Have you ever lost a true love and then , never ever could love anyone again?

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   suzzycueposted 13 years ago

   Have you ever lost a true love and then , never ever could love anyone again?

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   Eliminate Cancerposted 13 years ago

   Maybe.  I'm still trying to figure that one out.  I'm hoping that I'm not too broken to move on, time heals everything...  right?

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   gmmurgirlposted 13 years ago

   I am with my true love now. But yes, I am certain that if I lost him, I could never love anyone as much again. I know that this privilege of feeling something pure and unconditional just comes once.

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   juiwei2000posted 13 years ago

   Love come and goes, you can always find another one.  I let go of true love more then once, (I like her and she like me) because I believe it is the right thing to do, under the circumstances. (I made the decision for both of us, saying we should not be together.) It is a bit upsetting, but you get over it after a little while.  I came across four girls in my life, which I really like and they really like me and I decide we should not be together due to various form of reason and if I am to do it again, I will make the exact same decision, all over again.  [The first one, I decided we are wrong for each other, because she come from a communist country and my experience suggest to me, marriage between one from communist background and the other from none communist background, will always leads to major problems, later on wards.  The second, because her dad hope for her to married somebody Greek and you should always put your family before your BF/GF, the third one, I lost my job in that time, she doesn't mind, but I believe she would be making a mistake and insist on breaking up.  The last one, she already has a boy friend, who she doesn't love but feel obligate to be with (because he help her out a lot, because he loves her)and wanted to leave him, when she met me. I decide we can not be together, out of respect to her BF] Currently, I don't have a girl I like, but it doesn't mean I won't meet another girl i like, someday.

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   vicki5897posted 13 years ago

   I have lost a true love 8 years ago. I still haven't found anyone who made me feel the way he did. I fear I won't, but I still have hope.

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   dashingscorpioposted 13 years ago

   No. I have always been able to set aside the past in order to move forward in life. No two loves are the same. However it does not mean we are unable to open up our hearts again, trust again, or love deeply again. It takes more courage to fall in love a 2nd or 3rd time than it does the first time. I believe most people who never fall in love again on some level have (chosen) never to open up completely again. In order to have love in your life one must first want love in their life.
   We live for "tomorrow" with the hope that it will be better than today.

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   The Invincibleposted 13 years ago

   Love is something that you keep-on pusrusing throughout your life...
   Perhaps, we as humans can never stop loving. Our zeal for love is never-ending...
   
   But, when we lose someone we loved a lot, it hurts.. Everything around comes to a halt for sometime...
   But, as they say, 'after every dark night, there comes the light' !!

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