ANALYZING Negaters, Haters

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  1. gmwilliams profile image83
    gmwilliamsposted 2 months ago

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    There are people who HATE to see others succeed & improve their lives.  These people have a crab in the barrel mentality.  They feel that if they made bad choices & didn't succeed, others SHOULDN'T either.  They seem to rationalize their poor lifestyle choices.    Negaters, haters, & other negative people have MISERABLE lives.  If their lives were miserable, why would they ATTACK people who do & live better than they do?

    1. quicksand profile image72
      quicksandposted 2 months agoin reply to this

      Great analysis indeed. But that does not assure us any protection from such people.

      1. gmwilliams profile image83
        gmwilliamsposted 2 months agoin reply to this

        IGNORE the negaters, haters & other negative folk, they WISH they were you which explains their ENVY.   They are incapable of using that energy to IMPROVE themselves.  They would rather be MIRED in negativity & a lower state of being.

    2. Live to Learn profile image78
      Live to Learnposted 2 months agoin reply to this

      You do realize that your OP could easily be categorized as negating and hating?

    3. wilderness profile image97
      wildernessposted 2 months ago

      Can we infer that you hate yourself for not having children, choosing money over the love and happiness of a house full of family and the laughter of children? smile

      1. gmwilliams profile image83
        gmwilliamsposted 2 months agoin reply to this

        NOT AT  ALL, LOVE MY LIFESTYLE.  WISH THAT I COULD HAVE DONE EVEN BETTER SOCIOECONOMICALLY!  NEVER wanted kids.  Always wanted a CAREER which I had. THANK YOU. NOT EVERYONE WANTS KIDS & IMPOVERISHMENT!  WHEN WILL YOU LEARN NOT EVERYONE WANTS TO BE LIKE YOU?!
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        I will turn YOUR question on YOU:  Do you INFER that you are UNHAPPY because you never used all of your human potential to attain the most socioeconomic success, preferring struggle?  Did you have children because of outside familial & societal pressure? Most people have children because of OUTSIDE pressure, not because they wanted them. If you are HAPPY w/your choice, why are you BELITTLING my choice!  I chose socioeconomic success & a childfree lifestyle.  I am middle class but if I had to do it over, I would be UPPER class.  That is the ONLY regret I have that I didn't attain UPPER class status.  Well, I STILL have time...……...to do that!

        1. wilderness profile image97
          wildernessposted 2 months agoin reply to this

          ??  But I didn't belittle you for your choice not to have a family - not at all!  It is your choice, not mine, and it is your goal to be a social climber, not mine.

          How about you?  You're on record as plainly stating that the ONLY goal should be accumulation of wealth.  Are people that set different goals for themselves thus to be belittled and scorned because they value something you don't?

          Let me explain something to you.  I am on the downswing of my life, retired and living a middle class life.  I have exactly zero interest in impressing people with my sartorial elegance, with name brand clothes or a closet full of jewelry.  I have no use for a Mercedes, a mansion or a butler and housekeeper.  I do my own repairs and enjoy not only the work but the feeling of accomplishment.

          But I have 2 children and 6 grandchildren; every time I hear the word "Grandpa" I melt just a little.  My favorite shirt is a T shirt that says "The best Dads get promoted to Grandpa".  I would not exchange even one of them to be a billionaire, for the shallow goals of money or indulgence mean nothing to me.  Those things never did matter; far more important to me to give of myself to my children, my 4 siblings, my remaining parent and my friends.  It absolutely makes my day when my grand daughter climbs into my lap for a snuggle, a hug and an "I love you, Grandpa!".

          That does not mean you have to agree and set your goals as I did and do.  They are your goals, not mine, and whether I find them shallow and inconsequential is irrelevant because of that.  My only wish is that you could see it within yourself to recognize that others are different, but that difference does not translate into being "worse" somehow because they don't match your own desires in life.  Your goals, your desires, your pleasures and enjoyment are not common to every person on the planet, and they should not be.  It takes all types, including the social climbers that value money more than love and family.

