faybe Bayposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Very well put. I would be happy with that, as long as he'd dance with me.
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  cosetteposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Mhmm.
  
  i know it sounds strange but i enjoy being treated like a lady and letting men take control. i get all warm and squishy inside
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  Faybe Bayposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Yeah. I like it when they don't take a phone call because they are out with you. "Listen I'm out on a date. I will call you tomorrow." and then he shuts off the phone and says, "I'm sorry. I thought it was off." Or better it rings and he just shuts it off, without answering as if the rest of the world holds no worries for him. just you.
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  blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Despite all the female liberation movement, you may be surprised to learn that women actually still enjoy to be treated like women, and they still appreciate the gentlemanly things men do sometimes.
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  qwarkposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  But cosette:
  Cigars stink!
  Your quote: "...if he smells yummy..."
  Ya like the nauseating, poisonous smell of "stogies?"
  ...and a guy who'd actually put the nasty thing in the mouth...you kiss?
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  cosetteposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  
  um
  
  really?
  
  this is a debate now?
  
  well........since you asked, thereby throwing off the wonderful chi of this once great topic, i find things like that exclusively male and for some reason that appeals to me. to me they are manly symbols and i associate things like that with exciting men. so sue me. (and i was talking about quality Cuban cigars not dimestore ones)
  
  when i say i like it when men smell nice i mean when they wear expensive cologne but i assumed that was a given.
  
  it's just too bad every comment anyone makes on here has to become a source of contention with people. whatever, i won't comment on any of your topics anymore, sheesh.............!
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  qwarkposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Cosette:
  Take a deep breath....I'm just a health nut who has never smoked.
  To me even the smell of an expensive "stogie" stinks.
  I'd think it would overwhelm the sweet scent of expensive cologne.
  But hey, I have to appreciate and respect
  your words, if that turns ya on.
  My intention was not to be insulting.
  I am just a curious male who is also learning.
  WE don't want ya to stop responding..
  Are ya ok?....:-)
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  blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Oh a yummy smell does it for me
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  Pandoras Boxposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  210 posts in 6 hours! LOL. You hit a winner here, Qwark.
  
  Okay I'll bite. ...Okay no I won't!
  
  I'll give a generalized answer, about some things anyway. Intelligent but compassionate, confident but humble, assertive but sensitive, fit but not obsessed about it, great sense of humor but not a clown. Probably more but that's it off of the top of my head.
  
  I'll say this for sure, which probably doesn't come across in the above. I don't think it's about looks so much for women, but maybe I'm wrong. Then again, I mean like, if he's -no offense to anyone- unhealthy looking then I think that's an indication of a weak mind, so a definite turn-off.
  
  This was fun! Too bad we can't have them custom made, but then I guess it wouldn't be nearly as fun if we knew exactly what we were getting.
  
