How can you tell if a person is falling out of love?

1. 73

   thesingernurseposted 13 years ago

   How can you tell if a person is falling out of love?

   replyreport
2. 0

   msorenssonposted 13 years ago

   Being in love is always a cycle. Loving someone is permanent. Love is like the ocean. Being in love is the waves.
   
   So the real question is did you love in the first place or were you just on the shore watching the waves? Or perhaps you were on the shore and was toying with the waves..
   
   To love and know you love, "you take a sip of water and you swallow the whole ocean"  the quote  is from a Zen Master.

   replyreport
3. 60

   Sheila Leeposted 13 years ago

   I think their behavior will say it all. If they seem to be "busy" more than normal, or make excuses why they can't go out or their lack of affection, saying things like they are not in the mood or they just don't feel like it. If they seem distant. Things that are against the norm for that person would give me hints that they are no longer in love or interested in the relationship as they used to be.

   replyreport
4. 60

   HattieMattieMaeposted 13 years ago

   fortunately falling in and out of love is just part of the journey in any relationship. There will always be times when you don't feel close to eachother and disconnected. It is learning to look within yourself for the answers why you feel things are happening the way they are. Most people just quit when the peak goes low. Either both of you have expectations that need to be dropped, both of you have fears, insecurities, probably bringing the past into the moment, and judging, criticizing, and think the other person needs to change. Think these are all things that contribute to the moment we feel we are falling out love. Besides never dealing baggage or issues personally. Finding self worth is the key, and seeing another persons perspective, and being limitless. Stepping out of the box.

   replyreport
5. 0

   onlookerposted 13 years ago

   serious irritation even at the most normal utterance.
   You're more happy when the person is not around.
   Dread the thought if he/she wants sex.
   You start checking other ppl out, etc.

   replyreport
6. 68

   xethonxqposted 13 years ago

   They're less attentive, less responsive, less willing. The spark is gone from their eyes.

   replyreport
7. 39

   alisha4uposted 13 years ago

   You will start recieving signals from that person once he makes up his mind to walk out...
   for xample- not picking up calls, rare meetings, rare talks, and so forth...

   replyreport
8. 35

   edhanposted 13 years ago

   My friend who fell out of love shows himself listless in everything he does. He practically not interested in those things he loves. Keeping to himself most of the time which is unlike his usual self.

   replyreport
9. 59

   feenixposted 13 years ago

   One of the signs is when the person chooses to sleep on the couch every night.

   replyreport
10. 88

    Beata Stasakposted 13 years ago

    Their eyes stop shine, their faces close in, their walk loose the determination, there is no where to go any more, there is no one waiting at the end of their journey...we are social animals, we are fed on approval of others and the most approval we can always get is always from a loved one, who puts us on a pediestal in the name of love...

    replyreport