What will you do if you find out that you wife is pregnant and you are not responsible for it?
after your wedding day what next your honeymoon. And on the first night of your honeymoon you find out you wife is pregnant to your childhood friend who was you best man on your wedding day.
Sorry sir..but you need to get an annulment .....it is clear that she is not in love or love you, I mean people make mistakes, but not the day of your wedding....I would forgive both of them...but I would end both relationships.
Personally for me the marriage would be over. I'm too visual of a creature which means I could not look at her without thinking about her sleeping with my friend or any other man especially as she puts on pregnancy weight.
Having said that there are two schools of thought.
Find out what led her to cheat on you. And if you can in any way acknowledge your treatment of her may have had something to do with it then you might be open to forgiving her. Going forward you also need to find out what she intends to do. Does she plan to go full term or not? Remember it's a (woman's right to choose). You have no say. Make sure that you have it in your heart to truly forgive her if you intend to stay. Ask yourself, Would I be able to look at this child and not get angry? Could I deal with my friend coming over to visit his child or pick him/her up on weekends? Remember your friend will always be apart of your marriage indirectly if he opts to be involved in the child's life.
Should you decide to end the marriage the next step is to legally protect yourself. In a lot of states they practice the "What is in the child's best interest" rule. If a child is conceived during a marriage many states will hold the married spouse responsible for financial support. Other states allow up to two years to contest paternity. Research the laws in your state.
Each of us is entitled to have our own "deal breakers". No one can make this kind of decision for another person. For some people love conquers all.
I'd end it then and there.
Not only is it an awful situation, but there's also the factor that she didn't tell you the truth before.
by stev07 years ago
Greetings everyone, In desperate need of some advice. I was actually trolling the internet in a despair and came upon this site by happen chance. I'm very interested to see how someone else in my situation would...
by devisree3 years ago
How happy you are when you met your childhood friend after a long time?
by leroyp7 years ago
how long does it take to find out if my dog is pregnantmy yorkshires are 24 months old and got stuck this morning how soon can find out if they are pregnant
by peter5653 years ago
What would you do if you find out your wife married and stay with you only for the money?
by peter5653 years ago
What would you do if you find out your wife is having an affair with your brother?
by crissykane7 years ago
What is the first thing you'll do if you find out that your partner is cheating on you?
Copyright © 2018 HubPages Inc. and respective owners.
Other product and company names shown may be trademarks of their respective owners.
HubPages® is a registered Service Mark of HubPages, Inc.
HubPages and Hubbers (authors) may earn revenue on this page based on affiliate relationships and advertisements with partners including Amazon, Google, and others.