When you want to bring something positive into your life you need to work on you so you attract the best. If you are self confident you can attract the same. If you are well read, well traveled, knowledgeable about history or politics or religion whatever appeals to you. Then you can bring your equal or better and be prepared to recognize and appreciate it. With your self esteem held high you won't settle for less than you deserve. If you lead an active life you will meet your mate. Don't beg, borrow or steal. Wait for the "real" thing. It's what you deserve.
Socialise with other singles! The best way to do this is by joining a sport or hobby group where you'll meet new people and then you'll already have an interest in common. Also consider using a local online dating website.
With over 7 Billion people walking this planet it's almost impossible not to meet a woman. You just have to get out there and socialize. Introduce yourself and make conversation. There are other options such as using a "quality" online dating website. (Skip the free ones and the super cheap ones).
If you live in the U.S. you might want to check out (meet.up.com) which is a site primarily focused on hobbies/interests. There are numerous groups around the country and they vary in type from (meditation, yoga, hiking, acting, writing, networking, wine tasting...etc If you meet someone there at least you'll know you have something in common right off the bat. I actually belong to an Authors meet up in my area. If for nothing else it's nice to get out and be among others that share your interest.
Another tactic is to sit down and create a profile of your Ms. Right in detail. It should contain more than her appearance. Get inside of her head. Where would she shop for clothes? Does she work out (if so) what type of gym would she join? What type of career is she in? What hobbies does she have? Where would she go for vacations or weekend getaways? Lay out at the beach? (which one)? What neighborhood is she likely to live in? Would she shop in a grocery store or a specialty market store like Trader Joes? What type of restaurants could you imagine she would go to for lunch? Does she go out for "Happy Hour" cocktails on Fridays with friends? Is she a volunteer for a particular cause? Does she enjoy sitting around in bookstores sipping coffee and browsing through books...etc The more details you have the better it is.
The next step is: BE THERE!!! (Stay positive and have FUN!)
Now that you know what type of woman you want along with what her lifestyle is it is now up to you to frequent those places. She is not going to show up at your door. If you want to win the lottery you have to buy a ticket! Best of luck!
First of all, make sure you look your best. Grooming is important. Second of all, put yourself out there. If you have a choice between going to a get-together or staying home, go out! You won't meet anyone at home. Another thing you can do is take a class in something that interests you, that might also interest women. Examples: cooking, history, politics, languages. The list is endless. Try to stay away from very "manly" classes like repairs, etc. You can also join clubs. Thirdly, join an online dating site (Match.com, Eharmony.com, etc), but once you find someone interesting, meet them in person right away. Don't keep it going online without meeting in person, because you're not really meeting the real person and you won't know if you are physically attracted to each other.
Lastly, try not to feel desperate, because that comes out in your behavior. Try to look at it as, "If I meet someone, great, if not, no big deal". That will help you both feel, and project, more confidence.
I hope this was helpful!
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