Truthfully most betrayed people could care less (why) someone cheats. Asking (why) is usually a "rhetorical question".
Most cheaters are looking to hold onto all that is "good" in their primary relationship while addressing their other "needs" on the side. Very few cheaters are looking to (replace) one relationship with another. They want to add to or "complement" what they already have. Others do it for the "thrill" of it.
There are basically 3 types of cheaters
1. The Incessant Cheater
(They bore easily and always want something "new".)
2. The Unbelievable Opportunity Cheater
(They caved in to "temptation" during a unique scenario)
3. The Discontented Cheater
(They blame you! Something you did or stopped doing.)
Ultimately each of us must decide for ourselves if cheating is a "deal breaker". It doesn't matter (why) unless you plan to stay.
Simple: Selfishness. They are more concerned with what they want than what is right. They put their desires above anything and everyone.
by optimus grimlock7 years ago
If your with someone and dont want to be with them then dont. That simple dont cheat on them it makes things worse!!!
by Mariko Lewis-Davis6 years ago
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