Are you and your mate "opposites"?

  1. moonfairy profile image80
    moonfairyposted 6 years ago

    Are you and your mate "opposites"?

    they say that opposites attract. Are you opposites in either looks or personality?

  2. dashingscorpio profile image87
    dashingscorpioposted 6 years ago

    Opposites may attract in the short run but it's like that attracts like in the long run. If you are with someone who always wants to go right and you want to go left then most likely you are in store for a lot of arugments or fights. People who find themselves in such relationships try to "change" their mate and when that fails they become frustrated while their mate harbors resentment. (This is in reference to the way one behaves or thinks.)
    As for appearance...."Beauty is in the eye of the beholder"

  3. lburmaster profile image82
    lburmasterposted 6 years ago

    Yes and no. We are both OCD, but in the opposite areas. I'm OCD in my office and no where else. He is OCD everywhere else. I'm patient, he isn't. He will hold his tongue, I am blunt and to the point. However, we both relax each other and have similar work ethics. Even so, I have a slower pace than him and don't work as well with people.