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What's my baby's daddy new gf's problem.. I have not seen him or her for over a

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    Tinkerbell kellyposted 4 years ago

    What's my baby's daddy new gf's problem.. I have not seen him or her for over a year an no contact

    Hey guy I am after some advice my ex partner an I broke up 2 year ago ... We where together for 5 years an Have 2 kids together any way to cut a long story short he cheated on me with her so I left him. ... About 6 months down the track we got back together he told me that they had broken up witch wasn't the case so he was cheating on her with me for almost 3 months... An I left him agen .. That was a year ago now I have had no
    Contact with them for a year ... She talks shit bout me to my kids an ppl she knows I no ., an want allow me an him to parent together I just want to move on...

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    lupineposted 4 years ago

    Sounds like a lot of negative emotions going on all around. Don't allow it into your life, or your kids life. If she is telling your kids bad things about you, that is very immature, and shows that she doesn't care to hurt them with this type of talk. Let you kids know, they are not to communicate with her. Always be a good parent, be patient, helpful, respectful, not shouting all the time, etc. Being a good role model as a parent, and being positive in what you do or say, will allow your kids to know who you really are, and not what someone tells them. As for your ex, he may not be making good decisions, and obviously does not want to be involved with you, or the kids. Don't upset yourself trying to figure him out, or get back at him...your best weapon is your success. If its been that long, you need to live your own life and not worry about him or whoever he is with. That's his choice, so let it be...no more arguing, no regrets. Learn to have peace in your home. You just take care of yourself and the kids and live a happier life. One day you will find a good man that loves and respects you...so don't settle for less!

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      Tinkerbell kellyposted 4 years agoin reply to this

      I have moved on an I'm happy I'm just sick off her talking bout me to ppl I know so it obviously gets back to me I ran into them bout 3 weeks ago an she was really immature I just walked away ... He said to me a while ago she was an easy option

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      lupineposted 4 years agoin reply to this

      Tinkerbell Kelly, I am glad to hear you're happy, just keep going in the right direction. I would tell those people, you have no interest in hearing about those losers, or anything they have to say. They will respect that if they are your friends.

 
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