We all lost it sometime

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   Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years ago

   How old were you when you lost it and did you REALLY enjoy it that much.
   
   I'll begin: I was 18, things  were slower in my day. In addition I was REALLY UGLY until 17 or 18. It was in college and a "townie picked me up. Huge car, back seat, you could count the seconds on one-maybe two hand(s) and of course it wasn't great.
   
   If I had just waited a couple of weeks...... Who am I kidding!

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      A Texanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      What was his name?  Sorry Harvey, I couldn't resist.

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         Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         Tex,
         
         I forget and I never saw his face. I do know it was some guy from near Austin or some Texas city. He got down in front of me, and kept saying;  one day I'm gonna be a writer. He added that he was gonna join the military first. Know anyone like that; wise guy?

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            A Texanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            Said I was sorry, jeez.

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   Cagsilposted 14 years ago

   I was 13 years old, if you're reference is to virginity?
   
   

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      Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Cag,
      
      Whatever made you think........................of course. You youngin's start earlier these days. I was so ugly at 13, no girl would even talk to me.

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         Cagsilposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         Yes, I was young, but it happens when you live in a broken home and learn about sex on the streets.
         
         If you're interested - A Lost Soul, My Missing Father Hub was just recently written. It might give you a little clarity about my life. Not all of my life, but some of my early years.

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   NewYorkerposted 14 years ago

   14 years, two months and eighteen days old!
   
   And yes, I REALLY enjoyed it that much.

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      Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      New Yorker,
      
      I hope you're not in the Bronx; I grew up across the street from the old Yankee Stadium. Sounds good.

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   Crazdwriterposted 14 years ago

   Virginity? I was 22 and it was with my now husband...it was weird but nice at the same time.
   
   Lose our mind? I lost that years ago like tween years I think when my imagination really got going

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      Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      oh!! lost my mind? who says I ever had it?.... 

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         Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         You mean you lost it right after you came out of the womb? Wow lol

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            Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this

            i mean.....im not sure ive ever had full control of my mind..

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               Flightkeeperposted 14 years agoin reply to this

               Justine, I'm on the same boat as you are and it's a crowded boat

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                  Cagsilposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                  Actually Flightkeeper, there are people on that boat pushing others off, just to make room.

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                  Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this

                  its so crowded in here....im loosing my mind!!!   haha 

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               Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

               Just,
               
               Who is?

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            Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            craz,
            
            I guess if you are in the womb you are.......................oh my G-D.  What ever you do, don't think of your mother.

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      Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      craz,
      
      Thanks, I though I would be the oldest to lose it.  I'm just one of the oldest age wise.

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   Justine76posted 14 years ago

   i was 18. i didnt 'loose' it. It was taken without my permission, and no, I didnt like it too much. But he was my 'boyfriend' so it was my fault. Really sucked when he broke up with me the next day.

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      Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Wow justine I am so sorry *hugs*

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         Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this

           thanks, it was a looooong time ago. Im ok now.

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      NewYorkerposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Oh, that sucks. I'm so sorry for you.

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      Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Justine,
      
      That sucks all around, the guys a real shit. He's the type that gives guys a bad name.

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   blondepoetposted 14 years ago

   Also taken without my permission (14)

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      Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      

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      Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Blondie,
      
      I guess there are lousy guys all over. I hear about these ass-holes too often. I am pro-removal!

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      Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Blondie,
      
      This is so hard to hear so frequently, even for a normal guy. Don't guys know that NO, means NO!

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   lyricsingrayposted 14 years ago

   still waiting at 43

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      blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Haaaaaaaaa I liked that one.

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      Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      lyric,
      
      I have a list of over 500 names that would swear to.................

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   Flightkeeperposted 14 years ago

   Are we talking about virginity, minds or adsense accounts?

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      Uninvited Writerposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      

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      Cagsilposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      I wasn't sure myself.

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         lyricsingrayposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         

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      NewYorkerposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Virginities. I think.

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      Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Flight,
      
      If you don't know.......................

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   Justine76posted 14 years ago

   what? adsense? oh...i was waaaay off on that one...  ha

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      blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Heck I just caught the wrong bus.

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         Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this

         story of my life....

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            lyricsingrayposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            me too

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            Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            Justine & lyric,
            
            You need to get away from the wrong guys. Many of us are actually nice.

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    Crazdwriterposted 14 years ago

    So we were talking about when you lost your mind? or adsense? i'm confused now

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    waynetposted 14 years ago

    I lost it when this little penguin came along and he said get off my lawn, so I just started throwing snowballs at the little penguin birdy and things calmed down after a short while.
    
    As for poppin my cherry, I was about 15 years old and this inflatable doll called Mavis just came into my life, but then she just had to leave the next day because it wouldn't have worked, not with her career to think about!

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       EmpressFelicityposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Veering slightly off-topic...
       
       I once got on a bus and this man got on at the next stop and sat in front of me.  He had a fully blown-up inflatable sheep under his arm, so I spent the rest of my journey looking at its backside

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          Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this

            ohhhh where is denno?

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             Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

             Empress,
             
             Good one, I'mglad you can still breath.

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             Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

             Just,
             
             That was Deeno.

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          waynetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          hahahaha....was it baaaaaaad ass!

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       Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Way,
       
       Good one. I have a friend that partied with her.

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    blondepoetposted 14 years ago

    Have we worked out yet what we are talking about here?
    Where is Harvey?
    

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       Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Blondie, 
       
       I'm here, soon it will be NITE-NITE!

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    Eaglekiwiposted 14 years ago

    Im still trying to move past  Mavis 

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       blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Hey EK where you been buddy???

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       Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Eagle,
       
       Get on line!

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    Eaglekiwiposted 14 years ago

    Relocated BP ,not far but no connection ,ya know how that goes....amazing life before the internet ,gosh they invented some new things since I been gone but the eagle has landed -

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       blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Yayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!!!!! me partner in crime has returned.

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    sneakorocksolidposted 14 years ago

    I'll exercise my right to remain silent on this one.

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    Colebabieposted 14 years ago

    I was 18. It was on the floor in my bedroom. I was in love, and still am. It was spontaneous, unexpected, a little awkward but still great. We took a shower together afterwards. It definitely wasn't the best sex I've ever had. We have had amazing since then. We've been together for almost five years now.

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       Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Cole,
       
       Nice story.

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    PrettyPantherposted 14 years ago

    I was 19 and in love with his intellect.  He was incredibly smart, a Ph.D. in physics studying nuclear fusion.  He was also 36 years old, a returning student who already had master's degrees in economics and mathematics.
    
    The sex was not good.  I was with him for three years and when he asked me to marry him I split.  He wasn't "the one."

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       Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       pretty,
       
       Lucky you got out.

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    probafixposted 14 years ago

    i am still waiting for something to be happen
    
    i am only 23.

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       Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       pro,
       
       Call Rosey Palm.

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    Eaglekiwiposted 14 years ago

    Well Im not telling ,so there , but I was annoyed cuz I missed Gidget

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       Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Eagle,
       
       I'll bet you were watching it.

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    Chaotic Chicaposted 14 years ago

    More women lose it before they are ready than we will ever know about. I was four months shy of 19 and a guy who roomed with a good friend of mine knew I was innocent and decided that I had been waiting too long and took the honors for himself. I was so shocked that I couldn't even register what was happening. He spent time at Leavenworth and can never enlist again. It changes you.

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    taganistedposted 14 years ago

    A few days after my 16th birthday, it was kind of uncomfortable and really boring.

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