is it possible??

Jump to Last Post 1-6 of 6 discussions (10 posts)
  1. greeneyesH1982 profile image59
    greeneyesH1982posted 9 years ago

    is it possible to start having feelings for someone again even if you havent been with them and you rarely see them for the last 3-4 years or even a few years longer? OR did you never lose feelings for them in the first place? I am wondering about others opinion on this

  2. Dame Scribe profile image61
    Dame Scribeposted 9 years ago

    I don't think affection for friends and even ex's tongue ever dies, like a ember smile just don't obsess over it lol lol

    1. greeneyesH1982 profile image59
      greeneyesH1982posted 9 years agoin reply to this

      there is a specific reason I ask this but its kinda personal obsession is a totally different topic.. I am just wondering what the reason would be for having feelings for someone that you were with years ago and this whole time they have never went away ya know.. this is a person in my life who is still in my life and it sort of puts a dent on any new relationships that I do get into because they dont like the fact that I have someone who is very close to me who I used to date around.... but i am not going to stop talking with this person because they are still very important in my life.. this person knows EVERYTHING about me and he is my best friend and he knows this... he has given me many opportunities to tell him how I still feel about him but still to this day I can never give a direct answer so I am pretty sure this is why nothing ever develops or has the chance to because I did the same thing to him when we actually WERE in a relationship together lol I know sounds confusing... the thing is this we both know where we stand only I never want to say exactly how I feel so I dont and even after all these years I still cant bring myself to say it... even when the opportunity is right in my face.

      1. greeneyesH1982 profile image59
        greeneyesH1982posted 9 years agoin reply to this

        i also would like to add that he is the only person I keep around as far as the exes go... all my other exes and I dont have the same kind of relationship we dont speak at all... hes the only one besides my sons father of course

  3. Dame Scribe profile image61
    Dame Scribeposted 9 years ago

    As I said. Affection never dies and I have found accepting that once upon a time love did exist, makes for moving on with life, a lot easier. I have had guy probs after breaking up so I can't really say anything but I understand how a new guy would be confused with hanging onto a ex- as there is that 'friends with benefits' stuff that goes on tongue yeah, my childrens fathers still kick around but way over yonder lol lol

    1. greeneyesH1982 profile image59
      greeneyesH1982posted 9 years agoin reply to this

      but theres a problem because my old friend here see he and I still have very deep serious conversations... sort of like one would if they was happily married type of thing and when the question arises about how I feel about him I for some reason start making jokes or I dance around the bush without directly answering him.. in other words I am supposed to say look I love you I always have loved you sorry for bein such a moron about it and not telling you years ago when I should have and lets live happily ever after now... this is the response he has been looking for for such a long time.. I still get crap about this whole me not being honest with him from people who remember our relationship before... the reason we broke up in the first place was because I was a total airhead and basically broke his heart into a million pieces... maybe the fact that I dont want to admit I was wrong is playing a part in this? all I know is he still gives me the opportunity to tell him I have been in love with him this entire time but I never say it. maybe I still need to grow up some?

  4. Dame Scribe profile image61
    Dame Scribeposted 9 years ago

    Ah, smile yup, your inability to be honest with yourself will prevent honesty with others. tongue Trust is part of love and you either relinquish it for a relationship or hide it and yourself from others. Choice is yours what you want.

    1. greeneyesH1982 profile image59
      greeneyesH1982posted 9 years agoin reply to this

      ya know he is on my myspace page and there have been many many times where im up late at night and i go to his page start writing him an email about EVERYTHING... and I mean just lettin it all out there... He knows everything about me anyways except for this one LITTLE TINY thing... but everytime I start writing it i immediately start erasing it and thinking omg what am I doing hes gonna think I am total nuts! I really love him still to this day and I only want him to be happy no matter with who or what hes doing with his life... he knows this and if we go too long without talking he does write me back... but then again it just may be one of those things where I let happiness go because of my own fears in life.. and after everything I did to him it probably wouldnt be the same anyways but I cant help but notice the fact that hes the ONLY one of my passed who I still think about care about have feelings for and we still have that same kind of conversation like we always did... and tonight of course I started writing him again which is what brought this whole topic on and I did the same crap I always do I erased it and it never got sent... but I think I just may actually send it this time... I dunno though I get too scared and normally I am not the type that is afraid to say what I want or need to say lol ohhhh the irony!!!

