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How do you spice up your Romantic life?

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    lyricsingrayposted 7 years ago

    What do you do to keep the Romantic part of your relationship fresh and exciting?

    big_smile

    1. adamareangere profile image76
      adamareangereposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Haha, interesting topic! I don't have much of a love life at the moment, but when I have we do a lot of things. He'll read some of my writing, and then talk about it after (plus it gives him some ideas) or we will cuddle up on the couch and watch an old movie like Gone With The Wind. Or we will take a bath together, candles lit and I'll read out loud from a favorite book. There are many more ideas and such, but these are some of my favorites!

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    lyricsingrayposted 7 years ago

    hmmm................ hmm:

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    lyricsingrayposted 7 years ago

    hmmm................ hmm:

  4. tantrum profile image60
    tantrumposted 7 years ago

    hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm................... lol

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      lyricsingrayposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      lol  lol

  5. Dale Mazurek profile image59
    Dale Mazurekposted 7 years ago

    After 22 years of marriage we still have a great romantic life.

    Its amazing how the simple things will keep things spiced up like going to the movies together.

    Its all about staying in love.  Everyday we tell each other we love each other, we never go to bed mad, we hug and cuddle at night and I till this day make sure I tell her how beautiful she is.

    We go camping and enjoy the simple things in life.

    1. habee profile image90
      habeeposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Dale, you sound like the perfect husband!

    2. goldenpath profile image74
      goldenpathposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Now I'm a loyal fan!  After seventeen years of marriage things have sort of fizzled in this area.  To hear it's alive and well in a 22 year marriage is reassuring.  I will try these simple things mentioned.  No promises though, I am reeeaaalllyyy rusty at this......

      1. adamareangere profile image76
        adamareangereposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        If you're romantic life has fizzled, I suggest take it slow, don't bombard her with romance or she might be wary. Maybe one day this week send her some flowers, and a gift basket of bath items, with a card that simply states you were thinking of her and how much you love her and the things she does. She'll really appreciate it! Plus, I think including things like bath items or something other than just flowers shows you are thinking of her relaxing and taking it easy, not just giving her something that will die in a few days. Talk about a romance killer, looking at flowers wilting! big_smile Good luck and keep us posted!

  6. habee profile image90
    habeeposted 7 years ago

    I find that dating men other than my husband occasionally really spices up my sex life.

    KIDDING! Seriously, we try to set aside a "date night" each week when it's all about just the two of us.

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      lyricsingrayposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      lol

  7. bojanglesk8 profile image59
    bojanglesk8posted 7 years ago

    hmmmmmmmmmm..................

  8. Bill Manning profile image71
    Bill Manningposted 7 years ago

    I put on soft music, cook myself a great meal and talk softly to my right hand,,,,,,

    Oh you don't mean single people, sorry,,,,, wink

    1. habee profile image90
      habeeposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Ha! Bill, I like you already!

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    baconmidgetposted 7 years ago

    toys?

    1. habee profile image90
      habeeposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Great idea, but sometimes it's hard to drag hubby into those stores. And I don't like going in alone - afraid I might look desperate, or like a pervert. lol!

      1. Bill Manning profile image71
        Bill Manningposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        I have some lesbian friends and they all say the same thing. They hate going into a toy store alone cause they think they look desperate. So I go with them.

        I don't mind going into them alone because I know I AM desperate! wink

        1. tantrum profile image60
          tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          lol

        2. adamareangere profile image76
          adamareangereposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          big_smile

          I have no problems going into those stores by myself, I'm not desperate, just comfortable enough in my own skin to appreciate my sexuality. Though, it is uncomfortable to be browsing around when there is a seventy year old man down the aisle from you! It's like stating to my own grampa, "Hey gramps! Look at your little grand daughter now, she's a perve!" big_smile

  10. Bovine Currency profile image60
    Bovine Currencyposted 7 years ago

    hmmmmmmmm

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    Bovine Currencyposted 7 years ago

    I am not sure this is the correct thread for me to be posting at 0630 am

    1. tantrum profile image60
      tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      But we want to know what your recipe is ! big_smile

      1. Bovine Currency profile image60
        Bovine Currencyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        I have an epic cookbook sweetie

        1. tantrum profile image60
          tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          LINK

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            Bovine Currencyposted 7 years ago in reply to this
            1. tantrum profile image60
              tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              your recipes are lost ! lol
              SERVER ERROR
              big_smile

              1. Bovine Currency profile image60
                Bovine Currencyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                Oh no! Um. Err.  Just come over to my house at eight, I will show you the book.

                1. tantrum profile image60
                  tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                  lol
                  Come to my FB at eight. I will show you mine ! big_smile

                  1. Bovine Currency profile image60
                    Bovine Currencyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                    Hot!  C U There

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    tantrumposted 7 years ago

    big_smile

  13. wesleyacarter profile image57
    wesleyacarterposted 7 years ago

    treat your lover as if you met them for the first time, every time you meet them.

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    try to learn something you did not know about them.

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    experience a new hobby together.

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    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

    Let me see...to spice up our romantic life...we do movie nights and go out to the movies and have dinner together. and ocne in a while I slip him a story....erotica style just to torture him big_smile

 
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