What would you do if your lover gave you a hall pass?
- Stevennix2001posted 13 years ago
0After researching movies coming out next year, I found one that sounds kind of funny that I think some people will enjoy. The movie is essentially about these guys that always get in trouble with their wives for checking out hot girls...IN FRONT OF THEM TOO!
Anyways, their wives decide to give them a hall pass for a whole week. Meaning, they're allowed to do whatever they want (in theory), as this also includes sleeping with other women, AND there will be no punishments or consequences for their actions. What I would like to ask all you guys out there is this...what would YOU do with a hall pass from your lover? Please tell us in EXACT detail what would you do to take advantage of your free week to do whatever you want? Please, keep your comments at a pg 13ish level please.
@ladies
Okay ladies, I direct this question back at you. What if your lover gave you a hall pass to do whatever you wanted, without consequences, as you'd be allowed to cheat as well. What exactly would you girls do with your free week hall pass in your relationship?
Please, take in mind, this forum is just for fun, and I mean no offense by it. Hope you all have a great time discussing this.
Yes, bring it I say
- i like the way you think kim.
(joke)
- Stevennix2001posted 13 years ago0
Yeah, i tend to agree with you guys on this. Personally, I think if a man/woman needed a hall pass to begin with, then chances are that should be a clear sign that maybe there's something seriously wrong in their relationship. If it were offered to me though, I wouldn't even use it. Well except to play video games and watch movies all week without doing any household shores (by movies i mean NORMAL movies). Does that count as using the hall pass?
Seriously, I wouldn't use the hall pass to cheat on my wife/gf because that would be wrong on so many levels. - as always anath, your replies are always fun to read.
Hmmm. Well, the looking doesn't bother me. My hubby's always free to do as much of that as he wants (so long as he's not offensive about it.) I'm not very visual when it comes to turn-ons, so I don't suppose I'd need a hall pass for looking even if he was willing to hand one out.
On the less involved levels, I think a certain comfort with your spouse/gf/bf looking at/being interested in other folk is probably a really good sign. I trust my guy to know how far to take it (not very far) and when to draw a line. And it doesn't bother me when he checks out another girl w/ a sideways glance. I know he's coming home with me, and the looking is pretty natural, I think. I know people who freaked when their husband to be wanted a bachelor party. It didn't phase me in the slightest. I mean, the man asked me to marry him, I oughtta trust him, right? (Not to mention that I was pretty damn sure that none of the strippers were going to ask him to runaway with them. A strip club is probably about the safest place for a man to be if your fear is them running off! )
And, if I were offered a hall pass for "other activities"... I'm not perfect, and I'm not saying the thought hadn't crossed my mind, but I'd never, EVER act on it. I don't care how many times you swear up and down that there will be no repurcussions... sex is too emotional for that - at least sex with someone you love. And, I do love him. Whatever the physical enjoyment of the moment, it wouldn't be worth losing the love of my life.Thanks TS, for the amazingly insightful answer, as I don't think anyone could have summed it up better.
Anytime Steven! Of course I'd take that hall pass in a heart beat for you.
Really? That's good to know. I might have to take you up on that offer someday.
j/khmmm
hi diane, hows it going? long time no see.
I have it, on a reciprocal basis of course. You know Steven, after a while it gets boring and really doesn't seem to be worth the hassle. I don't remember using it for more than a handful of years already. Or may be I am just getting old?
I would automatically assume...
...and therefore I would decline to take advantage of said "hall pass."
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