I love my boyfriend VERY much, but sometimes have doubts about him or our relationship. What to do?
I love my bf - he is honest, quirky, cute, interesting, smart, and loves me SO much. I can look in his eyes just "know" him. We share similar ideas for our futures. We are early 30s and have been together 2 years (known each other 6). He would get married now if I were "there" too. But I'm not. There's no 1 big issue causing my hesitance, but a few small/medium ones - he's introverted/a home body which I can find stifling, he can be uptight/closeminded at times, or lacking in a lightness/funniness. While often happy, sometimes I feel like it could be better. I am stuck. What to do?
I feel kind of sad for your bf. You describe a great guy but then wonder if you could do better. Maybe the phrase is find a better match? Often its those differenced that keep us balanced as a couple. If he's a homebody does he mind if you go out with your friends more often? What kind of compromises are in place and are they the kind that help your relationship or lead you to the desire to stray? He may be fine with loving you more than you love him but I prefer to hope that people are equally in love if they decide to get married.
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