How to Find the Most Mentally Stimulating Person For Us?
For the intellectuals out there, our standards for people are a lot higher than average. We are usually unsatisfied and look for more stimulation. We try to look for the ones who can fill the void, but it is seemingly impossible. Someone is out there for us, for everybody, but to find the one who can really challenge us mentally, emotionally, psychologically is so difficult...How can we cope with how we are?
Actually I don't believe most people are looking for relationships to (challenge) us. Most people want "harmony" in their relationships.
The goal is to find someone who shares your same values, wants the same things for the relationship that you do, naturally agree with you on how to obtain those things, and last but not least there is a mutual depth of love and desire for one another.
Challenge usually means "drama" in relationships and marriages.
Like attracts like and opposites attract divorce attorneys!
I suspect there are niche online dating sites that cater to people with high IQs. One is called iqelite.com and another is called iqcatch.com . You might also check out Meetup.com which is comprised of a variety of groups that share similar interest/hobbies who get together once or more per month. Best wishes!
Yes, dashingscorpio. The final result should be achieving some sort of mutual harmony. I mention challenge just to find a person with a similar level of intellect and an openness to learn more in-depth about other topics!
I do agree with you about the goals that are: sharing the same values, wants the same things for the relationship and everything else. But for that specific person, in this case an intellectual, they want the same as general people, but to get it is a bit more difficult because they're asking for more in order to obtain that mutual harmony, you know ?
That's essentially what I'm asking!
Thank you very much for the advice and support, dashingscorpio! I appreciate you trying to help me by including dating sites specifically for people who are more interested in similarities rather than looks!
by paige1 8 years ago
relacionships dont works somentimes.cause we human got problems trusting one another.or somentimes we are with the wrong person.and we are to hard headed to accept it.....
by jaymelee23 8 years ago
I just wanted to say thanks to Hubpages and the community here. My honey is gone on ships for a month to two months at a time as a captain and using this site makes the time go by very quickly for me. I love reading all of the detailed and interesting hubs that a lot of you work at. I also enjoy...
by realtalk247 4 years ago
Why is it so hard for good people to have/find relationships with quality/good people?There is the internet, stir events-match.com, eharmony, sporting events, botanical garden evening events, plays, art work, parades, happy-hour, etc. It seems that good quality people have a difficult time...
Copyright © 2018 HubPages Inc. and respective owners. Other product and company names shown may be trademarks of their respective owners. HubPages® is a registered Service Mark of HubPages, Inc. HubPages and Hubbers (authors) may earn revenue on this page based on affiliate relationships and advertisements with partners including Amazon, Google, and others.
|HubPages Device ID||This is used to identify particular browsers or devices when the access the service, and is used for security reasons.|
|Login||This is necessary to sign in to the HubPages Service.|
|HubPages Traffic Pixel||This is used to collect data on traffic to articles and other pages on our site. Unless you are signed in to a HubPages account, all personally identifiable information is anonymized.|
|Remarketing Pixels||We may use remarketing pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to advertise the HubPages Service to people that have visited our sites.|
|Conversion Tracking Pixels||We may use conversion tracking pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to identify when an advertisement has successfully resulted in the desired action, such as signing up for the HubPages Service or publishing an article on the HubPages Service.|