What are some ways to spice up your love life with your spouse?

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  1. Everyday life profile image59
    Everyday lifeposted 12 years ago

    What are some ways to spice up your love life with your spouse?

    This question is meant to get some fun ideas for spouses who are getting lonely or bored.
    Those who are tired of the same old things, but yet they have no idea of how to find it.

  2. Allen Williams profile image69
    Allen Williamsposted 12 years ago

    I think every marriage goes through some times of boredom or lack of spice but there are things that you can do to spice it up.  Being married almost 30 years, I have experienced the lulls at times but my wife and I have always managed to find things to do to bring it alive again.

    Some things you can do that do help are:

    Have a date night and keep it low key but romantic.  Maybe a movie and a nice dinner at a semi-fancy restaurant. You don't need t go over board for the same effect.

    Spend time in bed reminiscing about how you met and what you did on your first few dates.  Maybe even talk about how you explored each other in the beginning.  These things do bring back feelings that kicked off the relationship and it brings you to feel those feelings again.

    Try some new sex games. There are board games out there for lovers that can be quite fun.  Make up your own and the winner gets his or her choice of a sex act.

    Depending on your relationship, this may or may not work, but I know some people have tried it and enjoyed the results while others did not.  I am talking about bringing someone else in to join the two of you for a threesome, or a foursome.  Unless you are really secure in your relationship,  you might want to skip this.

    Use your imagination to try new things and have fun doing it.  That will keep the spark alive.  Good luck and have fun.

  3. Everyday life profile image59
    Everyday lifeposted 12 years ago

    I agree there are many things you can do. As for me the threesome thing ain't for me lol. Different people like different things. I think we all like the games. Let's not forget dressing up and role playing. That is always fun.
    I honestly believe that it is always good to have and open mind is and that the couples should learn to talk openly about what they like. This is always a good thing !!:-)))

  4. juiwei2000 profile image58
    juiwei2000posted 12 years ago

    What about sex, i mean you guys are married right, spice things up in the bed room nsmile


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