Truthfully most betrayed people could care less (why) someone cheats. Asking (why) is usually a "rhetorical question".
Most cheaters are looking to hold onto all that is "good" in their primary relationship while addressing their other "needs" on the side. Very few cheaters are looking to (replace) one relationship with another. They want to add to or "complement" what they already have. Others do it for the "thrill" of it.
There are basically 3 types of cheaters
1. The Incessant Cheater
(They bore easily and always want something "new".)
2. The Unbelievable Opportunity Cheater
(They caved in to "temptation" during a unique scenario)
3. The Discontented Cheater
(They blame you! Something you did or stopped doing.)
Ultimately each of us must decide for ourselves if cheating is a "deal breaker". It doesn't matter (why) unless you plan to stay.
Simple: Selfishness. They are more concerned with what they want than what is right. They put their desires above anything and everyone.
by optimus grimlock 8 years ago
If your with someone and dont want to be with them then dont. That simple dont cheat on them it makes things worse!!!
by Mariko Lewis-Davis 7 years ago
Why do people CHEAT?
by deecoleworld 4 years ago
What do people cheat?
by Anna 7 years ago
Why do you think people cheat on their significant other?
by Loving_Life 17 months ago
Why do people cheat when they're in a dedicated relationship?Why do men or/and women cheat in a relationship? Whats the point of cheating?And they lie about it if asked? Don't they feel guilty about cheating? If you want to cheat then why not break up with the person you're with first and...
by caroline johnson 9 years ago
why do people cheat when they are in a relationship?how should you react?
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