  5. Has_aWayWithWords profile image65
    Has_aWayWithWordsposted 9 years ago

    Well I have been divorced for 2 years almost and everytime I see a picture of her and my daughter or when I talk to her I practically melt, I guess my answer is that if you truly love that person it never dies.

  6. efeguy profile image42
    efeguyposted 9 years ago

    when there is love before the space,then its possible that one cant forget.


This website uses cookies

As a user in the EEA, your approval is needed on a few things. To provide a better website experience, uses cookies (and other similar technologies) and may collect, process, and share personal data. Please choose which areas of our service you consent to our doing so.

For more information on managing or withdrawing consents and how we handle data, visit our Privacy Policy at:

Show Details
HubPages Device IDThis is used to identify particular browsers or devices when the access the service, and is used for security reasons.
LoginThis is necessary to sign in to the HubPages Service.
Google RecaptchaThis is used to prevent bots and spam. (Privacy Policy)
AkismetThis is used to detect comment spam. (Privacy Policy)
HubPages Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide data on traffic to our website, all personally identifyable data is anonymized. (Privacy Policy)
HubPages Traffic PixelThis is used to collect data on traffic to articles and other pages on our site. Unless you are signed in to a HubPages account, all personally identifiable information is anonymized.
Amazon Web ServicesThis is a cloud services platform that we used to host our service. (Privacy Policy)
CloudflareThis is a cloud CDN service that we use to efficiently deliver files required for our service to operate such as javascript, cascading style sheets, images, and videos. (Privacy Policy)
Google Hosted LibrariesJavascript software libraries such as jQuery are loaded at endpoints on the or domains, for performance and efficiency reasons. (Privacy Policy)
Google Custom SearchThis is feature allows you to search the site. (Privacy Policy)
Google MapsSome articles have Google Maps embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
Google ChartsThis is used to display charts and graphs on articles and the author center. (Privacy Policy)
Google AdSense Host APIThis service allows you to sign up for or associate a Google AdSense account with HubPages, so that you can earn money from ads on your articles. No data is shared unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
Google YouTubeSome articles have YouTube videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
VimeoSome articles have Vimeo videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
PaypalThis is used for a registered author who enrolls in the HubPages Earnings program and requests to be paid via PayPal. No data is shared with Paypal unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
Facebook LoginYou can use this to streamline signing up for, or signing in to your Hubpages account. No data is shared with Facebook unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
MavenThis supports the Maven widget and search functionality. (Privacy Policy)
Google AdSenseThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Google DoubleClickGoogle provides ad serving technology and runs an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Index ExchangeThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
SovrnThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Facebook AdsThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Amazon Unified Ad MarketplaceThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
AppNexusThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
OpenxThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Rubicon ProjectThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
TripleLiftThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Say MediaWe partner with Say Media to deliver ad campaigns on our sites. (Privacy Policy)
Remarketing PixelsWe may use remarketing pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to advertise the HubPages Service to people that have visited our sites.
Conversion Tracking PixelsWe may use conversion tracking pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to identify when an advertisement has successfully resulted in the desired action, such as signing up for the HubPages Service or publishing an article on the HubPages Service.
Author Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide traffic data and reports to the authors of articles on the HubPages Service. (Privacy Policy)
ComscoreComScore is a media measurement and analytics company providing marketing data and analytics to enterprises, media and advertising agencies, and publishers. Non-consent will result in ComScore only processing obfuscated personal data. (Privacy Policy)
Amazon Tracking PixelSome articles display amazon products as part of the Amazon Affiliate program, this pixel provides traffic statistics for those products (Privacy Policy)