my boyfriend doesn't calls me unless i call him.he simply doesn't bothers about

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   pinning for hopeposted 14 years ago

   my boyfriend doesn't calls me unless i call him.he simply doesn't bothers about me now.and i can...
   
   call him and message him for one day and he doesn't cares.when on the phone,he will only sounds very impatient and not interested.he says im very naggy doesn't really feels like talking with me.he finds that we have problem communicating.i know i've been handling things the wrong ways.is it too late now to salvage things.and what can i do now to save this relationship?pls help me.i want to save this relationship.we are staying in different countries now.

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   craigb182posted 14 years ago

   There is no point in a relationship where the effort is only being made by one side. Ask him what he wants and think about what you want. Draw up some pros and cons of staying together and weigh them out. If you now live in separate countries maye the relationship has run its course?

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   Michael Durdenposted 14 years ago

   Ignore him for a while. Chances are he'll suddenly start wishing you were calling.
   
   How often do you call him? You may be calling too much in general, in which is complaint would be justified.
   
   Basically, though, it sounds like he isn't that into the relationship, so maybe it isn't worth saving. Maybe it's better to find someone who will show you some attention.

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   boblet42posted 14 years ago

   No my love you are not living in different countries, you are living on different planets.

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   Julie2posted 14 years ago

   Being in a relationship shouldn't feel like work. If you are feeling this way, always giving and giving and you get nothing in return, why would you want to work it out. He may have lost interest and doesn't know how to tell you because he doesn't want to hurt you.
   The thing is you are already hurt.
   
   Its up to you whether you want to keep going thru this or you close that door and open a new one. You need to be open to letting someone in that will be there and want to talk to you and spend time.

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   perfectperceptionposted 14 years ago

   Relationships over dear.  You need to move on!

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   Lucky Catsposted 14 years ago

   You have found yourself in a one way relationship.  You should not have to "beg" (in essence) for his attention or his follow through.    This is going in the wrong direction and it will only escalate if it continues as it is.  Give him space...and give yourself a little positive feedback..from friends, family and, perhaps, a new "love interest."  Date others.  Be friendly and interested in other boys and let this one go his own way.  The dye is set, my dear.  It will only continue; you can't force him or convince him to care for you as you wish he would.  It will only lead to more hurt feelings and frustration for you.

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   yazoogal43posted 13 years ago

   Forget this rude person and move on with your life long distance relationships rarely work, i have a hub about them in fact that you may find helpful. it is on yahoo hubs entitled Long Distance R elationships. you are a lovely person and will easily make new friends, enjoy your holidays and move forward

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   Celtic_Pandaposted 13 years ago

   Long distance relationships are not easy to begin with.  You seem to be putting forth a lot of effort and he isn't putting in enough, if any.  I think it's time to call this one quits and find someone who's willing to work with you, not against you.  Good luck!

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