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What should you NEVER ask in a 1st date?

  1. Theocharis V profile image75
    Theocharis Vposted 6 years ago

    What should you NEVER ask in a 1st date?


  2. Robie Benve profile image99
    Robie Benveposted 6 years ago

    What church do you want me to book for the wedding?

  3. EuroCafeAuLait profile image86
    EuroCafeAuLaitposted 6 years ago

    The main thing is to be natural, enjoy the time spent together, and don't push too much.  As long as you are interested and respectful, I think you can't go wrong.  It takes more than one date to get to know someone.

  4. larry71 profile image60
    larry71posted 6 years ago

    This would vary based upon how long you've already known this person and how well you know them, or at least think you know them. For instance if you met online and this has been your only form or communication over a short period of time, any questios on religeon and politics should totally stay off of the menu of items to talk about.
    If you share a mutual friend and have been introduced and set up, this would still apply.
    If you've known of eachother and are only aquainted not "friends" I would still not bother with religeon or politics. These two subjects are taboo even for people who have been married many years or even between immediate family. 
    Avoid religeon and politics like the plague at all cost.
    If you have any interest in furthering the relationship or even the date itself, avoid these 2 topics. 
    Talk about forms of entertainment, such as movies or music. Sports can be tricky depending on the season and rather or not the date would be a hard core die hard fan of your rival team.   
    I wouldln't worry about any form of serious conversation unless you are serious about furthering the relationship beyond the occasional date.  Or the date may end before it gets a chance to really start.

  5. Sheila Lee profile image60
    Sheila Leeposted 6 years ago

    Anything of a sexual nature. This would be a red flag that the person is only interested in a hook up.

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    Old Empresarioposted 6 years ago

    "What are your thoughts on abortion?"

  7. Insane Mundane profile image61
    Insane Mundaneposted 6 years ago

    If it concerns a guy going out on a date with a female, I'd say: "Do you like to be hogtied and ball-gagged while taking it in the ass?" If she smiles after hearing that on the first date, you can rest assured that ya got your self an "open resource," if ya will...  LOL!  Don't look at me, just answering the question to the best of my ability...  sad

  8. xethonxq profile image64
    xethonxqposted 6 years ago

    Am I all that and a bag of potato chips or what? (I think if someone said that to me I'd throw my drink on them and walk out).

  9. ptosis profile image77
    ptosisposted 6 years ago

    Woman to the male: "what kind of car do you drive?" guys don't like the Q because she trying to find out you income level. Very rude.

    Man to woman " Wanna smoke some crack/meth?"

  10. truthfornow profile image84
    truthfornowposted 6 years ago

    I hate being asked "how many guys have you had sex with?"  I find that question in bad taste and a sign of insecurity.

  11. delaneyworld profile image80
    delaneyworldposted 6 years ago

    There are a few that I would avoid until you get to know one another better:

    1.  How old are you?
    2.  What do you weigh?
    3.  What about politics?  What do you think about what's going on in the world right now?
    4.  How many boy or girlfriends have you had?
    5.  Which foods make you gassy?
    6.  Have you ever contracted a sexually transmitted disease?
    7.  Has your butt always been this big?

    Those would be some that would raise a red flag for me.

  12. C.V.Rajan profile image79
    C.V.Rajanposted 6 years ago

    How many boy friends / girls friends do you have?

  13. Jewelz1313 profile image80
    Jewelz1313posted 6 years ago

    I had a guy ask me one time "Do your breast get smaller when you loose weight?" I only weighed 140 and I'm 5'5". I didn't know what to make of it. Needless to say, with that one question I decided right then and there it would be the last.

  14. NiaLee profile image61
    NiaLeeposted 6 years ago

    How much money do you make?
    Are you ready to get married?
    How many men or women did you date?

  15. wonderingwoolley profile image56
    wonderingwoolleyposted 6 years ago

    oh man! You should never ask about sex, especially kinky sex on the first date. Also, I think past relationships, marriage and kids (unless you already have them!) are something you should save for the second date, at least. Talk about your pets, your job, your hobbies, interests and favorite bands. Find common ground before you go spilling all your personal secrets.

  16. soconfident profile image84
    soconfidentposted 6 years ago

    How many people you had sex with? Do you have a STD?