Who deserves your intense love?

Jump to Last Post 1-4 of 4 discussions (9 posts)
  1. m abdullah javed profile image75
    m abdullah javedposted 4 years ago

    Who deserves your intense love?

  2. dashingscorpio profile image87
    dashingscorpioposted 4 years ago

    No one "earns" your love. It is something (you) choose to give someone.
    Each of us chooses our own friends, lovers, and spouse. Everyone has their own criteria for selecting a mate or even electing to date someone. Oftentimes people are in love with the thought of being in love and they choose to ignore "red flags"
    Never separate your mind from your heart when making relationship decisions. The purpose of the mind is to protect the heart. You have to know what you want and need in mate!
    Generally speaking it takes (time) for people to reveal their "authentic selves". Initially everyone is on their "best behavior" during the "infatuation phase" of a new relationship. Oftentimes this is when people make the mistake of over committing, trusting, and giving their all before they've gotten to know the person through the various ups and downs that come with living day to day. Some folks will say and do anything to win you over!
    "Every new love is your soul-mate until you realize they are not."
    You have to be willing to invest your time getting to know someone and be aware if their values are the same as yours. Make sure they want the same things for the relationship, naturally agree with you on how to obtain those things and last but not least there is a (mutual) love and desire for one another. Like attracts like in the long run and opposites attract divorce attorneys.
    "Never love anyone who treats you like you're ordinary."
    - Oscar Wilde

    1. m abdullah javed profile image75
      m abdullah javedposted 4 years agoin reply to this

      Excellent dashing....your words are very true. But there are some relations that demand your unconditional love, your God, your parents, your teachers i think these domains need more attention for ascribing an intense love. Thanks for your response.

    2. dashingscorpio profile image87
      dashingscorpioposted 4 years agoin reply to this

      Only God can love "unconditionally". People have been known to kill their parents and teachers. In fact having self-esteem means you don't allow others to walk all over you or abuse you. Most humans have "deal breakers" for all their relationships

    3. m abdullah javed profile image75
      m abdullah javedposted 4 years agoin reply to this

      Thats the darker side of a persson that he turn out to be cruel against their benefactors. But as far those who are true to their nature definitely show a sense of gratitude with their unconditional love.

  3. rebelogilbert profile image84
    rebelogilbertposted 4 years ago

    It's a tough question. But I like loyal friends. People who enjoy sharing parts of their life with me, and are open to responding to things I like to share with them. I think inconsistency is harmful in establishing any trust in a relationship. I don't expect everyone to love me. I know I can't love everyone either. I feel more comfortable with two way communication, not one way effort that leads to unresponsive replies. I agree family is important. Family members gets involved with their personal agendas just like everyone else. Sometimes family members don't communicate with each other as much as they should. It takes an effort from both sides.

    1. m abdullah javed profile image75
      m abdullah javedposted 4 years agoin reply to this

      Exactly Gilbert Sir, what you have related here is a purely based on your experience & observation. I do agree with you. Thanks for the response.

  4. DDE profile image25
    DDEposted 4 years ago

    People who treat you well and show you kindness who are trustworthy and have time for you deserve your intense.

    1. m abdullah javed profile image75
      m abdullah javedposted 4 years agoin reply to this

      Very well said Devika! Thank you.


This website uses cookies

As a user in the EEA, your approval is needed on a few things. To provide a better website experience, hubpages.com uses cookies (and other similar technologies) and may collect, process, and share personal data. Please choose which areas of our service you consent to our doing so.

For more information on managing or withdrawing consents and how we handle data, visit our Privacy Policy at: https://hubpages.com/privacy-policy#gdpr

Show Details
HubPages Device IDThis is used to identify particular browsers or devices when the access the service, and is used for security reasons.
LoginThis is necessary to sign in to the HubPages Service.
Google RecaptchaThis is used to prevent bots and spam. (Privacy Policy)
AkismetThis is used to detect comment spam. (Privacy Policy)
HubPages Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide data on traffic to our website, all personally identifyable data is anonymized. (Privacy Policy)
HubPages Traffic PixelThis is used to collect data on traffic to articles and other pages on our site. Unless you are signed in to a HubPages account, all personally identifiable information is anonymized.
Amazon Web ServicesThis is a cloud services platform that we used to host our service. (Privacy Policy)
CloudflareThis is a cloud CDN service that we use to efficiently deliver files required for our service to operate such as javascript, cascading style sheets, images, and videos. (Privacy Policy)
Google Hosted LibrariesJavascript software libraries such as jQuery are loaded at endpoints on the googleapis.com or gstatic.com domains, for performance and efficiency reasons. (Privacy Policy)
Google Custom SearchThis is feature allows you to search the site. (Privacy Policy)
Google MapsSome articles have Google Maps embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
Google ChartsThis is used to display charts and graphs on articles and the author center. (Privacy Policy)
Google AdSense Host APIThis service allows you to sign up for or associate a Google AdSense account with HubPages, so that you can earn money from ads on your articles. No data is shared unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
Google YouTubeSome articles have YouTube videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
VimeoSome articles have Vimeo videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
PaypalThis is used for a registered author who enrolls in the HubPages Earnings program and requests to be paid via PayPal. No data is shared with Paypal unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
Facebook LoginYou can use this to streamline signing up for, or signing in to your Hubpages account. No data is shared with Facebook unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
MavenThis supports the Maven widget and search functionality. (Privacy Policy)
Google AdSenseThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Google DoubleClickGoogle provides ad serving technology and runs an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Index ExchangeThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
SovrnThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Facebook AdsThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Amazon Unified Ad MarketplaceThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
AppNexusThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
OpenxThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Rubicon ProjectThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
TripleLiftThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Say MediaWe partner with Say Media to deliver ad campaigns on our sites. (Privacy Policy)
Remarketing PixelsWe may use remarketing pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to advertise the HubPages Service to people that have visited our sites.
Conversion Tracking PixelsWe may use conversion tracking pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to identify when an advertisement has successfully resulted in the desired action, such as signing up for the HubPages Service or publishing an article on the HubPages Service.
Author Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide traffic data and reports to the authors of articles on the HubPages Service. (Privacy Policy)
ComscoreComScore is a media measurement and analytics company providing marketing data and analytics to enterprises, media and advertising agencies, and publishers. Non-consent will result in ComScore only processing obfuscated personal data. (Privacy Policy)
Amazon Tracking PixelSome articles display amazon products as part of the Amazon Affiliate program, this pixel provides traffic statistics for those products (Privacy Policy)