What is the most interesting value in a lover?

  1. raven heft profile image61
    raven heftposted 4 years ago

    What is the most interesting value in a lover?

    How might one describe what's perfection? If not true happiness.

  2. dashingscorpio profile image88
    dashingscorpioposted 4 years ago

    There is no such thing as "perfection".
    The most one can hope for is (choosing) the "right mate" for themselves.
    This normally entails finding someone who shares your same values, wants the same things for the relationship, (naturally agrees) with you on how to obtain those things, and last but not least both people have a (mutual) depth of love, respect, and desire for one another.
    Having said all of that (time) is the true measuring stick because it's not uncommon for one or both people to (change) their "wants".
    There is never a time when a relationship (freezes). We're either growing together or we're growing apart. Communication and constant nurturing are required to stay on track. Neglect kills!