To ALL the young men out there, what TYPE of women do YOU consider to be PRIME relationship,
committal, and/or marriage material?
In think the most important aspects in marriage are commitment and love. However, one may be unable to commit where there is no love. Marriage material is a word used to mean women who have the capacity to behave as wives. Although good behavior is important, I believe the committal aspect is much more important.
or, just as valid, Gmw, "what type of men do you consider to be PRIME relationship?"
Compatibility is the prime aspect of any successful marriage. If partners are compatible, they can always lead a harmonious married life. so, men should first look for compatibility in a woman to start a relation with her. Again, the woman should have good adjusting power as well. Also take note that how much she is dedicated towards the relationship, which can materialize into marriage.
When I was young it made no difference how "perfect" a woman was I had no interest in settling down, getting married, and becoming my parents! Every relationship was thought to be temporary. In fact I often stated I would never get married.
Most guys did not pretend to be husbands or fathers when they were children the way most girls pretended to be mothers to their dolls and wearing "princess gowns" which are subliminal for wedding dresses.
In essence most women have been thinking about "happily ever after" and motherhood on some level many more years than men.
It's often unrealistic to expect men and women to be in the same place mentally in their youth. Generally speaking I would advise a woman in her 20s who wants to get married to date men in their early 30s. That's about the timeframe when most guys have either established their career path or have gotten the "party with the fellows" out of their system. Naturally there will always be exceptions.
Unfortunately in this day and age men are maturing even slower than previous generations! There are guys in their 30s still playing video games for hours at a time! A woman has to be selective. At the end of the day everyone is responsible for (their) own choices.
"Never love anyone who treats you like you are ordinary."
- Oscar Wilde
Totally agree. Your answer gave me a good premise for a future hub.
Great! I look forward to reading your hub. Awhile back I wrote one about 5 Reasons not to get married. http://dashingscorpio.hubpages.com/hub/ … et-Married
I think the type of women who I consider to be prime for relationship are those ladies who can actually understand me and I see a lot of maturity in them as well as an intense level of interest in me from them.
Ladies who know exactly what they want in life as well as those who are ready to make all the sacrifices together with me as a form of partnership are also considered as prime for relationship by me.
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