I have been seeing a scorpio for a few months. He tells me he loves me all the t

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   Jondaposted 10 years ago

   I have been seeing a scorpio for a few months. He tells me he loves me all the time.  Last Saturday
   
   I asked him if other girls sent him pictures. He got upset and barely talks to me at all now. I think I hurt him. How do I fix it.

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   dashingscorpioposted 10 years ago

   Jonda, If asking a guy a question is all it took for him to abandon you it means he was never "in love" with you! He's not "the one" for you.
   In order for him to be "the one" he would have to see (you) as being "the one" . At the very least a soul-mate is someone who actually wants to be with you!
   What you asked him was a simple "yes" or "no" question.
   Anyone in a relationship who is afraid to ask questions is not being their "authentic self." Before long you'll be "walking on eggshells" in hopes of avoiding "upsetting him".
   A mature honest relationship involves people who are able to say what is on their mind and ask any questions they may have.
   Asking questions doesn't mean there are trust issues. It's not getting honest answers to your questions that causes trust issues!
   "Never love anyone who treats you like you're ordinary."
   - Oscar Wilde
   Clearly if someone barely talks to you they don't think you're all that special! Most "deal breakers" involve a lot more than asking questions. Unless you've been pounding him with acts of insecurity, jealousy, or attempts to smoother him there is no reason for this.
   The reality is you should be the one pulling away from him now and dating other people. Chasing after someone who doesn't want to be with you is a recipe for heartache.

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   chuckandus6posted 10 years ago

   I believe if this question makes him mad,/defensive then he probably is, unfortunately that is not what you want to know. The possibility that he may have been in a relationship prior where someone was insecure and suspicious for no reason and he might feel that you are being, although there is no connection with your question ti suspicion you are doing the right thing by being straightforward. (

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   Zelkiiroposted 10 years ago

   This is why I don't trust scorpions--you ask them a personal question, and they get all defensive. They never realize just how much their hostility stings, like venom flowing through my veins.

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      ChristinSposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Yes we're all like that too - it's always so fair to generalize a whole group of people by their birth month

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      dashingscorpioposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      "you ask them a personal question, and they get all defensive."
      Astrological signs will never replace getting to know an individual. No one is an "open book" regarding {all} of their (personal) thoughts and experiences. It's called "personal"!

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      Zelkiiroposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      People? Who's talking about people? I was continuing this engaging discussion on desert-based arachnids. :V

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      ChristinSposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      lol - I see what you did there... but I'm a scorpio and we have no sense of humor .

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   ChristinSposted 10 years ago

   Honey, his being a Scorpio has nothing to do with it.  If he is being unkind to you or deceptive, then accept that is who he is and either make him correct his behavior or move on to better things.  I'm a Scorpio and while I do keep secrets, I don't cheat on my partner or stop talking to him if he makes me mad.  Those are the traits of an immature person, not a person who happens to be born in late October or November . 
   
   People who "keep secrets" are not necessarily being deceptive however.  Keep in mind some of us are independent and like to keep a certain degree of autonomy even in our relationships.  It doesn't mean unfaithful etc.  I keep things to myself that I don't want to share, but I am very honest with my partner if he asks me something.  The fact yours got defensive and stopped talking speaks volumes.

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      dashingscorpioposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      " I'm a Scorpio and while I do keep secrets...etc".
      I knew there was something I liked about you!

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      Jondaposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Thank you, this was a long distance relationship. We have never actually met in person. I appreciate all the comments.  So I should say good bye and move on.

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