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Why woman compromise themselves

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    KholoHopeposted 2 years ago

    Why woman compromise themselves

    It so dissapointing to see woman compromise their values and what they want in a partner just because they want to be in a relationship and they  love their partners.  I think it's about time woman put them selves first and their needs first.  what I definitely know is that woman where created to give life, and nature, give growth to the seed that has been given.  How come we give so much love even when one does not deserve.

  2. Michaela Osiecki profile image79
    Michaela Osieckiposted 2 years ago

    I think it's important to note that society defines a woman's worth first by her attractiveness and second by her ability to maintain a relationship. And that's why women will compromise themselves for the sake of a boyfriend/husband/etc. Because they're socialized to believe they're worthless if they don't.

  3. Safari Chic profile image73
    Safari Chicposted 2 years ago

    I agree with KholoHope. Women should love themselves & put their needs first. In my opinion, looks are important to men because they're visual; however, looks alone is not enough to hook a man in for the long term. Men are attracted to a woman's feminine energy. A confident & intelligent woman with a passion & zest for life. Men are attracted to women who has goals, hobbies and a life apart from his. A relationship is 50/50. In my opinion, it's okay to compromise once the man has proven himself over time. A man needs a woman who trusts him and inspires him to be the very best he can be. It's all about needs & the way a woman carries herself.

  4. dashingscorpio profile image86
    dashingscorpioposted 2 years ago

    I believe the biggest misconception is (everyone) has the same values! They don't! There is someone for everyone's type.
    You said: "It so disappointing to see woman compromise their values and what they want in a partner just because they want to be in a relationship and they love their partners.
    "No one gets "everything" they want.
    Everyone makes "compromises".
    There are only two ways to experience joy and peace of mind in relationships: We either get what we want or we learn to be happy with what we have. Accept them as (is) or move on.
    I believe it's human nature for people to (choose) the best available option (they believe they can get) based upon the time and effort (they) are willing to put forward.
    Anyone who is sweeping floors and tells you they could have been the manager of the office is most likely lying to you as well as themselves.
    If one truly believes they "could do better" they would do better!
    No sane person walks away from a better option.
    Unless they decided the (price) for it was not worth it!
    Each of us (chooses) our own friends, lovers, and spouse.
    No one is "stuck" with anyone.
    There is no such thing as a "universal deal breaker". Whatever you or I could come up with there is someone who is living under those conditions and they have no plans of ever leaving. They stay by (choice).
    Being where you want to be is not settling.
    When we change our circumstances change.

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      KholoHopeposted 2 years agoin reply to this

      You said. To the point. I agree. I thin the problem is when one doess not love and know themselves to the point that they know they have a choice but they still say because they are not strong enough or have the carriage.