Where Do Haters Come From? If a person has a nice body or a nice car, etc. Why do People Hate?
It takes discipline to work out and eat the right food in order to maintain a good body. It takes discipline to gain the finer things in life. Why do a lot of people get angry or jealous over something that others have worked so hard for?
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Maybe I'm naive but I don't notice people like that toward me. If I do then I immediately remove myself from around them. I know they exist but I try to flock around people I'm cool with. I've earned what I have, I work out, I enjoy myself and I love the Lord so, that's what's important. I hope I haven't offended anyone.
Hi word55! In cases involving jealousy, it is good verses evil. A lack of understanding concerning how hard a person has worked to accomplish their goal seems heartless and rude.
swilliams, very good question. I imagine it is probably due to the fact those kind of haters just don't have the drive, ambition or dedication to make their own success or happiness and are simply envious of those that do. Very sad.
Now, if is hate based on prejudice or intolerance, there are surely other factors involved, such as insecurity with one's own appearance and beliefs. And in truth, this kind of jealousy can be not just more dangerous, but is certainly more pathetic.
I agree Beth! I I feel that this form of hate is also geared towards authors/writers, who are harassed over their articles by guest users or even community users. A person reaches out for insight only to be mocked could be a form animosity.
Oh gosh, that is so very true! And animosity is so very useless. It creates nothing positive at all!
Because they don't have it. They want to pacify themselves for not having the things that people they hate have. Some people who hate others are just well, hate them for no reason. Some people are just going with the flow.
That's human nature I guess.
Because that's all they have. They want to disturb others. And even that's nothing. The wise ones are neither worried about them nor offended by them. They don't care what they think and they don't pay much attention to them or think about them. It is their problem. Life is a celebration. It is about happiness and enjoyment. The haters are possessed by negative thoughtforms. It is their choice and their self destruction. It makes no difference at all whatever they think. The party goes on without them.
Unfortunately, hatin' or envy is a part of our human nature and social conditioning. We all want to survive, to be the best, to be the fittest. Seeing someone doing well (or what we perceive as donig well) triggers our insecurities and yearnings. I think most haters find it difficult to share in someone else's joy because of their own shortcomings. They see something they envy and covet. The funny thing is, as you've implied, is that they have no idea the work that went into what they perceive as success or what sacrifices were made to attain it. I wrote a poem hub on "Envy" which basically says, "don't assume and be careful what you wish for."
I believe the main cause is envy. People don't want to do the work needed to receive the rewards they desire.
They'll see someone who has what they want and automatically envy them because that person doing better than them sheds light on the lack of their ambition. It throws salt on the open wound of their insecurity.
But that's just my opinion though
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