Did I miss an opportunity with her?

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  1. soconfident profile image82
    soconfidentposted 6 years ago

    Did I miss an opportunity with her?

    I took this really cute girl to the movies to see spider man. We had a great conversation during the previews. We watched the movie and then she went to her place and I went to mine. I never heard from her again.

  2. xxtonybxx profile image87
    xxtonybxxposted 6 years ago

    Maybe, you'll never know. It's a bit late to call her now. If she didn't call you, maybe she wasn't interested, maybe she was waiting for you to call, but if you didn't try to find out, you never will. If you ring now I can't imagine she will be impressed. Next time you have a good time with a girl, give it a day or so, then RING HER and TELL HER. If she's not interested, hey, where's the harm? If she is, you haven't passed up  a possible good relationship.

    1. soconfident profile image82
      soconfidentposted 6 years agoin reply to this

      thanks for the advice I found it to be very useful

  3. beatrice dupree profile image64
    beatrice dupreeposted 6 years ago

    If you took her to the movies?  One can invision that you had her telephone number to set up the date.  Following the usual trend a follow-up call should be given by you the next day.  The longer you put off this call,  you will allow her to doubt if you will call again and this is not good. This follow-up call is really to thank her for the pleasure of her company.  If she is interested in you she will let you know by her conversation, pay attention.
         Most men fail to bond with that one special person because they lack the gift of showing respect and appreciation for a really special person.  Above all being really cute is not the most important rule although it helps.  Betty Davis was beautiful, although some did not think her the most beatiful actress, but she is legendary.
         When Sydney Potier the actor came on the scene he did not fit the mold of what the average American considered particularly handsome during his era.  But before he new it he was called  the sexiest man alive by many people.
         Perhaps you still have a chance with this young lady if the two of you are interested in the same outcome.  Some women want more than a casual relationship.  Other women have long range plans and are not ready to get serious.
        I think your opportunity is as good as before as long as it was not just a charity date.  Few women can resist an interesting suave man. When you plan something creative and exciting for the both of you to enjoy, give this young lady another call.

    Don't forget a good bottle of Champagne,

    beatrice dupree

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    twinlyposted 6 years ago

    One time this girl did that to me. Oh wait that happened like 1,000 times to me. yikes

    I always thought something was wrong with me because I got rejected so many times. Twenty lonely years of my life went by in the blink of an eye.

    One day I met this girl in my college class. We talked like we were best friends, and now we have been together for three years.

    I met her when I was 20 years old. I saved myself for her because no one wanted to give me a chance. All of the other girls were just practice for that moment I shared a conversation with the girl of my dreams.

    The point of the brief story is you will find someone better. Keep your chin up and don't give up. If it is meant to be you will hear from her again. If you don't it is her loss.


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