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Which is better, ladies? Good guy/relationship vs. good lay? ;)

  1. RachaelLefler profile image97
    RachaelLeflerposted 2 years ago

    Which is better, ladies? Good guy/relationship vs. good lay? wink

    Would you rather have a guy who was perfect for you in every way whom you really spiritually connected and had a fun-filled relationship with but he lasted all of 30 seconds and had no idea how to please a girl, OR a relationship that was kind of dull and not very special or fulfilling but the guy was fantastic in the sack?

  2. Molly Layton profile image83
    Molly Laytonposted 2 years ago

    I'd rather go with the relationship with an actual connection.

    1. RachaelLefler profile image97
      RachaelLeflerposted 2 years agoin reply to this

      I'd lean towards that too smile

  3. Annsalo profile image86
    Annsaloposted 2 years ago

    Neither. I pick the guy who is both or willing to become both. 0 seconds can be fixed! wink

  4. Aime F profile image84
    Aime Fposted 2 years ago

    First one.  Much easier to teach a guy how to please you than it is to teach a guy how to be an interesting person, or to learn how to be compatible with someone when you're not.

  5. tamarawilhite profile image91
    tamarawilhiteposted 2 years ago

    A woman's desire for emotional intimacy often results in sex, but true intimacy is emotional - and that connection will allow you to work on his sexual performance or other outlets for her with honesty and support.
    A "good lay" will stop being so if he gets lazy, out of shape, old - and that's not what you want in a long term relationship that sees you to middle age or with kids.

 
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