Security: not financial, more a sense of belonging and safety
Fun: the ability to make mundane everyday life an adventure together
Spark: Yes, this is vague but you could have every quality a women wants but unless there is that strange spark (call it chemical, genetic or destiny, you aren't going to have the basis for a true intimate loving relationship).
Him: You gotta be completely obvious with guys, that's how we understand (what you need or want). Sorry to break that to you.Her: Then I guess I should be a lesbian.My opinion: I would want a guy to act on his hopes and...