  Oh yeah, nobody boring, or easily bored, or easily entertained. No TV boobs.
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Kathryn LJposted 14 years ago
Well according to the many examples in the media; loads of money or a career in politics seems to make the most unpalatable of men irresistable. Failing that, try being genuine. Or funny. Or have a fabulous backside. Or gay. Hell, there's no one definative thing that makes a man sexy. Depends on the gal.
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blondepoetposted 14 years ago
Def a man that makes me laugh. When I laugh I feel so alive and that's what is important in life. Also a man that tells you that you look good. Makes you feel good about yourself, proud to be a woman.
Nothing is more of a turn on than being with a man who is confident, great at conversation and makes you feel a million dollars.
Sexy eyes and a great smile well that is an extra a woman cannot resist.
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  Hokeyposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I do that too.
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  blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I bet you do too Hokey. You are an exceptional male.
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  Kathryn LJposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  You are such a flirt Hokey, didn't you post a discussion the other day on who would like to marry you? And weren't the girls just falling over themselves to do so?
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  Hokeyposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Hmmmmmmmm...............
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  blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I think he just loves and adores women and is enjoying being single before he gets hooked up lol.
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  Hokeyposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Read my last post on the Marry Hokey thread
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  Faybe Bayposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Alright. I read it and we ladies are maybe gonna open it back up. That's like a breach of Hokey Promise!
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  Hokeyposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I do love and adore women.
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  blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Nothing wrong with that Hokey Pokey!!!
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  drej2522posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  dammit...I'm really really close! heh
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  blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I never doubted you Dre...
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Crazdwriterposted 14 years ago
aaaa Hokey wants to do all of that for us? he is so cute
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  Hokeyposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I really do all of that. When I am with a woman I like to make her smile any way I can. I have an ex that told me I told her she was beautiful too much! I would tell her 3 or 4 times a day I thought she was the most beautiful woman I have ever known. She had issues though. lol
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  blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Oh I would never get sick of that.
  A woman wants to feel the most beautiful woman in her man's eyes. Well most women...lol.
  Can't stand men who rip at a women's esteem...grrrr...why do women stay with them?....mainly low self esteem.
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  Hokeyposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I would never do that.
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  Faybe Bayposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  They make you afraid it's your fault and you are lucky to have anyone at all, that's why we stayed.
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qwarkposted 14 years ago
My g/f told me that she and her friend/girl used to love to go to "gay" clubs 'cause the guys were gorgeous, loved to dance, talk about "girly" stuff and never hit on em...lol
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  Faybe Bayposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I know those girls! I've been out with them... but the drawback is if girls start hitting on you... or if they throw you out for dancing with a guy, both of which happened to me...
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H.C Porterposted 14 years ago
A sexy man is a man that is supportive and encouraging towards your wants and dreams. He is a guy that sticks around when life isnt all peaches and cream-and he is there holding your hand, reminding you when it was that way.
He carries confidence but isnt cocky.
You can leave him alone with your dad and brothers and he will be on his best behavior paying them respect-but wont let anyone bad mouth you.
He is serious when it is appropriate but can make you laugh when everything is going wrong.
(It also doesnt hurt for him to be able to work on your car- fix the broken toilet- make you dinner- and have a cute butt)
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  blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Oh I cannot resist a cute butt!!! Especially in a nice pair of jeans.
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  Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  That and with a cowboy hat ooo I let out my secret
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  blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Oh cowboy hat.........ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. Yea right on, ride em cow-boy I say.
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  H.C Porterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Yep-There is nothing quite like a cute butt in a nice pair of jeans bending over your car working on the alternator, lol... And if he has a nice back with great definition....SOLD!
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  Greek Oneposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Before today, i have never heard the word "car" used for a woman's body... not "alternator" for the word 'vagina"
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  SummerStewardposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  cute butts are the best!
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  Hokeyposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I have a great butt!
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  blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Prove it Hokey!!!!
  Need confirmation LMAO.
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  Hokeyposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  You would like that huh?
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  SummerStewardposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I'd look
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  blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Hell yeah. Never one to deny a good butt lol.
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  Hokeyposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I only have a picture of my stomach and chest.
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  Pani Midnyte Odinposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I wouldn't mind seeing your chest
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  blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I have seen that one and may I say the goods look mighty fine from here in OZ land!!!
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  Pani Midnyte Odinposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Now I REALLY wanna see. BP has great taste so I know the goods MUST look good if she likes them
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  blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Aww tks Pani...ooooo.... I am looking at it right now....oh where are my sunglasses to shield me from this hotness ROFL...
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  SummerStewardposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I agree with blondepoet.. very nice.
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  Hokeyposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Here you go.
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  Pani Midnyte Odinposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Yes, you're definitely getting a treat from me, Hokey
  
  The goods look real good
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Wayne Orvisburgposted 14 years ago
For the record, I used to make lots of girls laugh in high school. Guess what though, rarely got a date. Oddly enough I ended up marrying the woman that finds me very unamusing most of the time. I think the "makes me laugh" has to be accompanied with something else.
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  Kathryn LJposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Once a guy gets married Wayne, he is rarely amusing. Te he.
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  H.C Porterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  LOL... Why is that-what was once charming and funny is all of a sudden annoying and irritates you?
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  Greek Oneposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  it's not the woman that changes.. it's the man
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  Kathryn LJposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I have this theory that once a guy gets married, he thinks he is sitting the worlds longest exam on the subject of what women expect of him. This makes him anxious and then he takes the world far too seriously. Or, his wife is constantly telling him what a disappointment he is without actually coming out and saying it. Lets face it guys once your married your screwed. Literally, if your lucky.
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  Greek Oneposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Once he gets married, a man thinks theat the exams are over.. so he doesnt have to try anymore to be attractive to his mate.
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  Hokeyposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Not true for everyone.
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  Greek Oneposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  yes... you are right.. not true for everyone
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  Kathryn LJposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Certainly not with me. I used to write exam papers! And for the record have never written 'could do better' or used a red pen. All far too serious!
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  Greek Oneposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  i once wrote "could do better" in a red pen on a woman's butt...
  
