Why is my boyfriend being distant, when he's stressed?
This is almost 2 weeks since I haven't seen my boyfriend. He told me that he has been stressed out because he just got a new part time job and he's moving out soon. I do understand this and I have been calm for a while now. The thing is we don't communicate, he barely calls or text me. he can go out with he's boys but not see me? I feel so depressed cause I don't know what I have done. And he kept saying I'm being childish for not understanding! Everytime I mention it he freaks out saying that this is the last straw.. Seems like he's tired of me.. please give me some advice
"This is almost 2 weeks since I haven't seen my boyfriend."
"The thing is we don't communicate, he barely calls or text me."
"He can go out with he's boys but not see me."
"Every time I mention it he freaks out saying that this is the last straw." (Is he doing you a "favor" by dating you?)
The writing is on the wall. You're not a top priority in his life.
Know yourself, Love yourself, Trust yourself!
Instead of wasting more time waiting to be dumped you should move on. Thankfully we live on a planet with (7 Billion) other people! Life is too short be waiting by the phone.
"Never love anyone who treats you like you're ordinary."
- Oscar Wilde
Best wishes!
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