How do I know if he is playing mind games with me?
Name is Juliet I know this guy for like 4 years I started talkin to him when I was new York on a chat line He was in texas and we started talking more I started to like him and he said the same thing about me but we were both far away but then Told the guy I was moving to Texas where he Lives I didnt think that would happen anyway when I move to Texas he said he would see me but he never did I was hurt but it was no excuse he could see me And he would oh I miss u and like u ect but he never even showed up I waited awhile and then I didn't tlk to him 4 awhile
The thing is, people are rarely who they portray themselves to be online. This guy(assuming he is a guy) is probably nothing like he described himself to be. He might have told you he is 26 and in reality he is 12! Assuming you made this move to Texas to be near someone you have never met in person could also be a little disturbing to him(in a stalkerish sort of way!)I am sure you are a wonderful girl with a lot of good qualities that a guy could appreciate . Maybe it would be a good idea to forget about this guy for now and go out with your friends and meet some new guys in person.
I would say he liked your online company only, and wasn't prepared to create a relationship with you in the real world, or he already has a partner.
I talked to several guys on a chat line and I have never any of them to be serious about a relationship, including the man I married. Guys use chat lines as a temporary fix to an immediate problem. Some use the lines for an escort, some use the lines to find girls for pornography or to pimp out. Some use the lines just to kill time at work, before work, or after work. The chat line is fun to meet different people but, more than likely, you won't find love.
Now to answer your question about this guy, he's using you by playing with your mind and he has no intention on doing anything serious with you. I strongly suggest in the particular situation that you should not only ignore this man (and I put the term loosely) but also pretend like the two of you never met. When he calls again, and he will, pretend like he's got the wrong number, he's got the right girl but you never met him, then tell him to please stop calling you and immediately hang up. That way you can end the relationship (and I use that term loosely too!) turning the tables and playing mind games with him and you can move on with your head held high!
Thank you for choosing me for best answer. Hopefully, my advice serves you well.
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