          1. Melissa A Smith profile image98
            Melissa A Smithposted 2 months agoin reply to this

            If she was really so happy with her life she wouldn't be ranting in such a fashion that she has been doing for years. She is definitely doing the most 'hating' here, it almost looks like a parody.

            1. wilderness profile image97
              wildernessposted 2 months agoin reply to this

              It does make one wonder, doesn't it?  I can't recall a single person every saying that everyone should be poor and with large families, but I sure recall Grace stating that the only real goal is to become wealthy - that everyone not subscribing to that goal is substandard and stupid.

              So who is really unhappy and "hating"?

              1. gmwilliams profile image83
                gmwilliamsposted 2 months agoin reply to this

                ENVY is such a TERRIBLE thing.  WELL, to each his/her own.  You all have to live off what you make, NOT I!

                1. wilderness profile image97
                  wildernessposted 2 months agoin reply to this

                  What, then, if not living off what you make yourself?  Entitlements such as section 8 and food stamps?

                  Next weekend I go camping with my son, his wife and 5 of my grandchildren where I will help a 10 year old assemble a wood project I helped him purchase at a flea market near where we camped last weekend.  Wealth beyond your most voracious dreams of avarice...to me.  Worth all the money in the world...to me, for I do not measure wealth by the number of pennies I have accumulated but by the love I share with others.

                  1. lovetherain profile image80
                    lovetherainposted 2 months agoin reply to this

                    Yep, you got it

                    1. gmwilliams profile image83
                      gmwilliamsposted 2 months agoin reply to this

                      Pure gooblygook, pure gooblygook! Love doesn't pay the bills nor keep a roof over one's head.  MONEY does, man.  When will you realize THAT!  HOPELESS talking to YOU.  I  am now going to IGNORE you.

                  2. Melissa A Smith profile image98
                    Melissa A Smithposted 2 months agoin reply to this

                    Dare I say, I think she's just jealous.

                    1. wilderness profile image97
                      wildernessposted 2 months agoin reply to this

                      I believe the terminology being used is "envious", not jealous.  But yes, there has to be something there - years of degrading and denigrating poorer people and those with children; now this rant against people classified as "haters".

                    2. gmwilliams profile image83
                      gmwilliamsposted 2 months agoin reply to this

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                  3. gmwilliams profile image83
                    gmwilliamsposted 2 months agoin reply to this

                    You two have to live off the little you make, NOT I.  I don't have to live off a pittance....…….If you two struggle, FINE w/me!   Not MY problem whatsoever.  If you two see struggle as normative which YOU TWO do, FINE.   It's YOUR "life", not MINE.  If you want to be MIRED in poverty/subsistence, that's YOUR business...……..You two are the ones who have to live meagerly, not ME!

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                    You brought up Section 8 and food stamps.  I don't know anyone who lives on Section 8 & have food stamps.  Are you on Section 8 & have food stamps, I am just asking?    Do you know people on Section 8 & on food stamps?   

                    Wilderness, get yourself together- leave the STRUGGLE behind, my man.  Poverty is a DISEASE.  That is why SMART people who are poor fight to get out of poverty & being poor.  There is no glorification in being poor, my man.   Poverty is a...……….DISEASE...…………….which people can get out of...…………. My God, it is MUCH WORSE than I thought!


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                    1. Live to Learn profile image78
                      Live to Learnposted 2 months agoin reply to this

                      Somehow, you aren't painting a picture of a life one would envy.

                    2. wilderness profile image97
                      wildernessposted 2 months agoin reply to this

                      The only real (legal) ways I know of to live without working for it are the entitlement programs and theft.  A very few can sponge off parents, at least for a while.  You deny entitlements and I assume you have more honor than to sponge off your parents for your wants and needs.  That doesn't leave a whole lot...

            2. gmwilliams profile image83
              gmwilliamsposted 2 months agoin reply to this

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              DRINK the koolaid……….

