What does one prefer in marriage - profit or emotion ?

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   supremeupbeat kposted 10 years ago

   What does one prefer in marriage - profit or emotion  ?
   
   Do you think one marries a boy or girl  whom he or she considers more profitable in material world than emotional ground?
   
   

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   jlparkposted 10 years ago

   I can only answer for me. And am answering on the basis of the way the question was asked.
   
   I married for emotion (the emotion being love), not money. Whether my wife was a millionaire or destitute does not and will not ever bother me.
   
   I think it's sad if someone is marrying for money, not love.

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      supremeupbeat kposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      you are emotional and loving.

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   DDEposted 10 years ago

   I know of some who have married for materialism and money. Those who have married on the emotional ground don't care for materialism. So, most prefer to marry on the materialistic way.

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      supremeupbeat kposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      so there are two types of fellow.which do you prefer?

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   connorjposted 10 years ago

   
   
   A wise sage once asked three questions. (1) Would you marry for wealth?
   (2) would you marry for true love? (3) would you stay independent and not share in marriage?
   At first glance the most unlikely choice is (2); however, once you contemplate this (2) is the only choice. If you marry for wealth not only will you become unfulfilled eventually you will probably be separated or ruined and you may also propagate this in your offspring. That is a dangerous flow and trajectory for a river; that usually ends in a fall(s). You would be better off meandering; although, even a meander is less ideal. Since it's trajectory is chaotic and it's flow is slow.
   I contend if you truly marry for Agape love, with God's Grace you will become an awesome and significant force of one. You, your children, and grandchildren will be optimal in terms of direction, flow and will probably end up fortunate, spewing love rather than hate, self-actualized more significantly, content, validated, fearless, and well on your way when you pass on.

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      supremeupbeat kposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      thanx for such a brilliant and explaining reply.

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