How easy is it to forgive somebody who is not sorry for what they've done?
It really depends on how one defines forgiveness as well as what was done and how necessary that person is to your life.
What is (your) motive for forgiveness?
Personally speaking I define "forgiveness" as "letting go and moving". It's a decision one makes to no longer dwell on an issue anymore. You can't move on if you're obsessed with something.
It doesn't mean I have to maintain a relationship with them or pretend like it never happen. To forget is to throw away a valuable lesson. It's important to remember untrustworthy people.
"Never love anyone who treats you like you're ordinary."
- Oscar Wilde
Clearly if someone is not asking for forgiveness it's because they don't feel they did anything wrong or they don't think you're all that special. The risk of losing you from their life isn't worth the effort to ask you for forgiveness! Essentially they take you for granted.
by MegR 7 years ago
Is it ever o.k to celebrate someone's death, whatever they've done?
by Shwetha Shetty 5 years ago
Which one is bigger to forgive or say sorry to some one?Why do not we accept our mistake and say sorry for that if we are wrong?
by R9139 2 years ago
Could you forgive a friend if they stole from you?
by Rishad I Habib 2 years ago
Can you forgive a man who has raped you?Emotion is impermanent just like everything else in this world. Nothing lives forever. Just like happiness - anger & hatred may not last forever as well...I believe it wont be easy to forgive a rapist but would it matter after 30 - 40 years of the...
by Debra Allen 22 months ago
The Bible says that all one has to do is ask for forgiveness. Now being that, do you think that Satan might have already asked God for forgiveness? Now before you rattle off scripture.....I don't believe...but I could be wrong....that the Bible has nothing to say on that.
by Deepak Chaturvedi 6 years ago
Is that easy to forgive and forget?
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