    4. gmwilliams profile image83
      gmwilliamsposted 2 months ago

      For the last TWO posters:
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      Remember ENVY is TOXIC.  Live YOUR OWN lives, don't criticize nor worry about OTHER'S lives as long as they don't bother YOU!    ENVY is t-o-x-I-c...……………..Must be UNHAPPY to criticize ANOTHER'S LIFESTYLE CHOICE,  hmmmmmmm…………

      This DEMONSTRATES that the less successful are threatened by the highly successful.  The former are struggling & hate the highly successful because they don't have to struggle & have more myriad lifestyle choices.  Don't hate less successful ones, CREATE more prosperity!

      1. Live to Learn profile image78
        Live to Learnposted 2 months agoin reply to this

        LOL.

        1. gmwilliams profile image83
          gmwilliamsposted 2 months agoin reply to this

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          Gotcha THAT koolaid, you must be so thirsty.  Have a...…….DRINK.  HAVE A...……...DRINK, my dear...…..
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          1. Live to Learn profile image78
            Live to Learnposted 2 months agoin reply to this

            This is where you and I are different. I see displays such as this thread as insecurity. Blatant attempts for validation. I've never felt much need to impress. You do your thing. Be happy. Give others the same leeway. As wilderness pointed out, people are different. It should be celebrated, not denigrated because of some personal issues.

            Some of the happiest and most contented people I've known in life were poor, by my standards.  Some were rich, by my standards. Conversely, most of the most miserable souls I've met were money grubbers and constantly looking around for people to scoff at. I always assumed it had more to do with personal insecurity than anything else. They needed validation and were happy to dig their heels into anyone else if it made them perceive themselves as better. It's quite sad. And sometimes laughable.

            1. gmwilliams profile image83
              gmwilliamsposted 2 months agoin reply to this

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    5. gmwilliams profile image83
      gmwilliamsposted 2 months ago

      People who are envious of others tend to criticize those who are more successful than they are.  There are people who are mired in negativity & want others to have the same lifestyle as theirs.  Yes, misery loves company.   It is the less successful & less educated who have THE MOST ENVY.   They HATE to see others DO better than they do.   

      Why do people ENVY, even HATE those who accomplish their goals?  People are threatened by others' success.  Why?  If people tend to THEIR OWN affairs & IMPROVE themselves, they wouldn't have time to criticize others who are MORE SUCCESSFUL than they are.

    6. gmwilliams profile image83
      gmwilliamsposted 2 months ago

      To those who criticize educated, wealthy, & successful people as so-called greedy.  To those who criticize people who have more myriad socioeconomic choices:  REMEMBER THIS:
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      ENVY is toxic,  it is even DEADLY.  So instead of criticizing the former, GET YOUR OWN LIFE in order.  If YOUR life was so great, you wouldn't be criticizing others who have more myriad socioeconomic choices you have & are more successful than you.  Highly educated, wealthy, & successful people ADD to society.  They make society...……..BETTER for themselves, their children, & for OTHERS!  They are to be...…...ADMIRED.

    7. Kathryn L Hill profile image79
      Kathryn L Hillposted 2 months ago

      My advice is to just ignore the Negaters and Haters. Don't even pinpoint them. Let them hate and negate until they get weary of it. They will.

      1. gmwilliams profile image83
        gmwilliamsposted 2 months agoin reply to this

        +100000000000000000000000000000000! YES, they HATE.  HATRED denotes INSECURITY.  Just like the Nazis who hated Jews.  The Jews were educated & FAR MORE successful than the Nazis, many of whom were uneducated, poor, & unsuccessful if they weren't Nazis.  Hitler LED the PACK!   Hitler was a TOTAL FAILURE before he became a Nazi & took power in Germany.  Remember, HATERS are FAILURES.  If they weren't FAILURES, they wouldn't be...……...HATERS.  RIGHT AGAIN, KATHRYN.

    8. IslandBites profile image87
      IslandBitesposted 2 months ago

      Ugh.

      *SMH

    9. Kathryn L Hill profile image79
      Kathryn L Hillposted 2 months ago

      lol  lol   lol

    10. Kathryn L Hill profile image79
      Kathryn L Hillposted 2 months ago

      Apparently, the government is greedy.

      For instance: Consider the death tax. roll

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