  man, my face stung for a week after that slap!
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  blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Hahah body painting is fun.
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  Greek Oneposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  not when you use calligraphy pen
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  blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Oooooo and write the words "Could do better".
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  Greek Oneposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  i gave her a 69.. that's a passing grade at least!
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  blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Well at least you made the most of your time while you were up that end. You are a versatile man.
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  qwarkposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I find it "hard" to concentrate on "self" when giving the grade "69."
  Am I alone?
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  blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  For sure I agree it is impossible to concentrate on oneself. One at a time is the ultimate.
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  qwarkposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Blonde:
  Amen! :-)
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  Kathryn LJposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  A woman who can read messages written on her bottom is clearly a contortionist and therefore serious totty. So I'm told.
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  Greek Oneposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  sadly, that isn't the case...
  
  she just had a LOT of junk in her trunk so was able to move some of it around her body to her front
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  Kathryn LJposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  (The sound of retching.) I'm now trying to think happy thoughts. (The sound of retching.)
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  blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  LMAO
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  Pani Midnyte Odinposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  The men I find most attractive aren't TRYING to be attractive anyway. They are the men who are confident with themselves and they just ARE sexy.
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  Greek Oneposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  to some it comes naturally..
  
  to others it is learned behaviour...
  
  some act in certain ways on purpose, some just because that's is how they are..
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  Hokeyposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I like being screwed.
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  blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  And doing thrusts as you previously said.
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  Hokeyposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Yeah. The a$$ comes from skating and surfing.
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SummerStewardposted 14 years ago
- Sarcastic and witty
- an unselfish lover
- Independent
- Trusting
- Protective of me ( Not afraid to throw a punch if need be )
- Likes hanging out with my gay boyfriends.
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  SummerStewardposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  or at least tolerant ...
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Stevennix2001posted 14 years ago
well go easy on hokey. besides, it can't be easy for any guy to choose from all the lovely ladies that entered to try to win his hand in hub marriage.
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Pani Midnyte Odinposted 14 years ago
Well, there are many things that can make a man sexy. Each woman looks for slightly different things.

I look for a man I feel comfortable around, a man who makes me feel like I can be myself no matter what and he'll love me anyway. I love a man who can laugh at himself and make me laugh with him. I love a man who is protective, although not controlling and can make me feel like the whole world disappears when he takes me into his arms, like we are the only two people on earth. He should be someone I can talk to for hours about anything or just sit in comfortable silence with. He should kiss me often and hug me even more often. Someone who shows affection openly and is fun and playful too.
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  Faybe Bayposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  And hold hands, that is real important.
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  Pani Midnyte Odinposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Ah yes, holding hands is very important too
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  Hokeyposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I love holding hands!
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  Faybe Bayposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Ooo, takin the shirt off for this.
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  Pani Midnyte Odinposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I LIKE holding hands, but I'd LOVE to rub that chest of yours
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  blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Oooooooo it is on now.
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  Hokeyposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Catch a quick flight and you can come too.
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  Hokeyposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  You just may get the chance!!!!
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  Pani Midnyte Odinposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Searching for my car keys and some gas money now, only six hours
  
