What to do with my cheating boyfriend?
My bf and I are together for 5 yrs and he has cheated throughout yet he is so nice to me when he is with me as though he is not he always denies it but my inlaws tell me he texts with other girls all the time. We are both 23 he is a soccer player and I think that is why he self praises himself and girls are always after him. I broke up with him last night took back the phone I gave him for fathers day cz we have a child together but I am scared to leave him because I still pretty much love him. I dont know what to do!
The real question here is: Do I love myself enough to find someone who will not cheat on me? Unless you are content with having your boyfriend cheat on you the only "real" option you have is to move on. (You can't control another person's thoughts or actions.) All you can do is control who you spend your time with. Ideally you want to be with someone who shares your same values. Unless lying and cheating are part of your makeup it sounds like the two of you are not right for one another. Best of luck!
Simple way to act here is Move on. just because he is the one you are attracted to does not mean he is your suitable mate, at least you came to your senses before some disaster occurred. Be grateful to yourself, thank your senses and have faith as you will find someone better and trustworthy.
You have only one life don't ruin even the moments for those who do not deserve.
Think enough of yourself to put a stop to this and leave. If he thought as highly of you, as you do him, he would not do this to you and the mother of his child. You will get over it. Demand respect because it will not be handed to you.
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