Would you encourage sex before marriage, yes or no? please elaborate

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  1. BlessedBella profile image61
    BlessedBellaposted 6 years ago

    Would you encourage sex before marriage, yes or no? please elaborate


  2. dashingscorpio profile image87
    dashingscorpioposted 6 years ago

    Sex should only take place between two consenting adults. If someone does not want to have sex then they shouldn't allow themself to be talked into it, pressured, or give in due to an ultimatum.
    Having said that I personally could never marry a woman I had never had sex with. In my opinion you can't manufacture chemistry. It's either there or it's not. One of the top reasons people give for cheating is sexual incompatibility or lack of passion in the relationship or marriage. It's a romantic notion to believe a man or woman who has never had sex will suddenly become a "super stud" or "lioness" in bed after saying "I do"
    Sexual compatibility for me is (just one of several items) on my "check list" to determine whether or not there is a possibility I could spend the rest of my life with a person. Awhile back I wrote a hub on it's importance.
    http://dashingscorpio.hubpages.com/hub/ … ationships
    Keep in mind everyone is entitled to have their own list of requirements! Ulitmately each of us is looking for someone who "naturally agrees" with us.

  3. smzclark profile image60
    smzclarkposted 6 years ago

    I'd like to say no. But at the same time I went out with a guy once and worshipped him until the day we slept together...or tried to...We were so horribly uncompatible!!! For that reason I have to say yes. You have to be sure the chemistry's their.
    And no woman enjoys her first time anyway---I wouldn't've wanted my wedding night to be wasted on being broken in! I don't regret having some experience before marriage; although I'm a little ashamed to admit it.

  4. duffsmom profile image60
    duffsmomposted 6 years ago

    No, sorry and of course this will get a ton of the little down arrows. Because I am a Christian and consider the Bible the inerrant Word of God,  I believe that a sexual relationship is meant for married couples.  So no I don't encourage sex before marriage.

  5. BlessedBella profile image61
    BlessedBellaposted 6 years ago

    I totally understand that we all have different cultures around the world, we all have different opinions. I think all lies in the way you control your emotions and body. I am firmly christian, and we all know that flesh is so weak that it makes temptation seem like an ocean in which we could easily drown. We all are so eager to fight temptation, but we can all drown easily! I know many people would say that sex before marriage has been a bad or good experience, but what matters is how you treat your body. Many would agree that they only do it out of Love and chemistry, but why would you go marry someone else?

    When bodies touch and communicate, they also connect on the emotional, heart and soul level. I would encourage not to do it before marriage, but everyone is entitled to their own opinions!

  6. nightwork4 profile image60
    nightwork4posted 6 years ago

    absolutely. i wouldn't even date a woman that didn't want to have sex. imagine waiting to have sex until you are married only to find out that your partner doesn't enjoy it.

  7. lburmaster profile image82
    lburmasterposted 6 years ago

    I encourage sex before marriage. Statistics say people who have sex before marriage, then get married are more satisfied in their sex life and adapt better to their partner. I just advise others to be wise about their situations and choices. If they don't want it yet, then wait. If you don't like something your partner desires or enjoys, then don't do it. It won't be worth it.


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