  Seriously wish I had the car today... sigh
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  blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I love affection!!!!!!
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Crazdwriterposted 14 years ago
Look at what you started qwark
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  Faybe Bayposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  didn't take much did it?
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  Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Nope never does
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  qwarkposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I love it!!!...:-)
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qwarkposted 14 years ago
I've found that "women" are the pickers.
if you can walk into a room and tell which women are attracted by you, don't waste your time on the gorgeous ones who show no interest.
concentrate on the ones who let you know, they want to meet you.
Approach them with respect. Introduce yourself. No fancy, stupid lines.
Listen to her.
Don't be too aggressive, and touchy, but be confident.
Respond to her moves...gently but let her know you are interested.
I think the main thing is to know, that the lady rules!
Be sensitive and responsive to "HER" moves....
Am I right ladies?
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  Greek Oneposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  come on.... the "gorgeous ones who show no interest" are the most fun!
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  qwarkposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  lolol Greek:
  Not if ya wan't to be assured yer gonna get laid that nite.
  Some of those who show interest in you are gonna be gorgeous anyway.
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  Greek Oneposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Are we discussing getting laid on a given night, or what is sexy to a woman? These are two different questions.
  
  If we are talking about what is sexy to a woman, then what you suggest (and the mindset of "settling" it suggests) isn't going to get you very far most often.
  
  If, however, you are just talking about getting laid on a particular night, then just go up to a given woman and if she is giving you signals that she is physically attracted to you, then all you have to ask her is "What are we still doing here?"
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  blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Or put 50 cents on the table in front of her. When she asks what that is for, you tell her it is to ring a taxi in the morning.
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  Greek Oneposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I like that idea (but in some areas, 50 cents is what it costs for sex, so I wouldnt want to give any advice that would put anyone in jail
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  blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  ROFL!!!!
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  qwarkposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Greek:
  Some like the play...but you are right!
  I loved the 1 night stand..lived for 'em.
  I had great success doing what I suggest.
  I was young and dumb and fulla 'c*m."
  I wasn't looking for commitment. :-)
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  Greek Oneposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  those were the days my dear......
  
  (thank goodness they are over.. I'm so f@#%@% tired lol)
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  qwarkposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Greek:
  lololol me too!
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  SummerStewardposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I like a little aggression as long as it's mixed in with humor. Also playing a little hard to get peaks my interest.
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  Hokeyposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I love punk rock! Grew up listening to Minor Threat, DRI, The Circle Jerks etc.. I also listen to jazz, blues, bluegrass, and jam rock. I play guitar, drums, bass, banjo, trumpet and some keys.
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  SummerStewardposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Haha.. Looks like you got a little somthin for everyone!
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  blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Hahah it does seem to be.
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  qwarkposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Summer:
  That's what I mean.
  You control and the guy has to be tuned in to your responses to him and react right!
  You women let us know how aggressive you want us to be by the way you respond.
  We guys have to be aware of what ya like and what ya want and do it the way you want it.....amen..:-)
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  SummerStewardposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I guess there is some truth in that.. However I don't wanna be responsible for someones reactions. The type of guy who grabs my interest.. Is the guy that is the same guy for every girl that he meets.. Respectful, cosiderate but an individual. Always secure in his identity and not easily molded.
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  SummerStewardposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  If that guy wants to be agressive, sarcastic and witty.. He should be looking for a girl who likes those qualities.. Not adapting for her approval.. That's the security I want to find in a guy.
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  Cagsilposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  All men are not easily molded.
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  SummerStewardposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  As rare as they've proven they are.. I've never doubted thier existance
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  Hokeyposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Thats me!
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Are you serious ???
  I don't find that sexy at all !! Just boring !
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  Hokeyposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  That's me!!
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  So Hello, and Goodbye !!
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  Hokeyposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Your funny. I like that.
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
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blondepoetposted 14 years ago
Contrary to belief I don't go for an overly muscled up man.Arnie and Sylvester do nothing for me.
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  qwarkposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Blonde...lolol...well, there go my chances....damn! :-)
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  blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Haha well I meant I don't go looking for those types but I wouldn't say no....if all the other requirements were there
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  qwarkposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  whew! Jeez, my chances have improved....lol
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  Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I'm with you there Blonde...they are WAY to muscly for my tastes
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Hokeyposted 14 years ago
Blushing!!!!!
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  blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  You have just proved you are a confident man Hokey by exposing your goods. (BP ticks number one)
  And I reckon that bod would look mighty fine topped with a cowboy hat. (BP ticks number two)
  And that front view just has to have a nice butt to compliment the back view (BP ticks number three).
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  Pani Midnyte Odinposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Hokey should win HP Bachelor of the Year Award or something
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SummerStewardposted 14 years ago
I fall for punk rock boys left and right.. the more tats the better, the more talent they have the brighter the twinkle in my eye..
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blondepoetposted 14 years ago
Least I found a beaut thread that has fully woken me up at 6.30am in the morning lol. Crikeys!!!!
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  Pani Midnyte Odinposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Woke me up too in a very unexpected way
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  Hokeyposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I have to soak my foot. Back in a little while. Namaste
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  blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  What is Namasti Pani? Is that like vegemite in Australia?
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  Hokeyposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  The gesture Namaste represents the belief that there is a Divine spark within each of us that is located in the heart chakra. The gesture is an acknowledgment of the soul in one by the soul in another.
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  blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Oh sweet Hokey!!! What is wrong with your feet? Do you have bunions?
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  Pani Midnyte Odinposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Namaste is a traditional greeting or salutation, commonly accompanied by a slight bow and folded hands. Means something like "Peace be with you."
  
