What is it that you don't want to hear about from a girl on a date?

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   lisasuniquevoiceposted 11 years ago

   What is it that you don't want to hear about from a girl on a date?
   
   

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   tussinposted 11 years ago

   old boyfriends, how much her fake boobs cost, how much she loves doing coke in bathrooms, how many shots she can do, how she can eat a whole pizza in 5 minutes, you know, the usually stuff that obnoxious twits like to talk about

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      Danweposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      agree with tussin... and also don't talk negatively... focus on positive emotions.. nobody enjoys being with somebody who is negative, depressed etc

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      lisasuniquevoiceposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      tussin,
      Sounds like you've had your share of dates. I can't believe women would talk about such things on a date. I'm embarrassed for  them. Thank you for your answer.  Lisa

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      SmartAndFunposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        Well, Tussin, I guess you're saying you didn't have fun on our date. Sorry, but I'm poud of all the shots and coke I can do. It has taken me years to build up that stamina!

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      tussinposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      I was just jealous because I can't party as hard. I will work on being more gracious and accepting that some people are just better than me.

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   nightwork4posted 11 years ago

   many things. i don't want to hear how the last guy was so mean. i don't want to hear about how hard her life has been and i sure don't want to hear that she used to be a guy.

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      lisasuniquevoiceposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      You definitely don't want to hear about a sex change. I agree. How could you ever forget she used to be a man?

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   dashingscorpioposted 11 years ago

   I have to agree with tussin and nightwork4 regarding talking about exes or experiences with other men. Unless someone asks you about it there is no point in bringing up that stuff on a first date.
   Every time a woman says, "I use to (date) a fireman or whatever"....etc What the man actually hears her saying is, "I use to (f*** ) a fireman...etc  Most guys aren't interested in hearing a "roll call" of your past (dates, romances, or exes).

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      lisasuniquevoiceposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      daashingscorpio,
      You're right. I never talk about old boyfriends. They aren't worth making a new guy feel like crap. Also, of course she did that with the fireman. Who's she kidding? Thank you so much, LIsa

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   TB Bullockposted 11 years ago

   I agree with the previous answers that we definitely do not want to hear about exes. Also, pets or how much money the girl's family has. If she mentions Jersey Shore, shoes, or hair, we will immediately tune out. What we do want to hear is intelligent and engaging remarks about meaningful things. Funny stories help, but only if we also think they're funny. Above all, no exes.

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