  Not sure what Namasti is, sounds like a pasta to me. Vegemite sounds good right now though, too bad it's not so common around here. Usually only get some during the summers when the tourist stands are up.
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  blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Hahaha Pani trust me to spell it wrong. I am learning LMAO.
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  Pani Midnyte Odinposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  No worries, everybody is always learning.
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  Hokeyposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Anyone who wants to find me on facebook.
  
  Larry Holcomb Jr.
  
  Two will show but you will know me.
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  Pani Midnyte Odinposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Damn, I don't have a Facebook. If you have MYB, I'm on that somewhere
  
  Hope your foot feels better, hon.
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  Hokeyposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I am on Myspace too. Its old though. I never hardly go on it. Facebook is better. start an account.
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Hokeyposted 14 years ago
Bye ladies. Back in a bit. I accept all e-mails.

Namaste
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  blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I wonder if Hokey is a salesman in real life ROFL?
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  Pani Midnyte Odinposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  He'd be good at it. Just take his shirt off and he'd have me buying anything he wanted to sell me
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  blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  He could be one of those men that wear big trench coats with all these goods for sale hanging up inside. He could easily sell by flashing lol.
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Lecieposted 14 years ago
sitting in the library surrounded by young children as he reads fairy tales to them. that's what makes a man sexy in my eyes. he spends time with children to help them read and asks for nothing in return. the whole time he does all of the voices for every character to make the story even better for the youngsters. nothing sexier in my book.
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  Hokeyposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Thats me too!
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  blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Wow Hokey is there any-thing you don't do?
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  
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  Hokeyposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Not really.
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  blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Do you like house-work?
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  Hokeyposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  With you.
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  blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  50 points added.
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  drej2522posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  wait...there's a point system?
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  blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  We got to have some order going on
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  drej2522posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  ah...how does the point system work?
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  blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Mmmmm
  I am not sure Dre wait I will go grab a calculator.
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  Hokeyposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I love bonus points! lol
  
  Didn't we already have this conversation?
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  drej2522posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Well, if you did have a conversation, I wasn't there...and that's all that really matters!
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  Hokeyposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  
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  blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I don't think so Hokey? Did we? Lol.....Where?
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  Hokeyposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  housekeeping? Cleaning bathrooms?
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  blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  LMAO. Yes I remember doing the bathroom indeed.
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Greek Oneposted 14 years ago
.. damn.. i hoped "Huge Penis" would have been mentioned by now

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  blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  The size of his tally-whacker is a minor factor lol.
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  calpol25posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I agree his todger is a small detail really lol
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  blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  As long as it is not so small you can't see it.
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  qwarkposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Hey Blonde:
  Is how he "stirs" important?
  I'm a believer that it's a woman's "responsibility" to satisfy herself. With her helper of course.
  It's not the man's "responsibility." Whatch'a think?
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  CrystalStarWomanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  "helper"? What, like with her platinum rabbit do you mean?
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  qwarkposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Crystal:
  Sure, if that's yer pleasure 'tool" of choice.
  In this case, tho, I meant with a live male partner enjoying the activity.
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  blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Oh for sure. I am a believer that it is a woman's job to show her man what she wants if she isn't getting quite what she needs. All women are different, a man cannot be a mind reader. No holding back behind closed doors I say.
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Sab Ohposted 14 years ago
I'm sure this has been mentioned already but...obviously...

...$$$$$$$$$$$
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CrystalStarWomanposted 14 years ago
His twinkle!

If he has a twinkle in his eyes, that can be very sexy!

Physical attributes, for me, include strong, 'defined', muscular arms... never mind the butt it's all in the arms

A confident (but not cocky) man is sexy... and of course, a great sense of humour is sexy - so someone who can laugh at himself and not take himself too seriously
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Hokeyposted 14 years ago
Yup! I knew you would remember. I gotta go. Time to soak the foot again. This sucks. Oh well. See you later and thanks for the cool e-mail. Bye.
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  blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  See you Hokey. Hope your foot feels better.
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  Hokeyposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I'm back!
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figmentposted 14 years ago
Confidence but not arrogance and eyes
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xxxlushlipzxxxposted 14 years ago
yes, confidence and honesty
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  Cagsilposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I'm not sure if this is sexy or not, but I'm going to do/say something.
  
  Welcome to HubPages Lushlips.
  
  I'm not sure what or why you're on HubPages? But, I just reviewed a couple of your hubs and I would suggest you learn your way around HubPages.
  
  It's a great start to have published that many hubs in such a short period of time, however, quality of content is better than quantity.
  
  I'm suggesting you go the Extreme Hub Makeover Forum and let some hubbers critique your hubs, so as you can improve them and do well here at HubPages. Not to mention, there are plenty of Hubs that you should read, long before you jump into the forums, but that's another story for some other time.
  
  I'm going to give you a few links to start out with and you can take it from there.
  
  The hub below gives you a little insight on Hubbing. It is written by a fairly new hubber- so you should have no problem.
  http://hubpages.com/hub/What-Every-New- … hould-Know
  
  Then, I would suggest you use the below link to get to the Extreme Hub Makeover Forum and post a thread with 3 links and let hubbers have at it.
  
  http://hubpages.com/forum/23
  
  There are countless forum thread on SEO(search engine optimization), Back linking and GOOGLE Adsense, and Amazon.
  
  So, I hope you enjoy your time here and have a great experience.
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Ladybird33posted 14 years ago
confidence but not cockiness...that is sexy.
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  Cagsilposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Hmmm......?
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xxxlushlipzxxxposted 14 years ago
Thanks Cagsil, maybe I shouldn't have published too soon, I just had all of these ideas and got carried away.. I will improve my hubs I promise
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  Cagsilposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Don't need to promise me little lady. They are not my hubs and you didn't write my hubs.
  
  I would like you to do well here and that is my only driving force. If I let you know ahead of time, fore-warn, then you'll won't get bogged down as easily as others who do not participate in the forums.
  
  Some people adapt well and some do not, the question of which you are? Is still open. I wasn't trying to belittle you are or anything in that manner.
  
  Just trying to be helpful. Not demeaning.
  
  Edit: Btw- You're welcome.
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Beth100posted 14 years ago
Intelligence. Power. Grace. Kindness. Humor. Ethics.

Attitude.

Eyes. Physique.

hmmm.....list is much too long!

Everything about him if he knows how to make it appealing!!
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Bloggeressaposted 14 years ago
A man who works hard is incredibly sexy to me. It shows me he takes pride in what he does and who wants a lazy guy?

Maybe its a cavewoman instinct in me, but I want to feel confident in someone putting something towards the table as well, not just me.
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brianzenposted 14 years ago
I have been called sexy all my life, and I don't know what to do with that it is nice to hear it but is that a cue to be some different way? sometimes I am just being friendly, and it escalates into a totally different thing. what does a woman want when she tells you that she can't stand it anymore, (wants you) and you just did not see it coming?
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  brianzenposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Then after 3 long hot sweaty months they act like I am the sex crazed maniac. (jk)
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  brianzenposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  actually not kidding.
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